Questions

i keep having dreams about me going back to my church , and i keep seeing j ( we just call him j ) . he had a girlfriend so i left him alone. but i like going to church for God. but i dont understand why i keep having these dreams and seeing him.

is God telling me to go back to church

• or is it something else?

like i see it where i am at church and he comes up to me and talks to me. but in my mind though church is only for God yes you can talk to people and etc but at the same time though i just dont understand.

this question is not to offend anyone different religion

i can tell you this i do speak to his family member because his family member told me i was her family and i told her something and at church ( it is online to ) i was watching it and he said it word for word on what me and his family member was talking about

Like would you think of a girl like that as hot or sexy? I have been called sweetie or cutie, but I feel like guys see me just as a sweet, shy girl, maybe immature while they flirt and date girls that are more popular hot type of girls and Im just being called sweet and cute.

Should I be more outgoing? I try to be nice, but I hardly get noticed.

What is your opinion? Should I be more assertive?