Do you think it's cute when your boyfriend/girlfriend is jealous?

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I've heard a lot of people say that it's cute when they get jealous or if they don't get jealous then that means they're not for you. I think there's nothing cute about being jealous. I would never want to date anyone that is the jealous type.

BaileyisDarcy · Accepted Answer

From what I know, nobody has never been jealous of me. I'm only in my first relationship and not for very long so jealousy hasn't played a part if it ever will.

I have only ever felt jealous once. Or something like it. That burning unpleasant feeling in your gut yes?
I have uh. . . History with a friend. He showed up at my place with a girlfriend in tow. That was the first time I ever felt like I wanted to hate someone I didn't know a thing about.

It wasn't a nice feeling. I don't want to feel it again.
I can narrow it down to me feeling like I owned him (I didn't) us having talked about marrying each other (when we were eight) and me thinking I was more important to him than that girl and that he should be dating me (even though I didn't want to date him)

Early teen hormones are bloody confusing.

So glad I'm over that.

Yaaassss · Accepted Answer

Hahahah it's hella cute but it gets annoying when they over do it. It's cute when ur out with ur boyfriend and ur hot guy friend comes and ur boyfriend puts his arms around ur waist. But it's annoying when your boyfriend won't let you go to a party cuz he thinks you'll cheat on him...

fauchelevent · Accepted Answer

It's a little bit cut when he's only mildly jealous because then he gets all possessive - not extremely possessive, but I mean taking my hand or putting an arm around me, and that's hilarious for me to experience. But when it goes into paranoia then it would not be attractive at all.

PLLFan21 · Accepted Answer

Jealousy is an ugly thing.

RedThread · Accepted Answer

Nah I don't think jealousy is cute. The person who displays jealousy is insecure about their own allure and doubts the fidelity of his/her partner. It's a petty emotion and I can't handle it to be honest.

I don't cheat and I've never cheated. If I'm with a woman in a relationship it means I want to be with her. I actively want a future with her. I don't have time for people who doubt that in me.

madhatters4 · Accepted Answer

cute to an extent because it shows she cares deeply for me and doesn't want to lose me

but too much jealousy is annoying. I don't want to have to explain myself or defend myself every time a girl looks at me, I go to a place where women might be, etc

JuicyBrain · Answer

Jealousy sucks ! I can't even have sex with other women because of it ! Lol

Seriously, it suck. I have been told by a lover I should be more jealous because she thought I didn't love her. She even told me she let men hit on her to make me jealous. I told her I trusted her and if I shouldn't she should tell me now. I was pissed. She never brought it up again.

teawrecks · Answer

Not jealous, no. But I like when he gets possessive over me. (side note, this isn't something I do to someone I'm in a relationship with) I like to tease about wanting to do things to another guy, etc. and when he gets all grumpy about it and tells me "no" among other tings, it makes me smile and feel warm inside.

It's fucked up but I find it hot as hell... while simultaneously being adorable.

Xelebrum · Answer

I find it sweet to an extent, it means that she really cares about me and about us, but if she's jealous for no reason (my ex once got jealous because I was spending the day with my COUSIN), then I just find it ridiculous.

I would never intentionally make my girlfriend/wife jealous, that shit is petty, manipulative, and just plain fucked up. If a girl/woman I'm dating EVER tries to make me jealous, I will dump her on the fucking spot. I will NOT put up with that bullshit anymore.

godfatherfan · Answer

Jealousy is NEVER cute. it is hateful and it is a disease to any relationship.
I won't put up with it in any relationship.
I also refuse to be jealous. If I have to worry about her being with someone else, she should just leave.

Mesonfielde · Answer

"Jealous" stands for territorial, distrustful, and controlling.

PiuBelloAmante · Answer

my ex used to flirt with waiters etc to get me jealous
The first time i broke up with her, i left her at the restaurant and told her to ask peter (our waiter) for a ride back home... after that day, she stopped doing that crap

She enjoyed me getting upset at her flirty ways... She mentioned a few times she liked seeing my jealousy, but now i am too mature for that bullshit

Elena_the_Star · Answer

Yeah I want a guy who is kind of jealous I mean not someone who is tracking me down or something. There is a fine line between a protective and overprotective boyfriend. Like my ex was so much like whatever it made me feel like like he didn't care at all. I texted him once that I was having dinner with an ex and he was like K and I was annoyed at least ask me which ex and how long I am gonna be. Later he turned out to be a cheater who had 5 gfs behind my back

ccp16 · Answer

It is an extremely fine line to me... obsessing over it, or being rude to others is not cool and I would be upset with such behavior. Just enough though, to let me know they noticed someone else's interest is good. I think people who get jelous easily, either lack trust or self confidence though.

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Answer

Yeah I've had this one girl always thought it was cue to make me jealous
no it's not cute but they do it when i gave her the silent treatment then
she cried and made me feel happy and like shit at the same time for making
her cry , Yes it's wrong in so many ways my heart is soft and has bled over
many women in my lifetime , don't know how it lasted this long before i just
cracked up from nervous breakdown.

Sara413 · Answer

Oh Helllllll no! Jealousy is a big red flag and the moment I see it is the moment I GFTO.

Liusanity · Answer

Depends how jealous they'll be. I think it's acceptable to have a little bit jealousy in the relationship because it shows affection and how much you care about this person. But then if they're constantly jealous, clingy, over something you never did and they don't believe you, then that's typically a red flag.

