Do you know when someone has a crush on you?

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What are the 'clues' generally?

Mistnigqa808 · Accepted Answer

"Do you know when someone has a crush on you?" Yup, I can tell right off the bat if and when a girl has a thing for me. Since her body/facial expressions will tip me off everytime #NeverFails.

Heck as most GAGers already know I had like 19-25 #CONFIRMED crushes in the 8th grade alone. but here's the funny part "I never talked to some of these girls a day in my life" but I could tell that they liked me.

So what I'd do was "befriend them today" and "get them to confess tomorrow" as I liked to call it (¬‿¬). And every girl admitted to it + asked me "how'd I know?". But like I told them "the body/face will never lie" or at least it hasn't to me thus far in my lifetime when it comes to girls ^_^.

"What are the 'clues' generally?"

#1 If they look at you a lot while they're talking to their friend it's a good chance that they have a thing for you.

#2 If they put on their flirtatious voice while greeting you + act a little funny when compared to normal it's a good chance they're thinking about you in some other way than "just wanting to be friends".

#3 If they're loud OR always trying to have your eyes on them for no good reason... yeah they probably like you.

#4 If they like to touch you for no reason/horseplay.. yeah... they're digging you

#5 If they're always asking you questions/trying to hang out with you in some way or another... yeah they're probably crushing on you.

#6 If they stutter like a jack rabbit or ya know just look "lovey dovey inside" if and when you're around them it's a good chance that they like you.

#7 They'll usually give you some form of special treatment to ya know heighten their chances of getting with you if and when they confess ^_^

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Clovis93 · Accepted Answer

Sometimes, sort of. I was acting super friendly towards this girl in my class, and I think I may have mislead her. I say this because she seemed to get jealous whenever I talked to my girl friends in class.

In all honesty though it's like impossible to be able to tell if someone has a 'crush' on you unless they tell you. The only thing we can do is attempt to make judgments based on the nonverbal signals people give us, which is not reliable. Hell, I could be wrong in assuming that that chick in my class had a thing for me hah

IamNuts · Accepted Answer

Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he may either look away quickly if he is shy, or he'll try to catch your eye and hold it or make faces. This can be uncomfortable if you don't like him. If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there. When he's around you and he says/does something funny and everyone around laughs, his eyes will flicker towards you for a second to see if you laughed, too. Just something I've noticed.

AvaMarina · Accepted Answer

Only if they're really obvious. Like they go out of their way to get close to me (putting an arm around my shoulder or resting a hand on my lower back), they blush a lot, they get weirdly jealous of my guy friends...

Honestly though, I usually don't notice until they actually ask me out, even if my friends try to convince me.

ElissaDido · Accepted Answer

I rarely notice by myself, unless the guy comes to me and tells bluntly that he has a crush on me, otherwise it's always my friends/ sister/ mother who tell me that a certain guy checked me out or has a crush on me.

xHoneyxBeex · Accepted Answer

I usually don't realize it until the person tells me. I'm not good at picking up on "signs" and things like that.

Frost_Byt3 · Answer

One time i thought someone had a crush on me, and i acted based on my assumption, but she turned out not to have a crush on me.

I swear, NEVER AGAIN.

Now i go through life assuming that nobody has a crush on me. I will make no assumptions unless they straight up tell me "i want you in my pants".

slywinkle · Answer

Sometimes i know. Unfortunately, its almost always a lady I'm EXTREMELY not interested in. And that really sucks cuz I hate to disappoint people. Typically, I catch 'em giving me the eye, or trying to insert themselves into my conversations/activities etc. Getting really touchy/up in my personal space, all the usual stuff. It really depends on the woman/man though, as not everyone shows interest the same.

Kay211 · Answer

Tbh I never know.

Sometimes I'll like a guy and sometimes it'll seem like he likes me and then I remember that I'm not lucky enough for that kind of thing to happen. Overthinking and jealousy and all the real good shit starts flowing in. Oh, and then they leave and I get to pretend they never existed. Yaaay, fun.

*probably obvious I'm clueless on the signs.

laughingdeer · Answer

I know when a girl feels shy around me. As for crush... mmm... yes, there are obvious signs for girls and they vary greatly... infact its so complex no single guy can list them all. However there are some basic signs that are always present. Google them. I dont want to type much. :p

The key sign however is what you "FEEL" the heart never lies.

