Have You Ever Forgave A Man That Has Beaten You?

[Anonymous]

Ladies, have you ever forgave your boyfriend for hitting you? Or have taken him back? Is it true after the first hit and forgive it gets worse?

He Hit Me, I Forgave Him

He Hit Me, I Did Not Forgive Him

[AMS700CX4u2]

I am speaking from my experience in the medical examiner's offices of Florida and N. Carolina. I understand that anger is something you have to learn to control. If a spouse strikes you, It can mean big trouble. He or she has just struck the individual that he or she has professed to the world that means more to them than their own lives. Most murders occur through the efforts of someone that said I love you. That statement is "not opinion". That is based on the statistical analysis of years of medical mortality conferences and is the reason that police always consider a victims spouse as the prime suspect. We are all responsible for our actions. I hate to say it because I fell victim to a lack of self control and struck my wife 50 years ago. I sought council and never did it again. And it is with that experience that I tell you to distance yourself when you feel the buttons being pushed. Take a walk. Because, once the hand is loosed and the blow is dealt, you cannot take it back. Once the law is involved, it is not a case of look what you made me do. That kind of thinking leads to escalation. The individual holding the explosives is responsible for protecting the fuse. Some relationships are not healthy.

[AMS700CX4u2]

One thing that I forgot to mention. Get the incident documented. That does not mean press charges. You may choose not to. But every time it happens document the incident with the authorities. If you end up in court, nothing will firm your stance like a stack of incident reports. And once again I am not targeting one gender, but if someone gets their life taken from them the authorities will search for previous incidences and no one will evade taking responsibility for the outcome.

[Summeroflove]

I’m not a woman. You should forgive people. If for nobody else your own sake. People who hurt honestly probably don’t care how you feel. This is harsh and sad. Yes.


You should forgive people. But that does NOT mean that you have to let them hurt you again.

[hIopinionated_]

I have never been in a situation like this. I would like to think if I am put into that sort of situation, I’ll kill the guy for revenge, you know “eye for an eye” but a person never really knows how they would react to such a situation. I’m not a confrontational person and I hate drama and that kinds of contradicts what I like the idea of doing because even though I love getting even because I can be a malicious person, again, drama isn’t my thing. I’m more of a “at the first sight of a red flag I’m gone” type of girl but anything can happen to women, we’re literally at the mercy of men. So, I bought guns and take MMA just to stay on track in case I need that fight. I wouldn’t fight a guy who hit or beat me though, that’ll be stupid, I’ll just shoot him instead since that’ll be more fair

[DubiousIntentions]

Sadly, some women seem to take a guy back, time after time. Seems to me these women have no self-esteem, and think that they deserve such treatment and will not stand up for themselves. Or maybe they think that they will never have anyone better.

[Anonymous]

I’ve been the guy, no it won’t get worse. My ex and I are very good friends. Before I hit her, I told her a million times to not to trigger me or attack me with words over and over for days. I went through some inner battle for few months literally when the other guy is trying to get her to his bed and she is doing nothing about it and I trusted her so much as she behaved religiously. After few months of suffering the texts and calls, I broke my phone to show her that my patience level is getting worse when she took a selfie of her and sent it to him while we are going on a date. Then after few weeks I broke my so loved watch into pieces to tell her that it’s triggering my points as she kept talking to him while saying she loves me. Then one day I asked to make a promise to not to talk to him. She made promise and the following week in the church, texts are exchanging from one phone to other. My brother found that. I did believe they’re texting. I went to her so frustrated and grabbed her phone and saw her texts to him. Dear god, it broke my head and I slapped her for putting me through that situation all that months.


That was the first time I slapped her and I slapped her twice and hard after she made promise and broke it. Because I told her many many many many many times to not to provoke me and told her it’s hurting me if she keeps talking to this guy, while I’m right beside her. This went on for few months, I gave up many things when she said she loved me. She put herself in that situation and put me by playing my emotions and feelings.


If she was not happy she could just leave. Cheating hurts when you love someone incredibly and wants to marry them one day. I wanted it to be a pure love story plain feelings, string feelings.


I regretted for hitting her, I wanted to disappear but then she didn’t let me go. I loved her for 7 years of up and down relationship. So I killed lover in me.

