i have a friends with benefits and i give him blowjobs 3-5 times a week... so i get to stay active and not an old maid... it keeps me busy that's for sure... and i like the intimacy of giving him blowjobs... i like giving him blowjobs wearing a minidress... or a short robe... or nude... or bra and panties etc etc... it fills a void... and he made it known when he comes over i need to give him blowjobs... and he's loyal to me and doesn't cheat long as i promise to give him blowjobs... which is fine with me... but it does keep me from dating anyoe else because he keeps me busy and i don't want to disappoint him either.
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No thanks. You are investing so much time into a situation that is going no where. If I wanted to give someone that much time, I would just get into a relationship
I think its a really stupid way to go, casual sex in general is.
Not everyone cheats, and plenty of people know what they want in life, plus sex without commitment causes way too many problems, and if you can't trust a person enough to know they won't cheat, then why have sex with them?
The risks involved with sex is the main reason why cheating is so horrible. If you think everyone cheats, then just stay celibate, because if everyone does cheat, then you'll get stds and child support payments by having casual sex.
Sure, it can work if establish boundaries and don't cross them. The problem is that sooner or later, one of the people involved starts developing feelings and it messes things up.
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For me it would not be a good choice. I get attached quickly. That's why I will not participate in a game in which you lose when you fall in love.
My only hope in this situation would be that the woman falls in love as well. In fact, women often do as long as their brain is sufficiently soaked in the right mix of hormones. However, if this works out it is no friends with benefits anymore, either.It's a great if you have set clear boundaries and expectations and both parties understand and can meet those expectations.
But if one gets jealous because you're seeing other people, or catches feelings for the other, it's over.
I think it is a degrading and trauma-inducing setup for all those involved.
No. If it comes to that I'd just rather remain single. Honestly if sex was all was in it for a prostitute is a lot cheaper and a whole lot less hassle.
The issue is not everyone can do it without catching feelings.
Not me.
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