Do all men cheat? Heard many podcasts where men openly confessed that all of them cheat regardless of how true their love is?

[Hafsa22]

Grinding around like that and if not then mentally cheating?

[MementoMori777]

Nobody can speak for me cause I value my loyalty, just cause they have no self control doesn't mean every guy thinks with their dicks, they say that because they know they are shitty men and they want to throw all men under the bus, don't believe what cheaters say cause just like they cheated in bed they probably cheating with their words as well. Smh

[Hafsa22]

Thats a relief.

[MementoMori777]

Indeed 💯🙏

[monorprise]

All men have fantasies about other women, that is just the nature of being a guy. If you are unreasonable enough to call that cheating then yes.

For a guy the only realistic line is physical contact, and perhaps even flirtatious words for some many guys with a lot of self-control.

If you define 'love' based upon sexuality rather than commitment you won't find it means much of anything at all for either sex but most particularly for men.

Real 'love' as defined historically not in modern 'culture' is all about commitment to care for.

[Hafsa22]

Thats sad.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@hafsa22 And you know, it's not really different about women fantasizing about other men even if it's not in a "romantic" but not a sexual way. Girls love Rom Coms more than guys and guys can also consider that cheating.

[tiajoka]

I hear the same men saying that women cheat more then men… they’re just just not caught 😂

it’s a bunch of weak willed deviants who can’t control themselves sexually… don’t trust them around kids is my recommendation and don’t have kids with them. Plenty of men are loyal and disciplined and capable of controlling themselves because they’re MEN. Don’t settle for a dog, you’re not a bitch.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And what's funny is I also hear the same women who say that men cheat more than women.

[jennifer_bloom]

It depends on the crowd you socialize with cause I only know one cheat out of dozens of connections and the guy made over 600K a year and looked good and had a jobless and uneducated housewife and the kids were fully grown so she did not do much contributing to the family.

[coachTanthony]

Ha Ha Ha men don't cheat EVER. Never have Never will. I heard that on a cartoon.

[Luopio27]

Then it must be true.

[genericname85]

i think these guys you hear speaking in podcasts and the ones telling that "all men cheat" are the men that cheat. i would say: generally speaking, the majority of people are low quality bad people who you do not wanna spend your time with. the minority of people are worthy of spending your time with. having said that, men do cheat more often within a marriage, while women actually cheat more outside of a marriage. so cheating happens on both sides. depending on what you do consier cheating, the numbers vary.

you see this shows extra dyadic behaviors during dating. extra dyadic ED for short is basically a scientific name for cheating. dyade is the most simle form of relationship (relationship between 2 people", so extra dyadic behavior means stuff people do outside of the partnership.

so as you see actually most women and men did romantically kiss someone besides their partner before. tho when it comes to sexual interactions, the numbers are lower for both. you "could" make the argument that most men cheat. simply because it's slightly above 50% so it's barely a majority. tho that's a LONG shot from "all men".

so no. not all men cheat. and this is not an opinion of mine. it's a fact.

[OlderAndWiser]

Guys who cheat sometimes claim that ALL men cheat because, in their mind, such a claim excuses their behavior. How would they know that ALL men cheat? What they know is that THEY have cheated. Claiming that ALL men cheat is as ridiculous as saying that NO men cheat.

I am 68 years old, been dating and in relationships or married since I was 16 years old, and I have never once cheaed on a partner. So I guess I am proof that ALL men don't cheat.

But why does this question even matter? Are you going to excuse someone for cheating on you if you believe that ALL men cheat? Or will you use it as your excuse to justfy cheating on your partner (if he is gonna cheat, I might as well cheat, too?)

If your opinion of men is so low that you could possibly imagine getting an affrmative answer to this question, then you need to change what you are doing to meet men, because you are hanging with the wrong crowd.

[Gingerbread_GB]

Cheaters tend to hangout with other cheaters. So even if the "All men cheat" statements are genuine, they only refer to their circle of cheaters. You don't hear about non-cheating men because that's the whole point, they stay with their partner and that's it. There's nothing to talk about.

