Questions

It’s not self-defecating…as I first thought. See what I did there?

I used to do swimming in high school and got used to wearing speedos so anything else feels weird. This may be just how my parts are built down there but it all naturally goes between my legs. So it's kinda "self tucking" and lays flat. I found women's bottoms are best for me since men's always have extra room out front I don't fill up. So I always wear basically speedos for women when I swim.

The pic is the kinda stuff I wear. My parts are tucked away and lay flat so she may have a little bigger bulge than I do lol. If you saw some guy you were with and he wore these to swim in and his crotch looked like that, what would you think?

I agree, and I hear people say it all the time, who cares about traditional beautiful standards, or if you have the facial features that are considered conventially attractive. It would be like posting on here, and if 10 people said you look ugly, that that means you are ugly, and 10 random people decide that, or if people on Reddit say you're beautiful, that you are, just because they said it, like what