Do all men cheat?

[mysticqueen]

I was having a discussion with my male friend and he said “All men cheat” is this true?

Yes All men cheat

No All men do not cheat

[God_of_Thunder]

Obviously not, no. Anybody who says "all men" or "all women" is full of shit.

Some guys do cheat, unfortinately, but a lot don't, either. I've never cheated, nor have I ever been tempted, and I know several other men that haven't either.

Despite what some people think, not every guy condones cheating, either, even if they're not the ones doing it. Several years ago, one of my best friends cheated on his wife, and I immediately lost all respect for the guy. We haven't spoken in over 15 years, because of it.

So no, not every guy cheats. I would even say that the majority do not, and would not, despite there being a minority that do.

[zeitgeist057]

That's ridiculous. No, of course not. That would mean every man who ever lived or who will ever live has cheated. When there have already been many examples of those who did not and even those who didn't have sex with anyone or get involved in a relationship in the first place. There are asexual men. There are men who die before having sex.

MOST men cheat. As do MOST women. MOST people cheat.

The next question is: is it because MOST people are bad people, or is there perhaps something wrong with the RULES?

Cheating is just breaking the rules. If you can't play without cheating, maybe you're playing the wrong game.

[TheSpaceGnome]

It means they are bad people, the rules are fine as is.

It's also not most, its like 30% of women and 20% of men.

[zeitgeist057]

@TheSpaceGnome hackspirit.com/.../

"74 percent of men and 68 percent of women admit they'd cheat if it was guaranteed they'd never get caught." (actual percentage is even higher because some of the people would but won't admit it lied, or truly believe they wouldn't even though they would)

[ariadneR]

No all mem do not cheat. I think one of the reasons why men (and women) cheat is because they weren't upfront with what they wanted in a relationshiphip, when they first got together. Nobody communicated. "So I like the idea of commitment, I like the idea of having someone to call my own, to confide in, to joke to laugh to come home to. But I have a fear of missing out and I want to be able to go out and see if there's anything better out there from time to time" if you had an honest conversation like this in the beginning you would know where you stood, and you could make an informed decision at that time.

[LazerBean]

Nope. He just thinks that way because he's a cheater.

[Unit1]

Bingo!

[Berethor]

It hard for non-top men to find sex, if you date only chads you are likely to get cheated on.

"Men are only as faithful as their options" - Chris Rock

[Blueeyes81]

The guys that say that can't wrap their heads around not letting your dick do your thinking. I had a coworker that would say that and that it was no big deal and women are programmed to forgive but if a woman cheats its worse as its the end of the relationship. Always made me wonder what type of fucked up childhood he had to lead him to that mindset.

[spartan55]

All that means is that your friend is a shitbag cheater with no morals. He says all guys cheat to minimize his shitty morals.

[MementoMori777]

No, I don't appreciate your guy friend throwing all men under the bus, just cause he can't keep his dick in his pants doesn't mean every guy can't.

[richardcory]

Some people cheat, some don't. Some cheat regardless of their relationship situation, others only for specific reasons. Some cheat just because they can, others to fill some missing void in a relationship they don't want to end.

[OfMiceandMen]

Not all men, but probably about the same amount as women.

I for one, don't cheat because it would not only disrespect/hurt her, it would be shameful to me and something I could not live with.

[KrakenAttackin]

Not at all. Most men don't have many opportunities to cheat unless he is a Chad Thundercock. Women have far more opportunities to cheat and end up cheating more often.

[Jmmmfi4]

100 %

[KrakenAttackin]

@Jmmmfi4 Pretty much any woman can xheaty, which is why the best women actively avoid situations where there is a cheating context (girls night out, girls trips , bachelorette parties), etc. These events are poison to relationships. Committed men should also avoid these situations.

[BeMuse]

There aren't very many guys that go around cheating. At your age, women actually cheat on their partner far more often.

[Anemone978]

Date a hardcore gamer they don't have time to cheat 🤣🤣

[BeMuse]

Unless they meet your sister... lol

[Anemone978]

@BeMuse Nah anyone who likes her isn't for dating I always introduce them to see how they act around her.

[BeMuse]

I'm just messing with you.

[Anemone978]

@BeMuse I know lol I just like to be annoying..

[UniquelyBasic]

Obviously not. That's such a stupid statement. Although I don't really know if men or women cheat more.

[Unit1]

Your male friend meant that he cheats.

We got entire legions of kissless virgin boys, whose only hope to get sex is by paying money to the courtesans.

[DextroShade]

Mostly it's just the top guys that cheat, but because that's who most women go for with most guys being invisible so this leads these solipsistic women to think all men chest.

[Sparkie460]

No all men don't cheat. There are a lot of loyal men out there

[Anonymous]

Until my boyfriend cheats on me, I will say no. If he ever cheated on me then I know all hope is lost and that indeed all men cheat because he is not the cheating type at all.

[KingOfMe1]

There is no logic in your words... But sure believe something that will lead to the act of self sabotage.

[Emanon25]

Do all women cheat!

why do you include Al men, who looks for what he want can think about that.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, and its more common that women cheat from what I've seen.

[Willlovewinintheend]

He do not sound like someone you want to be friends with.

[Matt-G]

Only when the bar for cheating is set far too low, looking at or talking to another female. Which is often the case.

[Anonymous]

All men, IF given the opportunity, will cheat.

[Opinion Owner]

All the men here saying they wouldn't are bullshitting.
If a woman who meets their standards in looks comes on to them, none of them saying no.
Yes, perhaps, they wouldn't go out looking for an affair but if the opportunity presents itself, they're they're cheating. The real litmus test is whether they love + respect their partners enough to tell them.