Lady7 · Answer

No i dont find it cute. I find it rather annoying tbh

OpenWine · Answer

I am looking for a girl that understands how monogamic I am, that trust issue would be offending my personality

asiag299 · Answer

I don't think jealousy is cute but I did like when my SO got a tinge annoyed when I complimented someone else's good looks. Lol it was mostly famous people and he would get this really cute pout on his face haha we aren't together anymore although we're still friends. Does that count as jealousy though? :)

MargaritaPeach · Answer

Seeing a brief flash of jealousy cross someone's face... yes. It shows that they love and desire you enough to want you all for themselves. But when someone acts jealous or possessive out of insecurity, it's not all that attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

Jealous isn't attractive but I can sort of understand what others might be talking about i don't know if i'd call it jealousy though, more like a type of concern? I don't know but i've never experienced jealousy in a relationship that didn't end in some way because of it.

Yumix · Answer

no, there is nothing good about jealousy. its only a burden for the relationship...

lumos · Answer

Fuck no. Insecurity is not cute. It's a toxic thing that kills relationships. Anyone who thinks it's cute needs to get their head checked.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not cute. I really can't stand why someone gets jealous

oldanddecrepid · Answer

I don't find it cute... my girlfriend would never have to be jealous. I reassure her that she is the only one for me!

BadBoy72 · Answer

A very small amount of jealousy is healthy and (dare I say it?) attractive. A huge amount of jealousy is a major turn-off, and ultimately a deal-breaker.

Thisisme01 · Answer

It's sweet coz it shows that he really doses love you and is afraid of losing you to these other guys. Being excessively jealous can sometimes come across as very insecure or even lack of trust. On which case you need to reevaluate the relationship

Smile24-7 · Answer

Depends. If a girl/boy acts really harshly and accuses you of cheating then I certainly dont find that cute but when they pout or act a bit protective/starts to get a bit clingy around the person they are getting jealous of then I find it cute

MissPoirot · Answer

Jealous guys are annoying and I couldn't be with an obsessive person.. However, a very small amount would be funny (like when another guy hugs me or something). That just shows he really likes you. But no more than a little.

Sinister · Answer

I totally concur with you, being jealous is definitely not a good look!

Mustachekitteh · Answer

It would be but only because It would be a rare moment if it did. My boyfriend doesn't have a jealous bone in his body. My boyfriend would never get jealous because he thinks logically 24/7.

Anonymous · Answer

No, extreme turn off. Not acceptable in a mature relationship.

K-Cool-Dude · Answer

No, it could be never. Think how the other person would be experiencing and what would happen if you were him/her.

bang678 · Answer

I think it can be endearing. But I would hope that my partner can step back and be like "yes, i know I'm jealous and being silly. I know i have nothing to worry about. "

IamNuts · Answer

I agree. I can't see why anyone would find jealousy a cute trait.

R3d_Anonymous · Answer

If I had a girlfriend, no I wouldn't find it cute. It would be a turn-off.

Cmasterson · Answer

No, I don't, and I don't like feeling jealous either. I'm only jealous if you give me a reason to be and that's not cool x

Anonymous · Answer

No, I think it's annoying and I tell her to shut the fuck up BECAUSE I'M BANGING THIS BROAD.

Cjanes · Answer

To a certain point, like if I was flirting with some guy he'd step in but if I was just having a conversation he wouldn't care.

Prettygurl12 · Answer

It's cute for like 5 minutes. Then they need to get over it or I'll GIVE them something to be jealous about lol

GnarCute · Answer

its cute if they get jealous rarely but if they get jealous all the time they can pack they're bags go

Lisa2521 · Answer

I think yes it's cute when my boyfriend is jealous because it means he loves me and he cares about me.
But I don't want him to be very jealous like a cave man , it's totally annoying and it also can mean that he's not a confident man

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's immature, if he or she like/love you they would be mature about the situation.

pr3ttybr0wn · Answer

I like it within reason. I wouldn't feel cared about if my guy didn't at least get a little jealous

HookingSwan · Answer

well some jealousy is good as long as it doesn't border mistrust

mooky06 · Answer

I think being jealous here and there is cute, not all the time.

Anonymous · Answer

Trust me. When my boyfriend is jealous, it isn't cute!

complicated_soul · Answer

It will be cute as long he doesn't take out the jealousy anger on me.❤😊

TheAngryBanana · Answer

nope its a very ugly trait specially in large amounts

SarahsSummer · Answer

Yeah, it lacks confidence.

bubble_tea · Answer

I think like with many things it depends on the delivery. It can be cute.

OutOfYourLeague · Answer

yeah I find it cute.. ;)  But too much of anything is bad..

Bandit74 · Answer

I think a little bit can be cute. It also depends on how they express it.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Ehh a little bit but after that it becomes kind of unattractive.

Anonymous · Answer

Only when her jealous reactions are out of control in a cute girly way.

chrisbigman · Answer

Not really. I suppose in a way it may be flattering. But for the most part, no.

BruceJender · Answer

Sort of, but if it's almost every day, I can't handle it.

BigbuttLvr · Answer

When I was younger, but now any hint of jealousy is a turn off.

Anonymous · Answer

A little bit is always OK, but, don't go overboard, such as flirting with married people. that's a no no

thera · Answer

Hell no, that's annoying.

Anonymous · Answer

Never known the feeling, never had a girl-*sobs* friend.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's cute when my boyfriend gets jealous it shows he cares, as long as it's not overly jealous! Hope that helps :)

Tiffany07 · Answer

Yeah.. Its quite cute.. <3

PrincessTashaaaa · Answer

It's cute at first, but it gets old fast.

Femdomina · Answer

Sometimes, a little bit cute :D

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