Do woman give blowjobs less often the longer they are with someone?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend has basically stopped giving me blowjobs after we have been together over a year. The first 6 months I would get maybe 1-2 a month, now it's zero. I don't think I've gotten one in 3-4 months. I was just wondering is this is a trend amongst women?

[MissPanda]

I've been with my boyfriend for years and I still give him BJ's, I mean straight up BJ's for his pleasure and nothing in return. I def agree with the MHG girl when she says men generally get more oral than women, but I think it's because it's easier to get a dude off. A blow job doesn't last long, and can be done anywhere. I suck his dick in his truck, at work, fishing etc it can be done anywhere and easily pulled out and tucked back in. For me, he can't pull my vagina out anywhere and just do it in 2 minutes. This could be just me but I need time, it doesn't happen for me that fast. I need to take my pants right off and be able to spread my legs out lol its more effort for him.

I think when a girl stops doing it she didn't really enjoy doing it in the first place, this is not including a bad relationship where the couple fights all the time or are abusive wih eachother. I've always enjoyed pleasing a boyfriend that way, so even if I don't get it as much I still want to give it.

[udolipixie]

Do woman give blowjobs less often the longer they are with someone?
Yes in my experience I find gals start putting less extra effort in pleasing the male and tend to go at his level.. and I find most guys have a really low level of putting effort in pleasing a gal (ie sex is a given so no to little effort in being appealing for her to desire sex which they call jumping through hoops and her orgasm is her responsibility so no to little effort in pleasing her). Overral though American studies show most guys of every age range still get more oral than they give. So to me male complaints of less oral are spoiled whinings.

[snowangle]

This was deff true in my case. Although he has since made my pleasure a priority, so I've gone back to putting my extra effort in. :)

[REALisRARE]

I can only speak for myself obviously, but I'm not like that. If anything it would become more frequent because I was more comfortable with the man I was with. Plus the longer you're with someone the more you need to switch it up to keep it fun and new. Have you tried asking your lady what's going on? Maybe she doesn't feel like you enjoy it when she goes down on you and it could be as simple a fix as you saying "hey babe, I really enjoy that and you're really great at it".

[bombamboum]

I don't think it's a trend. I've been with my boyfriend for more than two years and he still get he still get as many blow jobs as he want and I'm more than happy to oblige

[Anonymous]

I find the opposite to be true... usually beyond a one night stand, girls you are dating get very self conscious of performing oral- or even receiving it! I found my past girlfriends didn't really get more into oral both ways for at least 4 months

[singlebee]

1-2 or 3-4 as month is very less to even start with...

That's why now it's zero... Maybe she needs to be reminded that she can't get so comfy in the relationship... And she needs to make an effort or else she gets dumped

[singlebee]

Thanks for the Mho!..

[bluenose1872]

That's you pigeon holed ma man. Women give out less everything after a while. They've got the mentality that when they've got you in a routine they can gradually stop trying to please you. And they wonder why men mess around.

[fauchelevent]

I've been with my boyfriend for four years and I still give him a blowjob every time we have sex.

[Dragonstarterplus]

Well If you've already talked to her about it, then dump her and find a girl thats actually attracted to you

[LuxyB]

You get a BJ don’t forget to return back the happiness. My girl gave me 3 or 4 anywhere without ask and in return i give my girl what they need mostly sex, good food and holiday… i am Asian man.

[periodicelement]

I think it depends on the girl. I love giving blowjobs and I give them constantly

[Anonymous]

Wow thats lame. can't deal with a girl who won't givve me head

[Anonymous]

Yes I think they do. It happened to me and a lot of guys that I know

[Imready]

So ask her for one? duh

[Jared____]

lol 😂 This question makes me so happy

[singlebee]

Why?

[redeyemindtricks]

It isn't.

[Anonymous]

Because you need to insist

[Anonymous]

Tell her you really like random blow jobs.