Just talking? Like flirting? I hope not, but if he is, he needs to knock that shit off right away. It's not irredeemable, but it needs to stop.
There are guys who maintain that they can bang other chicks and it be meaningless and come home to their loving wife like its nothing. I don't buy that shit. Sex always means something, good or bad. And that's a fact whether or not you choose to recognize it.
Now, some say it's different for high value men. For the sake of keeping it short, I will define them as the very small percentage of men whom all the women want to be with. They have women chasing them all the time, maybe it's possible for those men to have meaningless sex. Maybe, I don't know. I am not surrounded by women who all want to fuck me.
Since most of us are not in that position, extra-marital affairs are still the highest offense you can do to a marriage.
I was tempted to flirt or take advantage of opportunities outside of my marriage, of course I was. But I didn't do it. I didn't allow myself to get caught up in that shit.
In the end it didn't matter though, she was the cheater. So maybe it just doesn't matter...
Maybe my old-fashion, traditional thinking and morality just really doesn't count for shit anymore. I did my best and got kicked in the head anyway. So, good luck to you... If you both value the marriage, honor the vows of the marriage and believe in marriage, then neither of you should cheat and you stay together through thick and thin. If you don't value it, then its a free for all and it doesn't really matter anyway.
Just make sure kids are not involved. They are the ones who suffer the most.
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As long as you provide sex and you're willing to have a man's children then most of the time he should be fine with you. I do remember a mate of mine who did cheat on his girl, but that was due to him being stupid, he got drunk and got together with a girl and she blackmailed him, but eventually he came clean. I personally would never cheat, but I suppose there are dudes like out there, the open kind, the charismatic guy, the romantic fella, you know? Those are the type who are smooth and prob deal with lots of women.
No, they don't.
same as not all women are shallow gold diggers.
C'mon, why is this even a thing people need to ask?
My husband does not cheat on me. He will be sleeping in the car for a year if i found out.
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Cheating isn't a man thing, It's a selfish thing.
People who are inconsiderate and self-centered (men and women) will cheat even in good relationships.
If you marry an attractive, selfish person you're likely gonna get cheated on.
Other people can cheat for lust or attention, but generally a good person who loves their partner will avoid situations where that can happen.
People are imperfect and weak to temptation, but no, it isn't a man thing.
Some partners will try harder than others and some people aren't attractive and couldn't cheat if they wanted to.Not all married men cheat, no. In fact, most do not. People who cheat are often feeling unsatisfied with their life. Sometimes that lack of satisfaction comes from within them, other times it's because of their partner's behavior, or a lackluster career. Sometimes the person is bored with their life.
My husband talks to many women, however I don't consider it flirting and most certainly not cheating.
I strongly suggest that you seek out getting help/therapy with your obvious insecurities.I don't think that's true Miss, I know a lot of loyal and faithful married men
It's not men or women that cheat, it's an individual that cheats Miss.No, it's not a 'man thing' to cheat. I think what he meant there doesn't have to be any big problem or deficiency from you in order for him to cheat.
It's not "just a man thing"
He's trying to make an excuse for his poor behavior.No. A lot of us have integrity. Provided we are being treated well, having sex often, there wouldn't be a need to cheat or leave.
It's shady behaviour that acts against the security and well being of the relationship.
No, not all men do this.
I wonder if he'd be so dismissive if you were doing the same.No my wife services all of my sexual needs and wants, so I have no reason to look outside the marriage for sex
According to U. S. study a little bit over 50% of men will cheat at one point in their relationship and women around 37% will cheat at one point.
"It’s just a man thing"
what an idiot your husband is. He's definitely not a man.
divorce-rape him.
I think you should talk to men sexual conversationsNo they don't. That is a BS excuse.
Maybe.
not all but most do
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