Do all men cheat?

[brooker]

Do all men cheat? My man claims that every man he personally knows has been cheating on their partner/girlfriend/wife, unfortunately, I don't have many male friends to confirm or deny that, so is it true?

[D_Bone_Steak]

It really depends on the man. I know some guys that just can't stop. One of my friends married a Japanese Pop star and he'd literally use it as a way to talk girls into sleeping with him (and it would work).

There was a time I'd cheat, but I've changed. Too much work and I'd rather be anti-social than social. That could be my age speaking.

I sort of blame society or how it's set up... as a dude. You'll get ignored as a single guy, but once you're married or in a relationship... chicks literally throw themselves at you. I stopped wearing my wedding ring just to get random chicks to ignore me. I put that thing on and OMG, it's like being an instant target for hungry vaginas. What I mean by all that is you might be thirsty as hell for a period of time and then it's like all the opportunities start flowing when they're not supposed to be flowing, if you get what I'm saying there. That sudden temptation at every turn might be a bit hard to turn down after a good period of just being a thirsty dude with no women at all.

I think that might be the same for chicks but so so sort of... it depends on if she puts herself out there like that. Some guys crave taken girls for various reasons I won't get into here... cheater me had reasons for that preference.

I see a lot of dudes out there though... simply put... they don't even got the balls to cheat. They'd be too afraid to. Oddly enough... they also happen to be left out in the cold for long periods of time. Chicks don't like those dudes. They say they do, but they don't go for them, do they. They go for dudes like me... I could cheat if I want to and it wouldn't take much effort at all. Just is what it is.

[dynamicyandere]

True. Women tend to be attracted to men who COULD cheat, but choose not to.

A man with many options, but chooses exclusivity, is loyal.

A man with no options is forced into exclusivity, and may be disloyal if given the right opportunity.

[dynamicyandere]

And as for women, they’re likely going to be much more loyal to a guy with many options than a guy with no other options.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@dynamicyandere On point. You summed up what I was trying to say nicely. Much props to you good sir.

[dynamicyandere]

@D_Bone_Steak Thank you, good sir. 🍻

[dynamicyandere]

No. But I’d keep a close eye on your man.


Not all men smoke. But men that smoke often hang out with other men that smoke.


Not all women go clubbing. But those that do often hang out with other women who go clubbing.


See the trend?


It’s not that all men cheat or all women cheat.


But if you’re surrounding yourself with people that [insert activity] it’s only a matter of time before you’ll participate too.


Peer pressure and influence is a powerful force.

[Adaeva]

Of course not. Most young men can't even find a girl to have sex with, let alone cheat.

Researchers from Indiana University say that nearly 1 in 3 U. S. men, ages 18 to 24, reported no sexual activity in the past year. https://news.iu.edu/live/news/26924-nearly-1-in-3-young-men-in-the-us-report-having-no

[Adaeva]

If your husband is a top 10% man, he is a lousy source because the men he knows are like him. Men in the top 10%, maybe the top 20% cheat because they can and it takes very little time, money, or effort. And, they are not picky, most any girl, including average and even a little below average looking girls, will do if she is not fat or ugly. Women are different, even if they are average, they never settle for an average man. They want the best, if the man is not a 10, they may settle for eight but they will reject 5s, 6s, and 7s. Therefore, average men don't cheat because they can't find any girl who is willing unless they scrape from the bottom of the barrel such as women who are much older, grossly overweight, or deformed.

[Reem12345reem]

a guy once told me that all men would cheat if they were tempted or in a room locked with a hot woman but most aren't put in these situations or don't have easy/fast pussy to have 🤷🏻‍♀️he said most would give in eventually

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Only if their partner gives them a reason to cheat.

[lemonette]

This topic gets tossed around a lot, and you'll hear all sorts of opinions on it. But let's just set the record straight right off the bat: No, not all men cheat. I know, I know, it's tempting to slap a label on half the population, especially if you've been burned before. But saying "all men cheat" is like saying "all women love shopping." It's a stereotype, and while there might be some truth lurking in the background, it doesn't do justice to the individual stories out there.

So here's the deal. Cheating isn't exclusive to any gender, age group, or relationship status. People cheat for all sorts of reasons, and sometimes those reasons don't even have much to do with their partner. Maybe they're seeking validation, or maybe they're going through a life crisis. Heck, some people cheat out of sheer boredom. It's messed up, but it's more complicated than just saying, "Oh, men are programmed to cheat because, you know, evolution and stuff."

