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My bfs brother is constantly meddling in his business and in our relationship he has as well in the past…. his older bro also criticizes him to me when he isn’t around says stuff like him being useless and what do I see in him, that he’s all about himself and doesn’t care about family and that he has a bad disability, but that’s not the case at all about my bf….

so why does his older brother speak negatively about him to me or try to meddle in his business or our relationship? Is he jealous of his brother?

I have to iron everything but can you help me choose?

They knew but didn't want to break up the family and were likely hoping their cheating mother or father stop.

I would get hurt but still, I can't imagine banning my own blood from my life and never speaking to them again. Even some parents of criminals still visit them in prison. I believe unconditional love is exactly that, unconditional even if they betray you... you just don't stop loving them.

I heard a story about that. It goes like this:

- A gets caught cheating (in the act) and is remorseful.

- B breaks up but then reconciles and they worked it out.

- Years later they get married and have kids.

- B suddenly cheats for revenge, feels nothing for the affair person.

- B at least confesses to it and stops the affair

They're both even. Is it ever right to cheat back? What if it's out of just revenge and you're even using the affair person, feel nothing for them?

My relationship lasted 4.5 years, and it ended 2 weeks ago. We are doing the no-contact rule, so I can't discuss anything with him now. But, he decided to end it because he "felt like the bad guy," communication/compatibility issues, and my close-minded family (even though that was a minor issue out of everything). He said that he wanted to work on himself to understand his emotions/feelings better, make himself a better person, needed time/space, and he couldn't do it while we were together still. He also said he couldn't guarantee that he would return right now since he is unsure what he wants and has started therapy to figure that out. He discussed moving to another state since most of his family lives there, but he hadn't told me when he planned to leave. He even broke up with me over the phone and not in person. I asked to see him at least one more time in person to discuss it at least (we live 3 hours away from each other), and he said no.

I'm unsure how to feel about all of this besides a massive unfairness since I deserve the "best" version of him when he is done with therapy, and I didn't want to end it. I have researched his likelihood of returning online, and it seemed up in the air. The breakup wasn't the worst, and I know he still loves/cares about me to a certain degree since we did last this long. I feel like I am not getting all of the information about how he feels since he mentioned how he was "done/tired" of the relationship, but his plan after a month of no contact was to be "friends" (which could easily change now) initially with the breakup. What do you think? Do you think there's a chance of him returning after therapy? I know not to bank on it, but I wanted to see if other people were in a similar situation and what happened. His mom still supports me and is helping me process this the best she can. It feels weird because it felt rushed, and he seems indifferent about it all now. Like he even bought an engagement ring for me and everything.

I know it was popular a couple years ago, but I only just tried it today. I didn’t have lemons so I used lemon juice. I thought it wasn’t bad, but very overly sweet thanks to the condensed milk. Definitely something I wouldn’t want to have every day.

Both these people are trans.

One is a woman, and the other is a man.

There are no gender neutral restrooms.

Who should use the women's restroom?