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27F, I just feel like I had it harder than others. I haven’t been sexually or physically abused but I had my share of emotional abuse. I was bullied as a kid up to in HS, I was raised by my grandmother who is very petty/fits the “mean girl” description in the sense that she has a big mouth, gossiped about her kids/grandkids with her other kids/grandkids and is a bit of a narcissist. I never really had friends growing up and to go this far in life still without those close friendships and never had a long term relationship under my belt is just so odd. I know nothing is wrong with me but this trauma from my mother’s vindictive side of the family, bullying and just encountering my share of drama with people I’ve come across is unjust considering I’m a very peaceful person. I’m very unsociable and usually now expect people to make the first move to contact me, with current “friends”, family and if a guy actually wants to make a move (which never happens). I feel like people always say things about how everyone goes through a difficult time and we all have a cross to bear. But honestly, I have to disagree. It’s all about the cards your dealt with and life is a series of good and bad luck, some situations are in your control and others not so much. I didn’t ask to be born into my family, I would have been a different person maybe for the better if I wasn’t raised by my grandmother. I wouldn’t have had to go with my grandmother if my mom didn’t divorce my dad.

TL; DR; Does anyone get envious and also under the impression that most people just have life a lot easier and shit is just unfair?

A few days ago, I was at Target with my mom and we were in the produce area, but I kind of drifted off to the pastries (I didn't get any, I just wanted to see what they had.) As I was circling the little display, one of the employees (a guy) came out and asked if I needed help with anything and I told him I didn't and then he just went on his way. Now, I didn't think anything of it at the time, but apparently my mom thought he was trying to hit on me or something because she got all giggly about it. And tbh, I did catch this same guy kinda cruising me about a week ago, so I guess he could've been trying to hit on me, but who knows. 😂

I can’t help but let this bring my self esteem down. Most people I know my age are seeing someone or if they’re not, they have previous LTRs. The longest I saw a guy was for a few months back when I was 23 and quite frankly, I should have stayed single and a virgin. He had a decent personality but he wasn’t my preference physically and it felt like settling. I know I’m not a 10 but I’m told I’m attractive (not only by family/female friends), you all gave me a good rating for the most part. I just refuse to settle, I only have used dating apps but it’s worked for a lot so that shouldn’t be a deal breaker. How could someone go this long being single? All I can get are the ones that I’m not really into, if they check my boxes physically, they lack in personality or they’re the ones that aren’t into me. Regardless of how this makes me feel, since most women have it very easy, I’d rather be alone than taken and even more miserable.

They’re making noise when my baby is sleeping and napping. They’re being demanded to leave during a certain date, if they don’t leave they face eviction. They contacted the property manager saying I made noise (complaining about my 1 year old) and I received a letter saying keep the noise down. I have but so much control over my 1 year old. So why do you think they’re making the noise?

Lol, let’s get controversial..
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I’ve seen one looking for healthy volunteers (without the illness) to test the safety of an experimental Alzheimer’s medication.

The pay is fantastic, but there’s a risk involved due to there not being much info about this drug.

Would you do it?

Just curious, also can you tell me where are you from?

Guys turn this time.

Which is more annoying for you, a woman who gets upset during a fight and won't tell you what's wrong but expects you to know or one who never makes a decision and expects you to pick something for you both (even if she hates it)?

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