Do you have someone in your life who always sees you as the "bad guy"?

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Even tho you're not really a bad person, is there someone who just always blames you for things or maybe even takes their anger out on you at times?

CourtneyJane2 · Accepted Answer

There are a few people in my life that harbor a severe dislike of me. Some of the other dancers I work with every other night hate my guts and think I'm a stuck-up bitch... and honestly they're not wrong, but lions care not about the opinions of sheep, so their insults just go in one ear and out the other. I am arrogant and narcissistic, I've been catty with other talent and I've done and said snarky things in the dressing room, but I admit to all of it and own up to it. I never claimed to be the "Salt of the Earth", nor do I want to be.

I've also been excommunicated by my relatives, including my own mother, because they don't agree with the life I've chosen to lead. Especially after they learned that I was engaged to another woman. However, I make far more money as an exotic dancer than some of my cousins that went to college and became stuff like psychiatrists and loan officers.

Sisters_Of_Time · Accepted Answer

I wanted to say Duh and then I was reminded of this song so enjoy, everyone!

I want to tag him, but not sure if it's against the rules so! But his opener message was the following: "Hello I am looking for a cute and serious relationship." Because I can't recall interacting with him before this, I asked him why he chose me. Someone looking for a serious relationship on a site like this should have some good reasons, I thought. The reply I got was a simple one liner saying "your crazy profile". Mind you, my profile has Nothing on it, so I felt like a number, like if this fails he'll just go to another person and see if she Does bite. So I declined of course and told him why and he told me I made him sad as all. So I guess in this story I am the bad guy.

It didn't feel good being the bad guy... But this song does!

https://www.youtube.com/embed/g8545eNAGSo

Orion76 · Accepted Answer

My sons think im a horrible person and they blame everything on me even though their mother walked out on us 5 years ago to presue a habit and i became a single parent over night no help what so ever from her and not a penny. I didn't beat them or punish them i was never strict or violent physically or verbally the sad part i didn't know thats how they felt until they tuned 18 they just left and i started hearing some of the horrible things they say about me. How is that

ShadezMcgee · Accepted Answer

Probably, but they haven't been vocal about it. Everyone out there has someone who hates them or views them as a bad lerson.

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

LoL, YES! About 12 guys here! No matter what I write they find fault… Even iif I agree with them, they’ll find a way to insult me / argue with me over it even though it’s THEIR opinion! So, yes very much yes, I have people who see me as the “bad gal” just because I was born with a vagina!

TheVigilantFox · Answer

I did but I kicked it out of my life.  It ruined the relationship now it can live with the consequences.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Yeah, most of them. I AM the bad guy. Facts have always meant more to me than feelings. So i rub everyone the wrong way eventually.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

The bible says only fake people do not have enemies. If your honest and genuine, there will always be somebody who hates you. There are people who hated Gandhi and Martin Luther King Jr. and Michelle Obama.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I doubt anyone in my life sees me that way

SnowedIn · Answer

My mom, and my dad, and one of my brothers always did. 😢

LiamJHayden · Answer

Maybe, but I don't tolerate stuff like that so it would be in secret.

Fuentes · Answer

Lol the only person I get that energy from is my baby mom other then that nope.

Justneedtokno · Answer

There’s someone that does, but they’re not in my life

Joker_ · Answer

don't think so, they only see me as the diarrhoea guy

TallAnon · Answer

People who don't know we well, lol. I look intimidating at first glance.

humanearth · Answer

I am the bad guy, I like to spank naughty women

Cubus · Answer

Yeah. Not to brag, but I'm literally bad at everything

abc3643 · Answer

Of course! My wife.

NathanDavis · Answer

yep... but that's life

ChiTown33 · Answer

Not to my knowledge.

Degenerate · Answer

My wife

dolemite89 · Answer

you have no idea 🤦‍♂️

Msputiton · Answer

Yes.🤦🏾‍♀️

TrueConfection · Answer

Of course!

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