Should I let him touch my boobs?

[cyberasf]

we've been dating for 3months and I really want to go further than just kissing but i'm scared he might think I'm inappripriate , should I ask for more or at least let him get more comfortable? wouldn't he think I'm a little bit too thirsty? for both of us it's the first time to have a real relationship by the way.

[MeltedCheese89]

If a girl is too easy, a guy will lose respect for her and eventually leave her.

Is he ASKING to touch your boobs? I'd say you shouldn't let him because you're so young.

Intimate touching is not a milestone that "unlocks" the next part of your relationship, it's more like a perk that's supposed to come when you reach the next stage of your relationship. If he's anywhere near your age, the moment you let him touch your boobs is the moment he'll start telling all his friends and bragging about it thinking he's such hot shit and people lose respect for you and people a bunch of other harsh junk heads your way.

There are much more important things to focus on in relationships. Save the boob touching stuff for your college years.

[cyberasf]

no he never asked me if he can touch my boob , he's 17 and I'm not saying this because i'm thirsty for his touch but trust me he's not like other boys , well he's not an angel but he's nor a fuckboy. He was so nervous the first time we kissed and i know that for sure he loves me. this might sound like what a fool teenager would say but he has proved so much to me. i'm just worried if a little bit of touch would make him want more or make him change his mind about me?

[coolbreeze]

I think you should wait. He might think your thirsty and it might temp him to want more. If your taking baby steps continue. I feel thier isn't any rush to speed things up.

[ConfusedGrocer]

Abla, if you feel the need to ask this, I think you need to wait until you're more mature. It's up to you, though. Whatever makes you comfortable.

[cyberasf]

im 16 , almost 17 , some of my friends are having sex tho i do feel comfortable but i dont wanna get called a ' thirsty hoe'.

[ConfusedGrocer]

Look, it doesn't matter what they call you. Thirsty hoe, slut, whatever. If your date thinks you're a whore for letting him touch your boobs, I'd run away as soon as I can. That is a mindset impossible to live with. It's your body, your sexuality, your freedom, their stupidity. Just be safe and do what you want to do. Sex is natural. Both men and women are supposed to enjoy it. Those names are meaningless—they've been chanting them since forever. Having sex doesn't make you worthless. You're all the same. You'll just be a woman (though you're not a woman yet) who enjoys sex and lives in today's world, not the past.

I know that sounds like a lot coming from a 14-years-old, but that's what I have to say.

[fulloflife]

Yeah, let him but he has to do a favor in return.
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[cyberasf]

HAHAHAHA hell nah

[fulloflife]

Oh ok it's your descion.
Personally: I would even without the favor

[Anonymous]

Just when u r kissing ask if he would like to try touching u

[codyccc]

Lol ya let him