Ulyss · Answer

It's really noticeable when they keep smiling at you laugh at your lame jokes but there's some women that know how to hide it and the only way to catch them is if you have a friend that can catch her ogling you lol

ConsultantIsBack · Answer

Guys can't read minds. Show and Tell your crush how you feel!

kartoos · Answer

Yeah, there was one girl at my tuition and clearly she was into me.. How do I know that?
She used to stare at me all the time in class, follow me to another room whenever I went to pray. One time she also prayed right after I was done and while I was going out I heard her friend tell her "he's not even looking at you"..

candyaurora · Answer

Oh yes mostly. It is easy to tell in guys. He will joke around you, try to take your side openly in a debate, will try to find opportunities to try to talk to you (even if those are small ones like trying to give a message which you already received!) And yeah finally will stare at you mostly !

DarkHumorRUs · Answer

Uh, I've never known if anyone has had a crush on me.

godfatherfan · Answer

Nope. I don't think it has ever happened so I definitely don't. When I was married my wife would tease me that I didn't have a clue when someone was flirting with me. I don't think that ever happened either but I really would have no clue.

Anonymous · Answer

So I'm straight and I can't tell when a girl likes me but I can tell when a guy likes me. Guys are a little more obvious (maybe cuz they're gay and they're trying to be friends) but I can never tell with girls unless her friends tell me like they have a few times in the past.

jessicorn · Answer

i'm quite slow at those tho... but i can sometimes tell but when they give out strong signals such as staring at you, trying to talk to you more, texting you all the time, etc. but usually the tell tell to me is when they directly let me know lol...

Princessnikki15 · Answer

Kind of. If they text me often , the way they act with me , if they Try to make conversation. But some people are just not able to be read by their actions you have to wait till they make the move or you ask them yourself

Maxemeister · Answer

Apparently the only way I can know when someone has a crush on me is when I'm told outright. That's what happened, basically. I was told by another person. Still wondering how to take this...

Bards · Answer

They always say hi, compliments me, touches me, call me by my name, ask me if I'm with anyone, touch my hair, keep touching my knee with theirs, sits close, gives me things, asks me things, teases me, smiles at me a lot. Puts paper in my hair.

Jonny_ · Answer

Nope, I know all the signs and all the 'clues' in terms of a logical list... but do I notice a single bit of it when someone is into me? Nope.

TheOneLol · Answer

Do you have a crush on me? If no then im in a bad situation :O

Dan2287 · Answer

I can honestly say I've never known. I can't tell when/if a girl is flirting either

FrenchEmma · Answer

Sometimes a friend of the boy tells me, but most of the time it's not difficult, he would look at me (a lot) ;)

HighlanderTheOne · Answer

Unless they tell me I won't. Try to be clear. You say we are retarded. Don't have expectations then.  "Geniuses"

springocelot · Answer

they'll tease you. they'll try to get closer to you, they may talk about you a lot to others

SilenRose · Answer

No. Only if they are super obvious about like bringing me a flower or heavy flirting.

MrMafioso · Answer

Yes. If the girl is with her friends, I notice that her friends look at me like a lot. After she talked to her friends, they would look at me from time to time and would giggle.

soccerchick4eva · Answer

Im normally clueless about it hahaha i can never spot it unless they're straight up with it :")

CHARismatic110 · Answer

No because I never expect anyone to. So I wouldn't even know what to looks for.

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes I think a girl liked me but then they'd go cold. Some girls go hot and cold on a weekly basis with me when I don't act any differently towards them. It's so confusing. :(

RedThread · Answer

Nah I'm usually completely ignorant about this.. I wish I was better at knowing because people say it's obvious to everyone but me lol

Abigail1711 · Answer

No hints, I just get the feeling. But it always turn out to be true :/

Strider90 · Answer

When I say ''good morning'' to her and she freaks out ''OMG!!! uuhh... good morning!!!'' and then look the ground until I'm away.

TierraArvia · Answer

They keep staring at you, they try to get your attention by walking in front of you, and they blush whenever they're around you.

COCOCHANEL · Answer

eye contact, trying to be close to me (physically) and going out of his way to be nice to me

clampfan101 · Answer

Maybe by the look on their face and the way they talk to you.

LordZero · Answer

I remember a warmth called... hope.

Anonymous · Answer

For example if they tell you that they have a crush on you, you can exactly know at that time lol.

ElizabethBiersack · Answer

No has ever had a crush on me so I have no idea

chrisbigman · Answer

Sometimes you don't. I didn't.

Yanoa_Yanza · Answer

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't :o

Bimbobambo · Answer

Nope. Im stupid in this matter.

chocolateismylover · Answer

Nope, not really.

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