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Lately when it’s near bedtime i would suddenly remember dreams i had years ago and i also would remember which age i had those dreams. It’s kind of like something i recognized as a dream memory instantly, and it would be something i had no memories of until the moment i remembered it. Those dream memories recalls are usually from 10-15 years ago and i’m pretty intrigued by that. I just had a chat with my therapist and they said it’s not something that is common, but it’s not something concerning for my situation and diagnosis. I’m just wondering if any of you have experienced the same dream memories recall?

I am trying to decide on a shade of red, fuchsia, or something like it to wear this spring. I have been wearing a dark mulberry this fall/winter. I am ready for a change. I have narrowed it down to these two colors. Which of these do you like the best?

I know I've mocked the overdone manis in a previous question, but I'd love for guys to weigh in on how important you consider a gal's manicure to be?

To me, I've never wanted a guy to look at or hold my hand and see a sloppy mani or broken nails... I don't like to look like I just tried to claw my way out of a ditch, you know?

So how important is a good mani to you? What does it tell you about a gal? (Also, pick a type.)

Ok, so we have farm girl Dorothy Gale and then we have "proper" British girl Alice Liddell. One rolled around in a field of poppies. One indulged in Amanita muscaria. They both proceeded on journeys of self-discovery.

The following summary was entirely worded up by AI:

Dorothy’s discovery: What you need is already within you

Dorothy travels to Oz believing happiness lies somewhere else—“over the rainbow.” By the end, she learns:

Home isn’t just a place; it’s belonging, love, and self-acceptance.

Power was largely an illusion.

Deeper meaning:
Dorothy discovers that external authorities and magical solutions are often false. Growth comes from recognizing the value and strength you already possess. Oz is a lesson in self-reliance and emotional maturity.

Alice’s discovery: The instability of identity and logic

Alice’s journey is less about arriving somewhere and more about questioning everything:

Language doesn’t mean what she expects.

Rules change constantly.

Adults and authority figures are irrational or arbitrary.

Her own size and identity are unstable (“Who in the world am I?”).

Deeper meaning:
Alice discovers that the world—especially the adult world—is often nonsensical, and that logic, identity, and social rules are constructed rather than fixed. Her growth comes from learning to navigate ambiguity without losing herself.

The key difference

Dorothy learns a comforting truth: the world makes sense if you trust yourself.

Alice learns a challenging truth: the world doesn’t make sense, and that’s something you must learn to live with.

Shared revelation

Both stories suggest that childhood journeys into fantasy are really psychological awakenings:

You cannot rely blindly on authority.

Meaning is not handed to you.

Growing up involves learning how to interpret reality on your own terms.

In short:
Dorothy discovers inner wholeness.
Alice discovers existential uncertainty.

Which finally brings me to my question of the day, Who had the biggest trip?

(Cue old woman voice), back in the day, people used to just go to concerts for full vibes. They would enjoy the artist(s), and just let the music move them. Now, a vast majority go to concerts, phone in hand, blocking others views, and try to get it all on tape for youtube, insta, or social media, rather than are they fully taking in the experience.