[hIopinionated_]

You hit her because she provoked you with words? Words? 🤣🤣. Wow ok psycho

[Opinion Owner]

Have you read the whole story ass hole? When you called me psycho you’re an asshole.

Triggering me means, provoking me means it happened for 6 straight months, he use to visit our apartment. He use to take everyday chance to talk to her be with her. When she loves me why couldn’t she see that something is bothering me. They’re very biblical. I wasn’t even got angry when I found out they did cheat physically by fucking and not only once. I asked her to let him go if she loves me. Which she didn’t.

[Opinion Owner]

Looks like someones pain is funny to you. Pity your knowledge.

[hIopinionated_]

You think cheating justifies abusing your ex. . This isn’t about finding your so called pain funny. You just don’t deserve pity or anything good really.

I feel bad for your ex instead even though she was stupid enough to want you in her life after

[Opinion Owner]

That’s a one time thing. Okay fine if it’s how you think. That’s fine. I’ve given my opinion.

You think two slaps are abuse. That’s fine. It’s your understanding. Unfortunately world won’t go with your opinion. I’m so sorry that you don’t have power to control anything around not even your life.

If you think she is stupid, you’re a granny’s gross pussy. She is wonderful human. I think you’re the problem. Well let’s see how successful you get you teach the lesson. In the god in the bible killed humans for not accepting him as a god. So god is who according to you. He is manipulating people to enter heaven with his words with his tactics whatever. So can you help me what do you call such a personality. I don’t believe in him however.

[hIopinionated_]

I’m Atheist and you’re manipulative. You think just because the woman you abused is on your side, you’re right. That somehow I can’t control my own life just because I’m telling you what you are. You’re a woman beater and you got away with it. Of course you’ll feel powerful

[Opinion Owner]

Yes you can can’t even control your tongue. I’m manipulative it’s how a human body and life works, even a dumbest less intelligent hunting animal tries to manipulate and hunt. And you’re playing innocent card. And dumbest cat would do manipulative things to get attention. How silly of you. I’m not sure if your Brian is not totally developed or just not working. Have you never manipulated for a single thing even for fun. Wow. I should clap for you, claps claps claps. Your body is not properly functioning then sweetie. Now I’m so heartbroken to see this.

Got away with it? You think I should be jailed or murdered. I’m not sure. What’s your intention. I’m also a man beater, I’m a job beater I’ll beat everyone everywhere, I’ll even beat with love, kindness care affection as well.

I called you that because you called someone stupid who you don’t know. It’s like you know them. Girl you can’t control everything or not im not sure what you think, you act like you’ve mastered meanings and situations of life like you invented them.

I didn’t say I feel powerful. I didn’t feel powerful. And I don’t know if you have any visions to see what I feel. What’s your education back ground please? I’m scared of talking to you. Can you please help me understand how you’re able to read what I feel. I’m not sure if you’re dumbest than an animal or wiser than a human brain. I’m innocent I can’t judge. However I see you feel powerful to try and and point out at something that I’m not proud of, Prey over pain situation. I feel, Your pleasure is in trying to make someone feel painful. Though im not painful right but I see this conversation is making my day.

[hIopinionated_]

I don’t prey over pain situations. All I did here was point out a fact and It’s insane you don’t even see the problem here. I find no pleasure in this situation. I feel horrible for your ex

[UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT]

You shouldn't abuse anyones and anythings for any reasons. It would be fortunate for you to meditate on your preferences and to conclude towards all reasonings to be without any forms of abuses towards everyones and everythings , in all of the universes and all of the existences , throughout everyones and everythings endless experiences. If you abuse your neighbour , eventually you will suffer as a consequence , because then they will begin to fear you and keep their distance from you , and one day they might have the antidote for the illness you might suffer from , and they won't help , because they rather not be abused.

[Opinion Owner]

I agree, i appreciate your response and I’m impressed how politely you’ve addressed the information maturely, unlike the bitch above, she is inclining thus far to make me feel bad. Which is why I clearly put the causes of outbreak.

If I scare the shit out of my neighbour, manipulate Neighbour, betray neighbour without touching him. Or If i prank him and he got a heart attack who is responsible for it. Abuse means, it is not only physical. We are humans we have emotions. No one wants to pick up an unnecessary fight. If you’ve read my first comment, where I’ve mentioned all the reasons that participated for me loose control. I didn’t live till that date in the excitement to slap anyone. I went through an emotional/mental abuse and lost control. I definitely regretted it. And I’ve learned my lesson. Now we are good friends. And it did happened after that it’s been 6 years. We get along well very well.

