Polls

There’s no hard feelings between us and I just wanted to see how you’re doing and if you’re okay

I have about the same amount, the cause: genetics, body-type and my love for sweet drinks.

I have always hated it but I think I'm just gonna accept it because I know I will never be a gym enthusiast.

So yeah, I wonder what do you think - is it ugly, is it a deal breaker for you, or do most guys do not care? I think I've even heard a guy calling it cute... that he prefers it over a skinny/toned belly.

Please vote & comment. Thanks!

I’m asking as I live in a studio in owenrs backyard. I’m 25 but I now have desire for new year move into an apartment or duplex. Or studio inside an apartment complex. Landlord isn’t there all day, you aren’t passing by her pool or backyard and sliding glass door everyday. You have privacy and just pay rent , even can have a baby. I have no kitchen and no windows. It’s stressful see her family daily outside often & i try leave when no one is outside. It’s not like they will smile wave hi. No they will be uncomfortable & stare at you like an alien. then gossip who is that girl? I don't know if I’m outgrowing studios or I’m just getting older.

28F, I’ve had this guy following me on IG for maybe 2+ years. We matched on a dating app a while back, I think he remembers the timeline better than I do. He ended up following me on IG, we msged a bit & ever so often he’d like my photos or send me a message. I usually left him on read, we spoke on the phone for the first time in 2021. We’re from the same state but he moved PST for work, he offered to pay to fly me to where he lives & would pay for the hotel too. I told him that I’d need to get to know someone a bit better before making such a drastic move. That’s when the convo was initiated over the phone, he seemed like a pretty cool guy it was a good talk but I knew it was long distance & saw it as more of a pen pal. We didn’t message for a few months after he left a message of mine on read (he offered to play a virtual game with me but never followed through), he ended up contacting again after my dog died. It’s back to the emojis & liking my photos.

Then your manage says he’ll pay you for his.

do you let him pay for his or say it’s on you?

So I was wondering how others think about this. Print is going to die, because those that still read it, are nearly not enough to still support the print version. On the other hand, with a lot of free journalist writing on social media not that many actually pay for the e-paper version of newspapers. This of course is not the same for every newspaper, but a broad mass of them. Also a lot of subscription based e-paper newspapers have 'free-trials' where you can read a few articles for free and have to pay for the rest. Do you maybe read only the free articles? Is it different for you between local and national wide newspaper. Are you following any free social media newsreporter? Or are you getting your news in other media forms like radio or television exclusively?
I keep it simple here and talk about 'news' but I mean any form of publishings by newspaper, like columns for excample.
I would greatly appreciate any input, especially if you can tell me your reasoning behind your decision.

If you went on a successful date, when would you ideally like to see the person again? (On average)

28F, I haven’t dated someone in years & haven’t met someone from a dating app in over a yr. I’m at the point where I just don’t feel the desire to be active on them & use them kind of sporadically throughout the week. I’m really worried that years down the line I will regret being as isolated as I’ve been, considering I don’t have a social life. I don’t want kids & when it comes to friendships, I don’t put myself out there either. I just don’t have the energy to deal with people, most friends I’ve had throughout the years I’ve cut off. Im not one to settle with people’s bs for the sake of not being alone, I’m quick to cut people off when they do things that bother me after an extended amount of time. With dating, I haven’t had sex or masturbated in years. I find men attractive but sometimes I wonder if men like me. I’m told I’m cute/attractive & getting matches on the apps have never been the issue. It usually just doesn’t work out & it can go both ways, I never get approached by guys that’s always been my reality. People are a lot of work & relationships are too much work at times, I’m kind of apathetic but my anxiety takes over at times. Maybe the right person will change everything.