If you had a boyfriend who wore diapers because of incontinence would you help change him if he asked for help?

I have asthma but even worse is the fact that I have full incontinence which means I pretty much have to stay in diapers at all times. I've been up front and honest and my girlfriend knows. Most the time I'm okay with changing myself because I prefer it but there are days when my asthma really bothers me making it rather difficult to do it myself like I normally do and so sometimes I wish I could get help. I've told her and even politely asked for help once or twice but she refuses and says she doesn't do diapers. I've since dropped it as of three years ago out of respect and I didn't want to press my luck because I love her but I feel like at the rate I'm going I'm going to likely end up in the hospital from an asthma attack over it which would suck. I feel like a jerk kinda for even asking it but at the same time I've done a lot of things for her too. Aren't relationships supposed to be a two way street especially when you love someone or am I being selfish?
If you had a boyfriend who wore diapers because of incontinence would you help change him if he asked for help?
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