As the question was raised I gave my reason and I’m saying it could not be repeated. Accidents happens.

I’m not sure how educated you all are.
Abuser should also be seen as victim for not behaving normal, not being able to control emotions. That’s why people are going to therapy and psychologists for a better environment and world and to master the emotions and feelings.

Medical doctors would ask “ when you are emotions are so high, are you feeling like hurting someone, or hurting yourself” not because he/she is living life to hurt someone.

Human brain is also consists of emotions and feelings, when this feelings are broken and upside down. Life seems like upside down.

The above bitch says “ I think cheating justifies abuse”. What is abuse? is there only physical abuse? There are also mental and emotional abuse.

If I fuck her mother and give her pleasure and make her cheat with me, and seduce or flirt or will her father not get effected by it? Will she not get affected by it?

[UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT]

Sometimes things are expressed through us in which we did not agree nor preferred , which makes us a non-participant but influenced by outside forces. If you're uncomfortable around someone then try not to be around them. Some people are very free with their bodies and others develop different preferences as they progress through existences , but if a person has established conclusions that the abuse of another is a necessity , then that is when the problems arise as mental illnessess , which can range from anywhere to durations of a passing thought , a common cold or to the extents and lengths of long durations such as cancers. But if you do establish preferences to not abuse regardless of what situation you're in , then good people will have no problems with you , and you will be open to many different networks for they will not fear you , regardless of the circumstances or reasons , even if they abused you by mistake. Because honestly , who wants to be punished for a mistake? Those who punish are sadists that are ill concluding on the abuse of others for particular reasons. Good luck universesal neighbour , may universesal goodnessess always be with you.

[hIopinionated_]

I’M the bitch yet you go around hitting women because you can’t control your emotions? 🤣🤣🤣. Look in the mirror delusional little boy because the bitch here surly isn’t me

[UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT]

Many people struggle with different aspects of existences , there is no need to abuse them verbally or otherwise. Just because you're fortified does not mean others are. Would you give you psychological armor to others if you could , at the loss of self preservation? I would hope not , just because you shouldn't abuse yourself for others. But you had a path in life which strengthened parts of you which gave you the abilities to be who you are and how you are , and the others had a different path and not everyone is fortunate in everything. Sure he made a mistake , but he had different en-strenghenings than you did.

[RolandCuthbert]

Dude, you hit someone. You were wrong. Stop making excuses. If you cannot control your anger, seek psychological help.

[Opinion Owner]

Dude I did that years back. Now I’m 29 I learned my lesson and paid price. How much fucking times I should you you mother fucker. I know I WAS WRONG. Im I denying it? I learned my lesson. Im I finding it as an excuse @rolandcuthbert mother fucker show me in one statement that I find it as excuse. I don’t need your penis to tell me what I should control. Now I’m just provoking your balls. Show me in one of statements if I sound it like an excuse. You born to a human or animal. I’m not sure what you’re getting have your read.

I’ll tell again. I hit someone and I was wrong I learned that and acknowledged that within 10 min. I met their family (her sister is a lawyer), they warned me and it’s resolved.

What the fuck is your problem now? And here, I’ve also given why I lost my control, but not as reason to see it as an excuse. I didn’t broke someone’s head or injury. It’s slap okay. Okay? And it’s my fucking mistake and I acknowledged it. So what you problem. If you see it as an excuse. You got a problem you should go to psychological help.

If you need money for that, tell your mother to come to me and I’ll fuck her and pay the bitch so she can afford your fucking psychological.

😃 I don’t mean it but just provoking you for not really getting my point. Actually I’m surprised how you’re finding it as an excuse. I dont seem as an excuse.

Dear Roland I’m not sure if your ass believe in any god. If you think you’re nice. Be nice. Understand the story. The other person. Look at him. @ UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT
He is respectful. Learn from him. If you have a question for me, ask me nicely and I’ll reply. You don’t have to say I’m wrong okay. I know it man. I’m I saying “I’m not wrong” ? no. I acknowledged it and we did what I’m told to do, by our both families and we remained friends. So if you have problem, Now go fuck yourself.

