Polls

Do you like the situation you are in? What are the pros and cons? What is your dream?

i think there is a balance to find in life between job/money security and… feeling alive, in control of your own destiny. I’m sure many people would argue you can feel this way when working for a big corporation but it’s restricting your freedom in so many ways… I would tend to disagree…

What’s your view?

I've always been curious.

A friend of mine would never cheat but she's gotten involved with a guy who, in the conversations she's recounted, is likely a cheater. For one he can't keep to what he says always changing his words & twisting things around in his favour. Thing is, is she's got a near-photographic memory & can remember a lot of what he says no matter how minor.

Anyway he once said that if you 'cheat on me with someone else that's on you'. This seemed a little extreme when she constantly informed him not interested in other men & had done absolutely nothing to imply she was a cheater while he talks of other women constantly.

Nowadays it's getting hard to find a like-minded individual. If both people are honest from the start in what they want or don't want, who do you think has it harder?

- A woman finding a man that wants marriage and not keep her as a forever girlfriend.

- A man finding a woman that never wants marriage and is happy being his forever live-in girlfriend.

Not necessarily body builder, but somehow stronger but would still apply to being soft

(Doesn’t apply to me)

So I posted a photo of me on insta, it wasn’t sexual or anything. It’s just an “artsy” pic of me looking away from the camera, fully clothed (no skin showing whatsoever bcs I’m wearing a coat), with trees and leaves as the background. Then some guy that I know, that I have 0 history or chemistry with, commented “beautiful!”. I always reply to comments or at least give them a like, and since I don’t know him that well I just decided to “like” the comment and leave it as it is.

My boyfriend saw it and he flipped out. I understand that he might be uncomfortable with it but he started accusing me of flirting back with him, he said that I’m opening the doors to infidelity and that now he thinks that I flirt around with guys online (and offline). He started making all kinds of negative assumptions about me and even brought up my pasts (with my exes and all, which is all irrelevant…)

All I did was like a comment, I never talked to him not even in the DMs so I thought it was just a harmless comment. Is he overreacting or am I being insensitive?

As in for example colleagues or roommates. What solutions do you have for this? Would you still try talking to them or would you give up?

I5 guys I’ve liked in a row have all been taken and I wouldn’t realize they had a girlfriend until way after to started crushing on them so it’s not like I want a taken guy or something. It’s incredibly annoying because the most at least superficially ideal guys for me will already have a girlfriend (and ofc I’m not gonna intervene) but all the guys interested in me wanna play games and are never genuine.

And why?

Omg , so she's not my neighbor neighbor. We live a few apartments down from each other. When I walk my dog she sees me and starts talking. Unfortunately, I have no interest in what she's saying. All she does is talk about " so and so did this so and so did that. So and so is screwing the maintenance man". 🙄 like it's just overbearing. I believe she's lonely and had ran everyone away. I've tried to avoid her by not responding to her text 4 days later and walking another direction to avoid her apartments yet seems not to be successful. I want peace where I lay yet I want her to know I'm not interested.