Since men have such negative opinions about both, would you rather be with if you had to pick:
gold digger: into you for money since she most likely doesn’t work, wants you to buy everything for her, usually attractive, life revolves around shopping and spending money, being girly, looking good
career woman: busy, ambitious, doesn’t have much time for you, likely makes just as much if not more than you, life revolves around her career, not family oriented but education/career comes first