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I miss dating but I start working 60hours soon. Would it be possible to date? Or should I hold off for awhile?

I won't have time to do dates...

Self explanatory.

It’s just odd I feel he was a talker, he claimed to be this shy guy with no game but was kinda flirty with me. We talked via video game chat for over a hr everything seemed fine. When the chat ended he asked for my # and I gave him my social media instead. We added each other and he never reached out again while we actively looked at my posts on social media I eventually just ended up unfollowing him.

It always starts as a verbal argument or insults are hurled and suddenly Person A makes the first contact. By logic Person B will tend to reply back too.

That very first contact can include either a slap, a punch, a shove, spitting in their face, getting into the person's face and poking your finger at them, etc. I'll give you a brief example:

Person B: Well I'm not stupid nor a c*** like your mother.

Person A: Say what did you just say

Person B: Is backing away but repeats it louder and clear

Person A: Shoves and hits first

Person B: Feels in the right to hit back and does it. Fight continues on and on.

Some people may think Person B deserved that hit but Person B still felt in the right to return it back too and can say ''Well I didn't hit first, Person A did''.

Regardless of how verbally antagonistic they might have been, isn't the person that makes the first physical contact always at fault?

#FeelFreeToList

Normally my boyfriend would only wear pants, so he doesn't have much experience with shorts... but with his logic shorts should be short, so he went for 5 inch inseams way above the knee... and he LOVES them, but has gotten a lot of averse reactions and people telling him his shorts are too short.

I told him I love them too and they look fine to me, but he wanted more opinions besides my own whether they are too short or not.

In this story some man's girlfriend didn't accept his proposal for these reasons:

Finding out it was a real proposal and seeing the proof was the only reason she came back. She's putting things on hold at this moment, wants me to keep the ring and ask again in a year from now. She'll make a final decision by then. If she's ready sooner, she'll tell me to ask again but for the meantime only refer to her as my girlfriend.

She can't accept it now due to my past pranking history and carefree attitude. She pointed out that a month before the hurtful proposal prank that made her feel insecured in the relationship, I've made jokes about having Covid too (faking coughing) and acted inconsiderate towards others, had a history of sometimes being late to our dates, sometimes delay on paying some bills and doing things at the last minute even when I had enough time. Meanwhile I've stopped doing pranks and improving, she said I need to change more before she considers marriage. I admit, I was unpunctual with my last bill last month. Lastly, she doesn't really care about the ring nor the cost but thought my proposal was lame and it lacked creativity and enthusiasm, as if I wasn't even trying. She couldn't understand why I was creative with the fake proposal but couldn't do the same with the real proposal, put more effort into it.

She doesn't want to marry him. She's postponing things. He pranked a proposal once and hurt her but when he did it for real, she wasn't excited anymore.

Does it make a difference in your opinion?

Why does this happen

Toyota yaris 2009. Had this car for years and i changed the spark plugs because it was being full of shi. So i ride an hour out and it's showing it's hot but it doesn't stop running. I got to work, 15 minutes and this mofo shuts off. I think "it's too hot" i put in coolant, mofo still won't move. I have no idea what's wrong with this mofo and I'm on the verge of losing it. I already told my job on the weekends I can come and he is my consistent paycheck while the one here pays bi-weekly. So i need some actual knowledge, wtf could be wrong with my car? Can it be saved or should I just drop a down payment for a new one?

Wouldn't do this if I didn't have much options... i'm not gonna rob a bank but i'm gonna start crying. :)