Now, I would echo something others have said. Men do have sexual fantasies. If you consider something like watching porn cheating, then yeah. You are going to have a very hard time finding a man who doesn't cheat.

[Ascyltos]

I don't cheat physically, I just enjoy seeing nude pics of other women while masturbating. So mentally, if you like. It's kinda natural for males to be interested in many other women. Evolutionary it makes complete sense. But like I said, I stay faithful physically, it's a question of honor to me. My girlfriend on the other hand cheated me once with a good friend of hers. It was a shock to me and not easy to digest. But that's nature I guess. It wasn't her plan to cheat me, it just happened.

[Hafsa22]

Cheating is never by mistake man its always by choice , the only thing that matters the most is loyalty. If he or she can be disloyal once they can be disloyal a hundred times more, anyways i hope you have a good luck with that.

[Anonymous]

I don't and I don't mentally cheat neither if we are speaking bible. I'm so in love with whoever I am with no one else can compete. People who cheat aren't emotionally invested in their girlfriend/boyfriend

[Hafsa22]

Glad to hear that.

[megabamse]

You hear what you want to hear, you find what you look for.

Just because you hear a 100 people say one thing don't mean that all the other millions are the same.

Just because i hear so many like vanilla ice cream don't mean everyone likes it, there are tons of other flavors. There are even people out there that don't even like ice cream.

If I say "oh I hear Asian ladies are terrible drivers and will crash their cars all the time, i hear it on podcasts all the time" then that don't mean it's true now does it? Maybe it's all about the types of podcasts I'm listening to and nothing else.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry to hear that false information about men and relationships on podcasts is frustrating you. It's tough to sort through all the information online, and it's understandable to feel disheartened when you come across negative stereotypes or generalizations. Remember to approach these discussions with a critical eye and seek out reliable sources. It's important to remember that negative stereotypes or generalizations don't reflect the vast diversity of individuals and experiences. If you're feeling disillusioned or mistrustful, it's okay to take a break and focus on yourself. Just know that you're not alone in feeling this way, and there are many others who feel the same.

[aoihewgf]

Of course not. Women think the percentage of men cheating is so high but that's because they assume the small percentage of guys they deal with are a valid representation of me. As a whole. Women find most men unattractive. They can't get sex much less a relationship. So they can't cheat. Then you have guys in a relationship who rarely has such an opportunity to cheat in the first place. What's left is the guys in relationships who have the ability to cheat, and the guys who attract all the women and have no incentive to get in a relationship in the first place.

Once you accept this, it should be easy to see that it's women who cheat far more often then men. A lot of girls have a backup ready to go when boyfriend no longer seems like her best option, not the case with men.

[EmyyWolf]

How are they gonna cheat if nowoman is turning to even look at them lmao 🤣

Attractive men and attractive women cheat. Because of their advantage in looks and popularity. I’ve seen both of them do it. “ATTRACTIVE sexuality APPEALING men & women”

[EmyyWolf]

So if you mean to ask, do attractive men cheat.
Yes 100% they do

[Hafsa22]

All of them?

[EmyyWolf]

I am more than sure that all Attractive men cheat. I could be wrong for sure. But from my experience. I “THINK” they do cheat.
If you notice that girls tend to flirt with him or ask about him to you. Or gaze at him. Or throw themselves at him. Then that means he’s attractive.

[aoihewgf]

It's not just attractive women. Guys will fick anything. Ever been at the bar during closing time and all that's left is the chicks no amount of alcohol will help you see her as good looking? Guys will still take em home.

Women with body issues and other insecurities, are a group to watch out for

[EmyyWolf]

@aoihewgf
THANKGOODNESS I never been to a bar and never will be to a bar lmaooo. Let them f-k anything.

[Anonymous]

The podcasts are garbage. They’re not going to make an hour-long podcast about guys who don’t cheat. Still, a lot of people cheat, and it’s probably close to 50-60% of all guys who cheat but there is still that 40% who don’t cheat and never will cheat who get pissed off everytime another guy cheats making that number of faithful guys smaller and smaller.

