Polls

I feel I’m missing something on top of the toilet hung up but any ideas? Shud I add a black towel instead on the towel rack? I plan hang up a black mirror on the door as there’s so much grey.

You know the saying the good ones are already taken? The good looking ones always are, does that mean I’m not one of the good ones? This post comes across as very defeatist but I’m just being blunt, I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years. I’ve become more and more inactive, I can’t tell if I’m uninterested or burnt out. Getting matches have never been the issue, it’s just working out. I’ve never been approached by the kind of guy I’d actually date, people tell me that guys look at me but they never do anything about it. The ones that do aren’t the types of guys you’d want, don’t want to overthink it either but I have a very low sex drive. I don’t socialize so the apps are the only way, I don’t want kids & think it’s time to come to terms with this. My mom said this a while ago, “if you choose to be single your whole life that was your choice”. That was a bit insensitive & ignorant

Since men have such negative opinions about both, would you rather be with if you had to pick:

gold digger: into you for money since she most likely doesn’t work, wants you to buy everything for her, usually attractive, life revolves around shopping and spending money, being girly, looking good

career woman: busy, ambitious, doesn’t have much time for you, likely makes just as much if not more than you, life revolves around her career, not family oriented but education/career comes first

Me and my ex boyfriend of 4 years broke up 4 months ago

I walked away from the relationship because he got too toxic

We had a really messy break up

There was no contact afterwards

Until the morning of new years day - he sent me a rude email saying the following:

- happy new year sl*t

- no guy will ever want me

- im ugly

- my friends will not stay forever in my life

- he's messaging me because im nothing

- im just a "tap and dump"

- guys only would f*ck me if they're desperate or no other option

Why is he insulting me?

These men are all INTERESTED in being your boyfriend and maybe something more down the line.

What would you do for money?

Because I don’t feel happy around them. Like when there’s a family gathering/birthday. I’d rather be doing other things.

Why do think that is?

I'm talking about 80's or 90's fashion...

Yes? No? Your thoughts.

Okay so when I say older, I’m saying potential matches up to 38. My filter before was 29-34, personally I feel like 40 is too old for me. I mean guys my age likely already have kids, expanding the range will only bring more fathers. A few people have implied that women go after older men because they’re more mature but that’s a generalization it just depends. I really doubt matching with older guys is going to just bring more luck, since I’ve been lacking it with the dating apps (using them on & off for several years).

The incomparable David Crosby passed away today :( Do you think Jesus will call them home in order? VOTE!

This is another hard one. Both taste delicious but which is it if you had to pick? Also, tell me your favorite flavors as well. I love both so thankfully I don't have to pick this.

My boyfriend I’m in a serious relationship is searching for girls of his caste on Facebook ( I saw his Facebook searches)

He belongs to X state and I belong to Y state. His parents like me and vice versa but the guy searches for girls of his caste on Facebook and he said me that in my city there are no girls or his caste so his MBA could be in any other state let’s say Bangalore where there are girls, is it likely of him cheating on me or dating them?