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Opinion owner

Keep telling yourself that if you want to live in denial.
I've never cheated, nor do any of my male friends.
It's actually more common that women cheat, but even they don't all cheat.

[Opinion Owner]

@TheSpaceGnome that's because you don't have women throwing themselves at you
None of the men here do

If you were, however; a public figure who had limitless options, you would crack eventually. That's a fact.
You forget that men are capable of having sex without emotions attached.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Actually I have plenty of very physically attractive women offering themselves to me, I'm just saving myself for one thats actually worth marrying (looks aren't enough).

Birth control doesn't work, I don't want kids or stds, and very few women are mental matches.
Also I'm incapable of having sex without attachment, as are a lot of guys. You just attract bad eggs I guess 🤷🏻

I could be the most famous person on earth. And I would still not have a decent (let alone limitless) supply of artistically talented virgin women with above average-genius intelligence, gaming skills, no drug or alcohol use, and everything else on my list to get into my pants.

In fact I'm so picky that I would likely need fame just to find even a single match without dumb luck, because almost everything in a woman that I find mentally attractive, makes her a shut in who works from home and does hobbies at home. So not only is my type extremely rare (less than 1% of the female population), but she's also reclusive just like me.

[TheSpaceGnome]

In fact, 80% of the women who message me first online, are hot but boring.

[TheSpaceGnome]

So yeah, even if I didn't find cheating emotionally impossible (I do), its still statistically impossible, the effort it takes to find 1 match is so huge that I can't be bothered to do it twice.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Also what kind of retard would spend 2 or 3 decades searching for the perfect match just to discard her? that would be the dumbest shit ever,

[Opinion Owner]

@TheSpaceGnome so who's you say you won't find the perfect girl (shares the same interests as you, personality etc)... and then a couple of years later you find another girl who's just like her and more? In fact the second girl is more compatible with you. Would you not cheat?

[Opinion Owner]

Who's to say*

[zeitgeist057]

@Opinion owner he just confirmed what you said, only in different words, with bragging. That he's not attracted to all the "physically beautiful" women who throw themselves at him, and even if he were famous, all those women throwing themselves at him wouldn't be attractive to him, either. So what you said remains true: he would cheat, but he's not attracted to all these women, so he wouldn't cheat with them as they don't qualify. Given many attractive opportunities, who's to say, but the likelihood is a thirsty person drinks when offered something that will slate the thirst.

[TheSpaceGnome]

@zeitgeist057 No, I wouldn't cheat, that was just to point out that a lack of women thrieing themselves at me is not the reason I'm not a cheater, needing love is. You can't get love without compatibility, and I'm not compatible with most women, so I'm not going to love most women, and that once I have one, I'm not going to want another.

@ Opinion owner. I'd still not cheat in that scenario, thats stupid, why ruin a bond for no reason just to get the same thing I already had?

Also the second girl would not be more compatible, because the first girl would not be me settling, so at best the new girl would be the same, but slightly worse, because I'd have to wait 3 years to date her, then another year to hump her, all with no virgin status leverage to demand she remain a virgin until with me, and the entire time I'd be stressing over my now ex feeling crushed, AND the history and emotional bond wouldn't be there with the new girl. Simply already having those ups the value of my SO above all others. Plus she would remind ne of the one I dumped, and that would ruin that relationship too.

Why punish myself on multiple levels for no reason?

[TheSpaceGnome]

throwing*

[TheSpaceGnome]

Tbh I wouldn't even accept a threesome or polygamy either, even if my SO wanted it. So I won't cheat even with it being requested, which is why I avoid women who want that.

1 relationship is stressful enough, I do not need to manage 2. I just have zero desire whatsoever to complicate things, and I don't feel like I can split myself emotionally that way, it would just feel like I'm not loved no matter what I did to please either, and I'd lose insterest in both as a result, because without love, I can't trust them, and without trust I don't feel safe kissing, let alone humping..

I need to know that the woman I'm with treats me like her precious treasure, that she is happier to see me than a spoiled dog greeting its human. Her eyes need to light up when with me.

I've been cheated on before, so without that level of enthusiam, I don't believe its real. I'm never going to get that enthusiam with her if I cheat, and I won't get it with anyone else who saw me cheat on a prior girlfriend either. There is just no benefit to cheating, I'm not going to feel attracted to either one that way.

[TheSpaceGnome]

@zeitgeist057 Also plenty of women are attracted to me, thats why they throw themselves at me. Your second sentence contradicts your first, so you make no sense.

[KingOfMe1]

That's not true. You're trying to apply a rule to all people disregarding the fact that some people have well trained minds. I can teach anyone how to not cheat. It's rocket science. You're basically saying men don't have free will. Now most people dont control their own minds that is true. But whatever go ahead and self sabotage yourself some more with your negative beliefs that you didn't choose but think u did. I don't think I'm right, I know I'm right.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

100% false. Though around 50% of men will cheat on their woman at some point in their relationship.

[ArwenCalcifur]

No! but do you give advice? I need someone to talk with...

[mysticqueen]

Don’t know if I can help but I will listen if you need someone to talk too.

[ArwenCalcifur]

can you follow me, or dm me? :)

[Anonymous]

No. Just because he always does not that the case for all men.

[EmmaMary]

Of course not.

[Nikki1989]

Not all, obviously.

[exitseven]

no, I will say that the majority do not.

[Spade_01]

Obviously not.

[Anonymous]

This is why the site is dead.

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. Actions are individual.

[Likes2drive]

No that’s ridiculous but my ex wife cheated on me

[ByCureChris9669]

No! just in the same way not all women do!

[clampfan101]

I would never!

[najekim]

Nope.

[TrillXHippy]

Nope

[Jmmmfi4]

I don't