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I’ve always been told I’m attractive and desired by people. But my ex tried to cheat a lot. Was it because my boobs are small a B cup. My bum has cellulite. I’m not overweight. I’m very slim. American size 0 and UK 4. My weight goes to my lower half so I have cellulite. And facially I’m told I’m a 7/8. Is this why?

Okay so I have a 10 yr old corgi and her name is plump. She’s old and she’s super friendly and clingy. But she sorta gimps or walks very slowly when coming up to you (cause of her age). Well, my boyfriend was having a bad day at work and he’s pacing back n forth. Stomping all over my house. Now plump was in the kitchen corner by the bottom cabinets. And my boyfriend was fixing his lunch, muttering to himself. I was getting upset because of the tension in the air. That I was questioning “what was wrong” and “to calm down”. But he kept snapping at me that he didn’t want to talk about it. So as he was getting ready to leave, plump was walking towards me. That my boyfriend accidentally tripped on her and she yelped frozen and confused looking up at him. Then in a split second my boyfriend says “MOVE”. And he kicked her on her rib. She yelped again in panic and tried to move fast but was gimping. I lost it and started throwing hands. I was slapping/scratching his face and pulling his hair yelling at him. Saying “WHY DID YOU DO THAT!!! YOU FUCKHEAD!!!”

Was I right to act like this?

After my boyfriend left out the door. I was comforting plump and massaging her tummy. I was trembling and sad because I never acted like this.

I am teaching ski at a ski resort and we are quite a big group of young people working here seasonally, some I know some I don’t. Met this very cute guy and there was immediately something between us, we exchanged numbers and started hanging out a lot just the two of us for like a week. There were cuddles and intimate moments but never sex as I wanted to get to know him better first. Luckily a friend who knows him saw us together and called me aside after about a week, to tell me that he is in a relationship, with a girl she knows. I feel really bad about it but there was no way I could have known before. Luckily I didn’t sleep with him. Do you consider this as cheating, do I have to fear that people will tell her he cheated on her with me?

Example based on a real news story: twenty years ago someone posted something to social media and someone dug it up and put them on blast today for what they said back then, which was so offensive that they'd certainly be fired if they repeated it now. However, it's 20 years on and they at least seem to have radically changed their views from back then, but of course they can't take back what was said in the past.

I wanted an abortion immediately when I found out I was pregnant mainly because I always thought kids were brats and I didn’t want a baby by him or any man. He denied me the abortion money that he did have, I asked other people who didn’t have it and I didn’t have it and my insurance didn’t cover it. Fast forward my kid is now a toddler and no longer 2, he’s 3 and definitely has signs of adhd. I’m so over it!! Imagine being over 35 with a child single parenting them, the dad is a deadbeat (not that I want him I just want help with the child from hell) and lastly the kid has a disorder that has ruined my life and happiness. I wish I could’ve miscarried 💯

Like I don't understand. Why not just tell me to leave him alone if he doesn't want to be with me?

This is my wife's account but she told me to post to get some feedback. She is convinced she is right. I'm convinced I am.

Neither me or my wife wanted a dog but our oldest son started begging for awhile and her and I made a decision that we would give it a trial run. We had a family member with a litter of pups and she gave us one. The dog is now almost 3. From the beginning she has had behavioral issues. She whines excessively (literally 24/7) but that has gotten better. For the first year she refused to use the bathroom outside at all. It was like she was afraid of grass and dirt. She would just start whining and shaking like a leaf whenever she was brought outside and then would shit indoors the second you brought her in. But again, that has gotten better though she still has accidents at random (which pisses the wife off because sometimes it's right after she's been outside for over a half hour already). She's a super anxious dog as well and she panics if you aren't touching her constantly. Even if she is in her kennel (not locked or anything) she will be staring at you the whole time and either whining or shaking. Every time you get up to move she is immediately chasing after you and this leads to no time alone at all. And to top it off, our son hates the dog. This stems from this was supposed to be his dog but the dog took to me and no one else and won't even hang out with our son. She wants nothing to do with him and he's tired of her behaviors. I've been training her since we got her and she is just now starting to act even remotely trained and will only do things for treats. My wife and son want to re-home the dog because they say that we don't have the resources and it's "negligent" to have her here. They say this because the dog won't even eat unless I am standing by her food dish with her. Wife says that I'm enabling bad behaviors by "allowing" her anxiety to continue (I won't medicate her due to other health issues). I say she's family and she stays.

Signs of someone with low self-respect (as generated by ChatGPT):
1. Tolerating mistreatment: A person who does not have much self-respect may tolerate being mistreated by others
2. Negative self-talk: Constant negative self-talk, such as calling oneself names or putting oneself down
3. Seeking approval: Constantly seeking approval from others and basing one's self-worth on external validation
4. Inability to say no: People with low self-respect may have a hard time saying no to others, even if it's not in their best interest.
5. Settling for less: A lack of self-respect may cause someone to settle for less than they deserve

Would you lose interest if someone you were talking to had someone of these signs?

But aren’t actually saying they want to get back

is this a sign that they do

You know when you have a gut feeling? I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years, it’s come to the point where I’m not as interested & I swipe on matches/reply to msgs every few days. I’ve never had a real relationship, I saw someone for a few months maybe 5 years ago & something told me after I saw him that’d I’d be single for a long time. With him it felt like settling & I refuse to ever be with someone that made me feel like that again.

I had to use dating apps bc I’m not very friendly & I don’t get approached in person. I’m told I’m cute/attractive & I will say I have a very low sex drive (haven’t masturbated or had sex in 5 years). I don’t think this is a huge deal considering this isn’t something that will be an issue that early on, a guy can’t just look at my profile/see me in person & know that right off the bat.

I get matches (never been the issue) but it’s always: ghosting, fizzling out, lack of interest (can go both ways), feelings not reciprocated, just not a good match & some guys are just crazy. I just always have a gnawing feeling like guys aren’t attracted to me, I’d get told once in a while that some guy looked at me/found me cute but they never do anything about it. And I don’t either hence why I’m posting this 🤷🏻‍♀️

TLDR: based off the description, is this something that’s unlucky in love?

Do guys get turned off if the woman is smarter than them (very smart, genius)/makes more money?