[Opinion Owner]

@RolandCuthbert do I owe you any explanation? No.
I gave my opinion. Take it or not. If you have a problem just ignore my comment. I gave my response a question. In my case WE RESOLVED it and we remained friends. So what is your problem? Let’s forget if it’s right or wrong. That’s not the question here, right? Have you read the question? If you have any opinion regarding the question, give you opinion and that’s appreciated.

If you’re telling me or anyone that they’re wrong or RIGHT about something. That’s your problem to judge a book by it’s cover.

You’re welcome to ask a question if you need more details. If you think you have right to judge, then you’ve a problem with yourself. Watch yourself man.

[UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT]

Please , let's all take a breath and become without abuse. We are neighbours after all , on one continent or another , and we should resolve problems without inflicting abuses onto each other. Without any types of abuses we would have loved and respected each other and enjoyed each others company. Let the mistake be noted and continue our existences trying to avoid further mistakes without the use of abuses and evils. Many beings make and have made mistakes , they are much like space explorers who venture into psychology often times becoming stronger or weaker. We should not punish them , but instead we should learn from their mistakes , continuing forward trying to avoid them.

[UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT]

"Trying to avoid them" - not the people but the mistakes , together as neighbours , who depend on each other in one way or another.

[hIopinionated_]

@UdosUNDERDEVELOP… he verbally abused me first. Everything I said about him were facts, sure harsh but still facts. I refuse to make that pos feel better about what he did. I mean it isn’t as if the woman he hit could defend herself against him physically. And over words? Gosh I would get it sooo much if she was trying to kill him or something more serious but words and cheating? Just break up with her for freak sakes

[RolandCuthbert]

You go off on me cursing and calling me all kinds of names, and you tell me to learn from someone?

Dude, fuck you.

You are a violent insane freakazoid who needs psychological help. Yes, you are full of excuses. Everyone has to understand that you have some issues. And they should not "provoke" you. Blah, blah. . .

I have been provoked plenty of times. And I have refrained from striking another individual. Resorting to physical violence is stupid anyway unless you are defending yourselves or your loved ones.

[RolandCuthbert]

I don't give a fuck about explanations. I told you, you need counseling.

Get it. Quick. Before you hurt someone else. . . or they are forced to hurt you.

Then you will be whining about something completely different.

[hIopinionated_]

🤣what price did you pay Opinion Owner? Pretty sure you’re liked, you’re anonymous here so no one would know who you are, the woman you hit is still your friend, her family forgave you, etc. You lost nothing.
People who do bad shit deserve to at least lose something that would make up for the crime. Then you say it was just a slap? Wow lol. As if a woman could slap you as hard as you could slap her. You’re disgusting. I don’t care if you didn’t break her head or beat her, you’re a man and you have the physical strength to just do whatever the hell you want to women and many times, you get away with it. Hey you may even keep the woman you beat up considering conditioning is very ingrained into our society. Bragging that she loves you. She deserves better and I feel sorry for her. She’s still a pos for being a cheater but hitting her? That doesn’t justify it

[Opinion Owner]

@RolandCuthbert :

I’m not sure where you’re taking this. Okay I’m trying not to make it a scene. But you guys keep commenting on my thing. And I answered all your questions and again you asking me same questions. Okay here is my answer,

Same I also told you. Send your mom to me she can afford to take you to psychologist. Your mother needs a cock, you can also join for threesome with her. Fuck me? fuck you fuck your mother fuck your grand mother, fuck your daughter. 😃mother fucker what are you thinking of your fucking self, you’re old pig 🐷 eat this bitches shit. Oh sorry you’re already eating sewers okay good for your health man.

Everytime I’m trying to keep quite, you and your whore are whoring here around.

And I won’t get counselling. So what now? What will you do, you think you only have balls. If you think I’d be whining, id not be there. I see who here are whining.

@hlopinionated_ bitch you called me psycho first, look at your lying ass comment. Lying slut. Are your parents humans are goats. I hope they’re divorced You did verbal abuse first by comment that. What ever I do in my life what’s your fucking business? Okay? I paid what ever the prices I felt right. Your pussy is getting enough cocks for tonight. I see all you have sexual questions in your profile. You’re an atheist and sexual predator, no wonder you’ll even masturbate to gods cocks in trying to mess with people you don’t like.

