Guys, Would you rather marry a wealthy, beautiful woman who is 36 or a broke, beautiful woman who is 21?

[wolfcat87]

The women are equally beautiful or the older one is more beautiful.

21

36

[HawkPerception]

The age doesn't matter to me and the wealth doesn't matter to me. I only care if I'm attracted physically to them and if they are compatible with me personality-wise. I can't really give an answer without a little more information.

[molonski2]

Depends on the age of the suitor , but give me the wealth any day , rather than some broke 21 year old.. no challenge.

[molonski2]

can't believe its 50/50 .. Wholly Sht , people are stupid.

[HawkPerception]

Or maybe they focus on less material things and more on the compatibility of the actual relationship. But sure get yourself that sugar mama if that's what you want

[UnicornLobotomy]

@HawkPerception right, people men and women are so solipsistic now. I feel like building a business just to be passed on to a nephew or the government is a complete waste of a life. People only live in the here and now today which is one reason no one (especially women) wants kids until they are 39 and realize they’ll live alone with no one to help them when they are older. Guys are afraid of family and divorce court and rightfully so, and they seem insecure because of the amount of sexual partners young women can rack up compared to average males (that part is more of a personal problem, but its rampant).

[molonski2]

@HawkPerception
Lovely thought , but actually all of that is fantasy... follow the money and the success.

[HawkPerception]

@molonski2 I feel sorry for you man

[ohsheeT]

The one that is smart independent happy can smile and laugh at herself can read people and know if they need a helping hand. The one who thinks about others before herself. In moments of time the one who is a beautiful lover... The one with a beautiful heart and this beautiful within

[UnicornLobotomy]

Children. I enjoyed being a dad until I lost my kids in family court for no reason except I apparently had PTSD from my combat and their mom just wanted to leave me and take the kids too, I was 24-26. I then proceeded to waste money on lawyers and I told myself I’d never have kids again since the chances were too great to go through losing them again.

I raise livestock in a 4 season wilderness, not many attractive young women could put up with living out here anyways, but who am I working for but myself? Who will get my estate when I die now? I can’t give it to kids that do not know me, thats insane. I want kids again and I’m about 36. I married a woman in her 40s because I didn’t want kids. I seriously messed up. I thought the older independent, can’t-have-kids, option was better. But I miss providing and caring for someone, it made me feel whole, manly, and complete. I would know how to put up with basic drama, and if she left me, I know she would share custody with any kids we might have which because this time I’d vet my future baby’s mom much better. In fact I already have a few early 20s women in mind.

[wolfcat87]

... Your kids still should be given their inheritance. There's no reason you can't reconnect with them and care for them as adults. What you are saying doesn't make you seem like a good parent at all. You don't care about the kids you already made.

[UnicornLobotomy]

I loved my kids more than you could know. I fought for them hard. I cried inside every day for 9 years now. It hurt very bad, I dealt with pain deeper than I wish on my worst enemies. They couldn’t even re-create this pain for torturing people and prisoners of war camps. They are abusive mother to boot, took them out of spite.

I understand how you must feel, but I should’ve had kids with another woman and since I had so many options, I was bitter and picky. my heart is healing now. You have to understand that my family business is not something they can teach in college 99% of people must be worn into it and raised around it to know how to use it and make money doing it and enjoy it, otherwise it’s no different than inheriting a mansion, only for living in if you can afford the taxes or SELLING IT.

[UnicornLobotomy]

I care about them so much, but they will be their own people soon and their mother alienated them from me. They do not know me. they can’t just come out here for a year or two after 18 and learn how to run the place and heal our relationship, that’s a silly fantasy. Unfortunately that’s not how life works

[wolfcat87]

I hear a lot of excuses. You made them and should be more concerned with them. 18 years is a very small part of their lives. I hear that you say you are in pain, but so are they... Adding to it with your reaction is awful.

[UnicornLobotomy]

I didn’t want this, they do not know me, their mom has told them lies and never let me see them. There is no excuses for the Judge and the state’s family court procedures in the state she moved to. Their mom has a child hood from hell so I’m not even blaming her, we were both young, and she jumped me like predator and I white knighted.

I’ll meet them when they want to, but ranching out here isn’t something emotionally damaged city kids can jump into, especially on their father’s Ranch. I’ll have a wife in her early twenties with a new child of our own by then and wouldn’t want to put my new family through the drama of them living out here or working out here. Their mom and the courts sealed their fate. I was depressed and bitter for years but I’m moving on.

[UnicornLobotomy]

I see you are in real estate, you probably see people selling their moms or dad’s houses all of the time. In this case my Ranch is my house, a multi-million dollar business that could be very profitable but it takes living out for years and years having someone who cares teach you how. And it takes toughness that honestly is a mix of being born able to take along with learning from the time you can walk. You could potentially make millions managing it with a family member in less than 6 years

[uncleBobbyb77]

For me the wealth isn't a major factor. Personality, and the willingness to let the man be The Man is going to have more influence in that choice. I said the 36 year old simply because the hope is she is going to be more emotionally mature than a 21 year old. If her wealth was begotten through her hard work then hopefully she can put that same dedication to the relationship since she has already acquired the wealth that insures security. If it was inherited then there's a whole other list of questions but mainly it's going to come down to which one is most willing to work with me to accomplish what we need done, and always put our relationship first.

[ticktds]

Believe it or not, I would rather marry a broke, weird lookin' 21-year-old than a loaded and smokin' class of '06 broad.
Being wealthy and mature are not just things I'm indifferent towards, they are negatives.
Mature and beautiful women are like a fine wine, but I don't drink. It's also just... not everyone is actually a capitalist believe it or not, I'm not attracted to money, let alone people with it.
I've literally been turned off before because a girl was literally one single day older than me.

[Anonymous]

Well 36 is closer to my age than 21. 36 has the more likelihood of lasting. And I'm less concerned about how much a woman makes than what she spends, whether she's in debt, how much, (if so) how she got there, etc. Because that'll tell me a lot more about her as a person.

[andreasderjuengere]

Why would I want to marry.

Anyhow - even with 36 the girls are still kind of incomplete in life experience... looking at it from my own high throne :D

[Juxtapose]

It doesn't really matter since 36 is just one year over me and they're more likely to get along with me but at the same time a younger babe who can get along with me will look good for longer so that's a plus.

I would just pick whichever one actually gets along with me better.

[Skinhead-1979]

Age is what matters to me; not wealth.

So I chose "36"

[AlexEfron]

36 year old. Not because she's wealthy. I'd choose her even if she's broke and 21 was beautiful.

Younger people are annoying and immature

[Anonymous]

As a man who wants to get married and have a family, and who earns enough money to support one, I would prefer the younger woman because she would be more capable of giving me healthy children AND being able to properly care for them as a mother rather than paying someone else to raise her children 5 days a week.

[Unit1]

I can do with either.

But I don't marry. Period.

[ZackBan]

Everyone is broke at 21 it means nothing.

I would have to look for other factors

But if we're talking about marriage I wouldn't go for a woman 10 years my senior so 36 is off the table

[tfan1]

Which one is the Asian woman? 🙂. I am not good with ages and faces.

[dudegreat91]

21 she'll be more energetic and spontaneous. Also would like to have a few kids with younger partner

[handsomelad70]

DEFINITELY the former because even at 71, I'm still outstandingly handsome.

[LiamJHayden]

I'd rather be with the one who adores me.

[Bklynbadboy12]

A wealthy beautiful 36 year old

[CubaPirate]

The one I ❤ 😍

[NathanDavis]

neither... I don't do extremes

[Anonymous]

I love older women