28F, should I consider older guys on the dating apps?

[Anonymous]

Okay so when I say older, I’m saying potential matches up to 38. My filter before was 29-34, personally I feel like 40 is too old for me. I mean guys my age likely already have kids, expanding the range will only bring more fathers. A few people have implied that women go after older men because they’re more mature but that’s a generalization it just depends. I really doubt matching with older guys is going to just bring more luck, since I’ve been lacking it with the dating apps (using them on & off for several years).

Yes

No

[kylee2437]

So going for older men because they are more mature will not work out. Older doesn’t necessarily mean more mature

[Anonymous]

I'm older, but the awesome thing with me is that my kid is already a teenager and pretty much lives with his mom now. I already raised pretty much.

Now I have all the time in the world for love.

Lots of the guys you meet in their 30's might have babies with other women and are still very busy.

[jshm2]

Depends what you're looking for.

Reads more like you are looking for a car, and not a partner though. Hence no surprise you have no dating game.

Some people are just shit at dating, and worse at relationships.

[Curmudgeon]

Here's a question to answer your question: Are you wanting children yourself with this fellow?

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

Don't use dating apps. They're scams. Trust me on this.

But if you have to, then I think you should just go with what you feel is best. You do you!

[Surely]

Consider yes! Marriage? Wait and see!
You never know what you will find out there.

[Anonymous]

I think you need to get at the root of your problem. Until you want to do that I think your luck will continue regardless of the age you pick.

[Jamie05rhs]

Up to you.