Are you a mother fucking lawyer? I asked your dumb brain already, are you a mother fucking lawyer to justify the judgement. Even if you’re go help fucking your clients in you law room. I DONT NEED YOUR justification here.

Bitch you even bought your manwhore your man sex slut @Rolandcuthbert and set up this son of bitch against me. I’m provoking his ass purposely. And he says I need help. I’m doing this very consciously testing and pulling your emotions. I have a feeling that his cock is not enough for you, may be you can suck his dick or get his enlarged.

[Opinion Owner]

Bitch stop trying to Harass me here.

[hIopinionated_]

@Opinion Owner and I’ll say it again bitch, you’re a psycho and you don’t deserve anything good. There. I already said it once but you aren’t seeming to comprehend. You think making up shit about me makes you right? You’re a pathetic little bitch and I guarantee you have way more sex partners that I do making you the slut. Again, seek help. I don’t understand how your ex is still friends with you tbh 😂

[hIopinionated_]

I told you about yourself. That isn’t harassment. Let me guess? You’re attempting to set me up to report me for harassment. You’re a weak ass bitch and isn’t worth my time. You’re a pathetic woman beater and your your mom should have swallowed you. Bye slut

[Opinion Owner]

😃😃 it’s funny that you want to press again wit the same words again and again and again. Everyone can also see who is fucking bitching here with me you motherfucking slut. You think you’re powerful but it won’t make me Any weak. I want to get you reported any doubts? You’re Harassing me from the first comment. If didn’t come to you and judge you for anything. Your lying bitch started your mother fucking drama look at your ass comments bitch and you got this ass hole Roland with you to Harass me for giving my opinion to a question. It’s bothering you. I’m glad I didn’t loose this fight. You want to fuck off so fuck yourself off and suck on Roland cock. He is fifty years old. Probably a weak wiener. He can try to and support you in satisfying your dirty ass pussy. Do you wipe your ass at all or try to shit on others like this. Which is why you’re left alone.

I’ll say again you’re harassing me no matter I try to be quite. Your man whore also tried to Harass me. You both weak ass don’t get my point but wants to hurt me. Which I’m not giving you chance. You both mothefuckers don’t have life are trying to mess with me here. Trying to get pleasure over my pain. Oh Hallelujah…. Though I don’t believe in you, Thanks god for giving me strength to rebuke this evils. Claps claps claps. I see my victory!!! Go fuck yourself @hlopinionated_ looser. Don’t be sad. Learn to be nice street side stinky bitch. You fucking atheist and reckless bitch who don’t has strength to ask things nicely. Have you gone to school? What grade are you? I asked you many times about if you’re a fucking lawyer. You can’t control me. Control your pussy and keep your poor dog @RolandCurtbert between your legs.

[Opinion Owner]

@hlopinionated_ bitch you are scared and made your profile private thinking I’d come to you. 😃 all your sexual questions are now hidden. You fucked yourself out? Lick my ass

[Opinion Owner]

Now you both mindless bitches : STOP HARASSING ME. you won’t win here.

[hIopinionated_]

You hit women. You’re definitely the bitch here dimwit 😂. My goodness you’re slow and delusional. Badddd
Combinations by the way pea size brain

[hIopinionated_]

Bitch I’m not dumb like you. Of course my profile will be private now because I know how psychotic retards are. I’m literally talking to one. Now shut up slut and I won’t reply. Better yet block me, that’s all you’re good for, being a weak bitch.

[hIopinionated_]

And of course you’re a creep on your profile now. At least I ask genuine questions regarding sex unlike the likes of you. I bet instead of asking you take. Women beaters also tend to rape women so it wouldn’t be shocker. Again, seek help or don’t. Off with you or something, that’ll be MUCH better

[RolandCuthbert]

You whiny little coward. All you are is a little kindergarten bully and you will get yours when you fuck around and find out. And there will be no one around to wipe your tears. You are a violent little fucked up thug. No one can help you because you don't want to be helped.

[Opinion Owner]

I told you not to harass me over and over. Yet in every of your message you mentioned “I hit a woman” you project it like it’s my project it’s what I do live. How badly you’re trying to win over me and showing you sick pimple fussy ass skill. Surely you got from your pimple ass mother.