That said, if you find yourself thinking that all men cheat, it might be worth asking why you feel that way. If you've been cheated on before, that's a wound that takes time to heal. It's easy to lump everyone into the 'cheater' category because it feels safer, like you're protecting yourself from getting hurt again. But carrying that mindset into every relationship is gonna set you up for failure. You'll be on the lookout for red flags that aren't there, or worse, push a good guy away because you're convinced he's going to cheat.

If you're hearing from friends or family that "all men cheat," maybe it's time to expand your circle or at least question where they're getting their wisdom from. Is it personal experience, or are they recycling age-old stereotypes that get passed around like a bottle of bad whiskey?

Bottom line: People are complicated. Relationships are complicated. Cheating sucks, but it isn't a universal trait stamped into the Y chromosome. If you're worried about cheating, the best thing you can do is have an open and honest conversation with your partner. It's better than stewing in suspicion and painting everyone with the same broad brush, you know what I mean?

[CurrentJohn]

Sigh, no we men are not born with a genetic code that says "Cheat whenever you can". Men don`t really cheat more than woman when you read the statistics. I have never cheated on anyone and would never cheat on anyone. I`m the guy that breaks up with someone before starting anything else. I also don`t know any male friend of mine or in my family that has ever cheated on his girlfriend/wife.

[Finchie40]

A majority of them do but a majority of them learn from their mistakes , the truth is for a guy not to cheat on a girl , the girl pretty much has to love and respect him the same way she wants to be loved and respected , meaning she wears his shoes before making decisions and vice versa , for any relationship to last and for love to grow both partners need to remove selfishness for each other , and make each other their top priority , by choosing each other

[Billlewis]

Why do so many women think that guys cheat constantly? I'm not denying that we're sleazy as hell, but it's so much harder for a guy to find an attractive woman to have a sexual relationship with, which, by itself would seem to make the number of guys who cheat rather low. Am I missing something?

[Lionman95]

I would say no not all guys cheat but all men at least think about the idea that they could cheat with another woman at some point in a relationship. I think the difference are mainly two things:

1. What kind of morals a guy has it also depends on his upbringing and how much he values sex and what kind of picture he has of sex and a relationship.

2. Also it depends on a guy´s ability because not all guys are in a position that allow them to cheat by with another woman.

[Pacquet]

I understand why people do it but I’m not a fan of cheating. Just stay single if you want to cheat it’s so easy but people are selfish. I have a friend that used his ex and then cheated on her and I wanted to punch him in the face cause it was such an easy situation to avoid. I barely hang out with him now cause I don’t want to associate with such behavior.

[Anonymous]

One of the truest things I ever read was that men are only as loyal as their options. I think that is true. It depends on what is available to him and if he is marketable enough to get it. Only way of getting off this curse seems to be to go for men with no options, but everyone wants their partner to be desirable to them. If women had more power the way men have in today’s society, they would probably be no different.

[AlbantheGreat]

Not personnally, partly because I have a romantic temperament, but it's a curse in our day and age.

According to the fidelity statistics, about 30 to 60 percent of married couples will cheat at least once in their life, so it means 70 to 40% of men won't cheat.

[Anonymous]

your man knows a bunch of assholes. you should be worried. after all people tend to imitate the company they keep

[dynamicyandere]

Birds of a feather flock together.

[Spongebobssocks]

No. It's more commen with people who have a modern mindset. If you find a man that is traditional then he is less likely to cheat. But overall anyone with emotional empathy and character would never do that.

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, that's just crazy. You don't need to be a man to know that what your man says is a crazy statement.

[AndLikeThatHesGone]

So does that mean your man is cheating on you? Has he told you he's cheating on you?

All men do not cheat, but your man apparently does, since he admitted it.

You should probably break up with him.

[Unit1]

Yes!

No exceptions!

This is exactly what you've been looking for asking this question. I hope you are happy now.

[A_Bell]

That's ridiculous and absurd. It's more of a reflection of his character, however.

[inhua]

no because there are men with no options so they can't possibly cheat

[RavVid]

That is far from true in my circle of acquaintances. It does seem to be more true of women.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, your man is just full of shit, and he's trying to make himself look better by comparison. Most men don't cheat.

[JesseP1nk]

Did he just admit he has been cheating on you?

[dynamicyandere]

Right? I was thinking the same thing. What is he going to say? All men cheat, except him? Yet he’s friends with a bunch of cheaters?

[KrakenAttackin]

No, very few men cheat. Most men don't have the opportunities to cheat. Giga Chad's have tons of options so if course he takes them. Women cheat far more often than men.