Is it wrong that I get turned off by hearing a woman say all men cheat?

[MementoMori777]

Cause I know I wouldn't and I never have but hearing someone say that all dudes cheat just kills the vibe to me because I feel like that mentality can eventually lead them to acting on rash decisions, believe maybe I'll cheat so she ends up cheating on me instead, is it wrong that I try to stay away from women with this mentality cause I do understand that many men cheat and it's understandable but not all do, many women cheat and are whores as well but I'm not here with the mentality that all women cheat or are whores, I'm sure people have seen the behavior of the guys with that mentality and it's all wack so is anyone else with me on this or am I alone on it?

[HollyK21]

I think stereotyping the opposite sex in general is a turn off. Like coming on here for instance, there’s men that will insist every woman cares about height, weight, money, etc etc when not every person is the same. Sure there are hose individuals that are shallow but don’t put that onto me, a stranger they don’t personally know. Give people a chance to show who they actually are before drawing assumptions of their character.

[HollyK21]

**those individuals lol

[MementoMori777]

I like where your mentality is at Holly, they aren't even worth the effort if you are going to constantly have to prove yourself to them simply cause their mentality is messed up.

[HollyK21]

I definitely agree!

[Lliam]

Right on, Holly.

[HollyK21]

@Lliam ☺️🙏

[BrookeAZ90]

The list of things guy say about all of us on here that turns me off is considerably longer. I can laugh at most of it, most of the time but sometimes it gets irritating.

[MementoMori777]

That was not the question Brooke but I'm sorry that men on here are making your life complicated but I can assure you that I don't deserve being thrown into the same category lol

[BoopBoopBeep]

Not my job to carry your baggage from a prior relationship, and women cheat just as frequently if not more so than men. If I go to dinner and say "all women cheat" she'd be gone by the appetizer. I give her the same courtesy.

[Lliam]

I agree with you 100%. People who hold those kind of negative stereotypes sabotage themselves.

[MementoMori777]

honestly bro, i just dont see how someones brain can be wired that way to believe everyone does the same.

[LazerBean]

No it's not weird. I wouldn't associate with people like that because it speaks very poorly of their quality.

[MementoMori777]

I'm glad I'm not alone on it 💯

[emiliamilana]

I think it‘s sad that this person had experiences that led her to believe this. but in my opinion, if a person who believes a negative generalization like that is not open to changing their perspective, it‘s not worth sticking around. it‘s not a healthy or reasonable way to see the world/people so negatively. for her and for anyone else. I wouldn‘t want to be around someone who judges people so quickly and in an unfair way

[MementoMori777]

im glad you think this way Emilia, its assuring to see that women with good and healthy mentalities still exist, i highly respect your opinion and the way you are in general, thanks for giving me hope lol

[emiliamilana]

thank you so much!

[MementoMori777]

likewise Emilia ☺💯🙏

[sage2021]

I think it would be impossible for ALL men to cheat, but now with the internet they can watch porn which is cheating and sneaky. I think porn is so disgusting just like cheating! 🤮

[MementoMori777]

I guess but if they respect you they will respect your feelings as well

[Shamalien]

People who have been cheated on tend to think this way. Feel sorry for them

[MementoMori777]

in a way yea but they mutting it

[LiamJHayden]

Whenever I hear an "all" statement that is not a logical necessity I get irritated.

[Sparkie460]

No it's not wrong to feel that way

[MementoMori777]

That's good to hear I guess

[Sparkie460]

All men don't cheat

[MementoMori777]

They don't bro, but some people created that fact and live on it

[Kelly6]

not weird