But here I kicked your ass and hit you beat you slapped you in your left and right with my words.

Because

Just as much as I expected good people (a sweet Angel like@UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT commented) I also expected stinky ass hole bitches like @hlopinionated_ and motherfuckers like @RolandCuthbert would comment. So I’m opinion owner now. So prepared to not back down. Now you shit your pussy to the outside world becuase that’s what you deserve.

I taught you less now which is why you hide yourself. You mean “provoke you with words” now see what my provocative words taught you. I taught you and will keep teaching you bloody lessons with many me. I do want to come to your profile and this is not the only profile I got, you bitch. This is an opinion time for me. I roleplay a man in my male accounts, I roleplay a woman in my female accounts. So no escaping. I be nice, I bad. I’m already following with my other accounts so I see your stuff pussy.

You see how smart iam. So whether or not accept the defect I kicked you mr nose with my foot with my words. You said “provoke me with words? words”. This is words play a role.

Now stop Harassing me.

[RolandCuthbert]

Now someone is harassing you? You little coward, what did you do? Go and kick your dog? You can't hit us so did you throw your cat out the window? You violent little backwards troll.

[RolandCuthbert]

No, we are not going to stop harassing you. We want to know you wen to jail for abusing your dog. You read something on the internet and you couldn't control your emotions then you beat your dog because of it.

LOLx100!!!

[Opinion Owner]

@RolandCuthbert

I’m i in your comments or are you under my comment? Huh.. . Surely you’re 50 but you don’t see who is trying to put his penis in others comments.

I don’t own animals. Nor it’s your business who I own.

But I tell you this, you have no right to judge me. YOU HAVE NO FUCKING RIFHT TO JUDGE ME. if you think you can this is what happens if you don’t address things politely. I’m not your son daddy. Calm you ass down. Show your skills before your kids. I’ll kick your ass here if you judge me without knowing me. I don’t care who you’re. If you have a question ask me. Tell me if you want me to understand something. If you think you can command me, I poke you and puke in your mouth.

Stop judging people, and commanding them and trying to rule over them. You don’t see your ass fault here.

Why I don’t have problem with anyone but you and thus bitch? You guys are stupid.

Control your mouth, I’m not here to get words from you. I’ll fucking provoke you with what i can if you come to me. I’m innocent here. I’m the victim. You are over and over and over me. I’m not hurting my pets sir. Excuse me if you want, to bite you tongue if it’s not digesting to you to get shamed by me here.

And you don’t see that and brining this upon your old ass.

[Opinion Owner]

Good, I see you made a joke and only you’re laughing at own joke. Wow. A 50 year old don’t know how to joke. Interesting. Claps claps “whistles around” what a marvellous joke you made, and Now I’ll laugh at you for fooling yourself.

[RolandCuthbert]

Well, it doesn't matter. You kick your neighbor's dog or cat. Or shove somebody in the elevator, because I am harassing you.

You are my victim. Just call me the victimizer, little boy. I judge because that's what I do for a living.

I judge that you need to be sent to jail until you agree to psychological counseling. And when you complete all of they the doctor can give you a nice big lollipop.

:D

[RolandCuthbert]

Yes, you are a joke to me. I find you very funny. A violent little troll, who strikes people because he can't control his emotions.

That's funny!!!

[Opinion Owner]

No sir I’m not tolerating judging because you’re not body to me. Nor act like a responsible 50 year human.

I didn't kick anything or harmed even minuscule much to myself but I laughed at this whole conversation because of your sick understanding. And how you’re leading this conversation.

If that’s what you do for living. I would wish you all the luck. Your judging won’t work with me. I’m not a little boy to he first whipped then petted. I've shown you that. And you’re not winning If that’s what you want me do. Try you luck. 👍 I hope you had a well day.

[Opinion Owner]

How many have you witnessed if you’re so sure on your penis l? I mean me being voilent to others? Can you solemnly swear that you’ve witnessed or just imagining with my words. Nonsense. Are you even responding to something that is happening here. Good I don’t mind being a joke to you. Glad you laughed. Glad I got the opportunity to be a joke to you. 👏👏👏 so what now?

[RolandCuthbert]

You have shown me that you are a violent little thug, who cannot control his emotions. You are somehow a victim because folks can use their freedom of speech to tell you what you are. You can't deal with it. You can't response intelligently or articulately, so you resort to hitting like a little five year-old.