[Hafsa22]

Glad to know tbh.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Prove that the percentage of guys in the world who cheat is close to 50%-60%.

[Opinion Owner]

@MysteriousDarkness Prove that it’s not.

[Cupido29]

According to General Social Survey, 20% of men cheat.

[Opinion Owner]

@Cupido29 I’ll accept that. It’s within the margin of error.

[Rosexøxø]

I’m just sorry-

bored/uninterested and dissatisfied will cheat. 🤷‍♀️

Doesn’t matter the severity, or the time-frequency of its occurrence.

From 1-100

a bored guy or girl, who is dissatisfied, will cheat. Either for a night or 1,001 nights.

Find someone compatible and who will be occupied and invested in you.

[aoihewgf]

Agree with respect to women. Dissatisfied men who can't get women organically are the ones who end up paying for it

[Rosexøxø]

@aoihewgf I didn’t really mention respect or just focus on women 😬👀 but ty! I value respect more than many things and I do think women deserve some ounce of respect. I can only really speak for myself and I believe I do lol

[Rosexøxø]

Also can I do you something? Can’t dm because of the followings limitation on the chat; if not, I get it.

[Lionman95]

What´s mentally cheating?
I would say not all guys cheat but it depends on a guy´s values and how much he is willing to stick it to. It depends for instance on his view of his relationship. I don´t think there is a guarantee that a guy won´t ever cheat but I think it´s fair to say that there are guys that see cheating as an option for them or as no big deal while there are guys that have different views and would try to avoid such a behavior.

[OfMiceandMen]

I don't cheat period, simply because retaining my honor means everything to me. Knowing that I hurt someone intentionally would also make me physically ill.

Not to mention being a dad, I have to think about how my relationships could affect my daughter, which I take very seriously.

[Dargil]

The simple answer is "no we do not". So we don't torture the definition of cheating to mean anything you want, it is romantic or sexual-oriented interactive contact between a man and woman who is in a committed relationship. Masturbation fantasies and porn viewing are not cheating. Many men, including this one (so far) don't cheat.

[FifiJones]

Do all females cheat?

Same question/logic.

Are all supposed Artificial Intelligence and Machine Learning 'technologies' just a marketing term to hide outsourcing to Indians/Pakistanis/Chinese/Bigerians/Ugandans and otger blacks, to encourage them to generate more carbon and to keep overpopulating? In the latter case, the answer is yes. In the former, accordinf to me, not.

[aoihewgf]

Nearly all. Attention seeking behavior is cheating.

[FifiJones]

@aoihewgf attention seeking says 'I am not content and require more'. It isn't cheating per se but it does show/say 'you are not enough for me' (which is just as bad, if not worse).

[HighValue]

No. Lots of men don't cheat. Actually from what I have seen in real life, FAR more women cheat than men. by the way, the majority of cheating women I have known are the ones that work in schools. Yes, that means many teachers (women) that are supposed to be role models are actually cheaters that ruin families.

[aoihewgf]

Teachers, nurses, military chicks, and stay at home moms are the biggest

[TalynMere]

No. Cheaters deserve to have their skin torn from their bodies so they understand the damage they do.

[TalynMere]

Either don't cheat, or be an adult who isn't a coward and can break off a relationship properly.

It's just wildly irresponsible and evil to do otherwise.

[Hafsa22]

Exactly my thoughts, its like a murder ( of emotions) .

[TalynMere]

Definitely

[TooHot2Care]

After reading this, all I have to say is: I have absolutely no remorse and I’ll fucking do it again. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Juxtapose]

I have never cheated even though I have been given opportunities to. I have something called integrity.

[Hafsa22]

Real man.

[Juxtapose]

Thanks : )

[VikingWarLord]

Monogamy is not NATURAL for primate mammalian species like humans. In fact, 97% of all mammals are POLYAMOROUS with noted incidences of poly in the other 3% as well.

Our closest relatives chimps and bonobos (who share 98% the same DNA as humans) are nowhere near being monogamous.

Read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan and everything will make sense to you