Polls

it was like two dollars at a thrift store so it’s alright if it sucks but. is it too simple/boring?

OK let’s talk about pros and cons.

Pros:

- I hate leaving the house
- I work from home
- I only want to date Arab guys and Arabs are not the majority here
- I’m bored (yes. That’s a pro)
- I met one of my exes on an app before

Cons:
- My ex was weirdly obsessed with his mother (although he was very very good looking tbh)
- So much ghosting!!! (My poor self esteem)
- People say a lot of these guys are married
- There are a lot of weirdly sexual guys on there nothing wrong with being sexual but there’s a time and place for it. Don’t tell me you want to suck my feet the first min we talk
- Rejection (I know it’s part of life but I got rejected a lot because of my religious beliefs and once cause of my looks)

In my opinion it's 6ft or taller.

Or someone who's abnormally tall?

If you have a preference, what's the minimum height you'll accept from your significant other?

For instance: my first name is Joanne, but I really do not like it being used like this, (most of the time) for many reasons. Mainly due to my mum/parents, and it being a trigger and a trauma response. Hence why I prefer Jo.

I've heard this from many people before.

Does it evoke a sense of dread for you? Or do you feel calm/nothing?

What do you feel, when your name is said?

Does it depend on tone of voice and/or who's saying it and why?

What feelings, if any, come up, when you hear it?

Why do you like/not like hearing it/in that way?

Have you done anything to try and change how you feel about it etc?

Have you changed your name? Do you prefer to use a nickname? If so, why?

Anything else you want to add, please do xx

I have this weird thing where I usually clean a lot... I like it..

For example if I'm a guest at someone's house and I use the bathroom I might clean the toilet and the sink (not the whole bathroom). Or if I'm babysitting I will do the same and might dust off a bit around the house... would that make you upset?

Hi. I turned 23 this year. I dont have any college degree. I dropped out about 2 years ago because i was unmotivated and i was not passionate at all of what i was studying for, but im getting older and time doesn't stop for anyone.

I can't keep waiting because the fact that i have wasted 5 years of my life for the mere fact that i dont know what i want, is getting more ridiculous and embarrassing each year. Lately i cannot stop thinking about going back to college. I have to choose a path this time because at least i know where i would be going. Last time i went to college i just chose a certain study but didn't know what it was for.

My mom is a nurse and have been telling me to study nursing. This is only because i keep telling her i dont know what i want. Years ago i’d just ignore her, but I've just been stuck and need to move forward, so i have started to actually think about being a nurse. It seems to pay enough. I dont have a kid, or any major bills i have to spend money on. So it seems good enough for me.

I have a lot on my mind. Like how hard it might be, the classes, the actual job, and im scared of going to college again, but i realize i have to try because the other option is staying where i have been my whole life and its draining the life out of me. My friends have graduated, moved places, getting real jobs, and im still the same as i was at 18.

I have a boyfriend (somehow) who loves me and is supportive of me. He made me realize I've just been making excuses to not go back. That im just scared of failing (typical). I was surprised he gave me a little tough love lol. I have nothing else going on in my life. I know some people dont need college to succeed but i know im not one of those people.

Am i right/wrong to just wanna pursue nursing for this reason? Im guessing even if i regret it, it won't be a bigger regret than staying where i am at right now. Right

My Dad and I keep having that argument, in which he says I watched t. v. waaay too much for my age, and I argue back I didn't. I watched t. v. just like any normal girl out there in my region.

You be the Judge, judging by the picture below. Did I over-watch t. v. back in the days?

This is a picture that was taken after my usual session of T. v. amusement one day:

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Example: Let’s say a woman who is a stranger to you gives you her address saying you can come over and sleep with her. Would you endanger yourself by going to a strangers house, somebody you don’t know anything about, just for that chance?

I am curious about this because I feel like men aren’t that concerned about their safety in these situations. I’ve seen some men propose to go to somebody’s house on a first date, despite not knowing that person very well. Isn’t that concerning?