That's who you are.

Then you have the nerve to claim you are being harassed. Which just means you have deep psychological issues you are not resolve.

These are not insults.

These are facts.

[RolandCuthbert]

Now I want an encore. Say some more crazy crap. Rant and rave some more. It is like reading a post from the unabomber.

:D

[Opinion Owner]

You’re a stupid. Yes freedom of speech goes of every one ass hole. That’s why I’m saying you’re so son of bitch and trying to harass me for things that are not at all matter here. Looks like you’re bugger. Rant here as much as want. But I promise you’ll not win. I’m kicking your ass enough for you to shit in your pants. So I don’t mind doing that for another 3000 messages.

[D_Bone_Steak]

If a woman pushes me to the point of wanting to hit, that relationship is over. It's her own fault at that point and I don't have thin skin... she would have to be shit testing so hard to get to that point. It's not worth whatever might come out of it.

I made the mistake of slapping an ex... she talked me into it, with like kinky sex stuff. She proceeded to threaten to tell people or call my work in an effort to control me. It was 100% pure manipulation but I wouldn't be able to just say, I never slapped her. She had a fucking smile on her face... shit was evil. It's like she knew she got what she wanted. At this point, I don't care if you claim it's a kink or whatever... fuck that shit, I'm out.

[TheVigilantOne]

I’m not a women but I dated a women who turned out to be narcissistic and violent, (yes I do know she was a narcissist) she would keep smacking me in the dick all the time she came round call me horrible names and lie about me, she’d manipulate me and just plain out right abuse me, I even found out she was a pedophile she even tried to stab me with a pair of carpet sheers I was terrified of her, I eventually left her and found peace knowing she can’t hurt me anymore and no I wouldn’t take her back as she’s insane and evil, and I pity the next bloke woman or whatever she has next, hopefully no one.

[Valso]

Any guy who beats women is an insect and doesn't deserve to be called "man"! Such "men" make me sick to even look at, let alone be around them. I've seen quite a few insects in my life. Unfortunately my country doesn't have any serious laws about domestic violence and these insects don't even get arrested.

P. S. Blake Jenner is an insect.

On topic: you can't forgive him and you shouldn't, or it will get worse. He'll decide he owns you and that he can do it again and again, until one day he kills you. That happens every time, almost no exceptions. When I say "you" I mean all women in general, not just the OP in particular.

[leighbee]

My current boyfriend has never hot me. He shouts at me, grabs etc. But he has never hit me. He says once that he was in such an awful mood he wanted to do it once but he says he couldn't do it. All my relationships have been abusive. I grew up around abuse. It is just normal for me.

[RandomGuy1032]

You now know

[RandomGuy1032]

What did you do to make him want to abuse you

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

@RandomGuy1032 stfu

[Anonymous]

When the guy tried to rape me three years ago, I beat him up and got away from him. I could not forgive him and hated him. But just last month, I looked up his name and found out he died last year. Now I forgive him and hope in his next life; he learns love so he won't become evil.

[Asker]

Sorry to hear that. This is more so about a relationship though

[Opinion Owner]

Well, he was a friend I trusted, but I guess it doesn't count; sorry.

[Darine123]

I have never been in situations like that but close. The man I was with squeezed me and yelled at me cuz I found out he texted another girls and make a plan to meet her. But if that happens to me again that guy would be in jail. I would forgive but not forget

[RolandCuthbert]

Sad to see how many men think it is okay to hit women. And how many women think it is okay to be hit.

I never hit a woman. But my ex would get physical with me. That is why she is my ex. I have forgiven her and still love her.

[melanieeeB]

I thankfully never had that and can't talk from experience, but I think that I wouldn't be someone forgiving that and leaving is definitely the best solution. You shouldn't allow someone to beat you and disrespect you in that way

[Ill_made_Knight]

I have never EVER beaten a woman and would fully expect my dead father to avenge her if I did. ( Not seriously, but let's just say this was strongly installed in his children)

[FreyaRed]

I've never been hit but I wouldn't forgive, it's very likely the reason why I've never been hit. People who try to intimidate with violence pick their victims very carefully.

[victoriaxoxo]

My ex shoved me and I forgave him. Next time he tried to strangle me and I left him and had him arrested. Yh just leave.

