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not that I care as these 2 places are in my bucket list either way along with Amsterdam, Tokyo, Philippines, Cambodia and many others.

till then since women hate men who've had access to good and unlimited sex so much I always wondered if women would actually avoid these men like the plague; as they always claimed

I also have a cousin who've been to the places above numerous of times and I'm being honest when I say that I hate and envy his ass to the fullest.

As an infj im kinda realizing that im not too keen on small talk. Been Like this practically my whole life. I don’t really mind it in the beginning when talking with people but eventually i would want to delve a bit deeper into topics.

wbu?

I know some women will not want to reply to this, but I know me and a lot of men will honestly want to know the answer to this.
​Is this statement correct: 'Women love to feel the strength of a man she feels safe around and fully trusts.'
​After reflecting on things, I realized I am honestly a bit confused about how much assertiveness women actually prefer behind closed doors. I know everyone is different, but when it comes to that connection, do women generally lean towards a high-intensity, take-charge energy or slow, gentle romance?
​From my experience in one-off encounters, women prefer the first option. However, when in a relationship, this isn't really the case, and slow and passionate is preferred (according to my last relationship anyway).
​In my head, a person will go purely for excitement and what feels best in a one-off encounter, as there are no repercussions and you most likely won't see that person again. Therefore, you go purely for the most thrilling dynamic for you. Is there a shame/shyness that comes later in relationships? Do women actually prefer that bolder, more intense energy?
​Is this correct? And if so, why?
​I've added a poll below, but if you're comfortable please add a comment.