[Asker]

Oh wow.

[BigschlongEnergy]

Quite a story you got there.

[hIopinionated_]

You’re so strong for having the courage to leave him. You saw the situation for what it was, progressing towards abuse. Good on you

[BigschlongEnergy]

For a second there I thought I saw God.

[Anonymous]

I know a significant number of girls who are with beaters. Those guys are all bad-boy type, good-looking, and can get away with it.

Many women actually love drama and hate good drama-free men more than girlfriend beaters. The last girl I was seeing left me as I was always calm, don't curse or shout at conflicts, and wanted a reasonable solution, mostly I don't creat stupidity that will lead to conflict. They hate drama-free guys as they find it boring.

[AsaKyo]

I mean, yeah I did, but wish I didn't cause' he turned around and went back to his old ways as soon as I forgave him

As for my dad, no, I'll never forgive that

[Msputiton]

Only way I ever forgive a man for beating me is if it was in a game of 1on1

[Subarugirl]

It will just get worse. No one who physically abuses you respects you. Report him and leave him.

[Redhead1981]

Yes, twice. They are always sorry and it always happens again and gets worse.

[Asker]

The bad part about this is when he didn't he didn't apologizey refused to and said he doesn't feel any way because I was "asking for it"

[Redhead1981]

I am sorry. I definitely feel like he will get worse especially since he said you were asking for it. I know it is hard to leave but you deserve to be treated better.

[peedy]

Nobody has ever beat me actually nobody has ever hit me, and I have never hit anyone in return, sometimes its nice being the biggest guy in the room, my mere presence makes people calm down

[legalboxers]

my ex choked me with a charger cable, after that I walked. I know her mom died I was with her, but she went nuts on me when she was being cremated. My mom was an RN and with covid bad..

[RandomGuy1032]

Men dont run around hitting women for no reason. If he hits her she shouldn't need to forgive him. She was guilty of something

[RolandCuthbert]

So if someone hits you, you are guilty of something?

[RandomGuy1032]

@RolandCuthbert if the government puts me in jail then im guilty. Same if a parent spanks their kid.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Many beat me at chess, and I nevertheless forgave them.

[Heolurt]

I forgive people, I'm not strong enough to let stuff like that weigh me down.

[Zolly99999]

No man should EVER hit a woman... no matter the situation... PERIOD !!!

[Subarugirl]

Unless it's justified and reasonable self defense, no one should hit anyone period.

[Zolly99999]

@Subarugirl I would never hit a girl even In self defense ( I have been in that situation before) .. I just walk away..
A guy in the other hand...

[Subarugirl]

If you can just walk away, then it wouldn't be self defense.

[Zolly99999]

@Subarugirl well being punched and kick I figure is self defense. I just blocked her attacks as I got in a car and drive away...

[Subarugirl]

Hence why I said reasonable, if you can just leave with out having to take defensive measures to protect yourself, then it wouldn’t be self defense it wouldn’t be self defense.

Self defence is the use of reasonable force to protect oneself or members of the family from bodily harm from the attack of an aggressor, if the defender has reason to believe he/she/they is/are in danger. Self-defense is a common defense by a person accused of assault, battery or homicide. The force used in self-defense may be sufficient for protection from apparent harm (not just an empty verbal threat) or to halt any danger from attack, but cannot be an excuse to continue the attack or use excessive force.

[Anonymous]

I would because I completely deserve it. People should throw rocks at me on the street tbh, and hopefully one of them hits me in the head too hard and kills me.

[hIopinionated_]

Are you ok? If you ever want to talk, I’m available

[UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT]

It doesn't matter what you did , just love and respect yourself. Mistakes happen , and even if you did cause some form of abuse , all wounds will heal , and eventually we will be able to avoid all problems.

[Anonymous]

Any guy that does that is a piece of shit and should have his balls and dick chopped off

[Asker]

I still love him though I'm just hoping it doesn't escalate

[Opinion Owner]

Unfortunately when someone becomes physically violent the violence becomes worse. I'm really sorry you're going through this. Best to get out now and leave for your own safety

[jimmy2]

No he will always do that it a toxic relationship

[Anonymous]

No woman should ever do that.

[elizamichale1]

Yea i have

[Anonymous]

Just leave ffs.