Girls, Would you date a guy 5'10"?

[SteamBuns]

ALSO, He's everything you've ever wanted in a guy... but he's 5'10"...

[MarbleLines]

That's perfect for me, I'm not really into guys that are more than an inch taller than me because height is my only advantage in life so it makes me uncomfortable when I'm with taller guys. But anyway, 5,10" would be great as long as the guy would be okay with me being an inch taller, I'm cool with it if he is, lol

[SteamBuns]

i don't have a problem with being an inch taller than a girl tbh

[MarbleLines]

Lol, cool

[MCheetah]

@MarbleLines
You're 5'11" as a woman? That's great!

[ianbmid]

so for lack of a better word you like to dominate. and are you the top in bed?

[kiki54262]

I have this thing where my maximum height difference is 8 inches, and I'm 5'2. So yeah.

But it really matters about your personality. If I was 4'5 and I loved everything about your personality, then heck yeah. And according to the question, he is everything I want in a guy.

[creativeuserguy]

You won't date a 5'1 man?

[princessjas-mine]

Seeing as how I'm only 5'3 of course I would height shouldn't be a factor if you truly like this person

[SteamBuns]

thank you

[creativeuserguy]

Can you date a 5'1 man?

[creativeuserguy]

Hmmm

[princessjas-mine]

@creativeuserguy well if I really liked him I wouldn't mind so much if he didn't mind either

[Princeofanons]

Omg it's basically game over for you bruh... don't even bother tryin...

[SteamBuns]

based on all the comments, i;m okay dude

[ASEXY]

Most girls would date a guy that tall because that's average duh.

[SteamBuns]

how am i supposed to know its average

[ASEXY]

You could google it...

[Anonymous]

Nope, I have a strict 6'10 rule.

I kid, I kid because your question is funny. 5'10" isn't even short... hence why I made fun, you goose!
I've dated a guy that was 5'2 1/2", so 5'2" or taller would have been okay as he's okay with my occasionally wearing heels still... I am 5'3 1/2".

[creativeuserguy]

Seriously you have date a 5'2 man despite being 5'4?
How did you feel about being with such a man!

[Opinion Owner]

@creativeuserguy Yeah, he was my first love. We are still great friends.

[creativeuserguy]

You wear heels?

[Opinion Owner]

@creativeuserguy Very rarely but yes... just for weddings and formal stuff. As he isn't insecure about it and doesn't try to control what I wear or anything I really don't care how tall he is.

[creativeuserguy]

Can you date a 5'1 man?

[Opinion Owner]

@creativeuserguy I probably would have if I liked him & he was insecure. I'd probably date a guy that was shorter even but I never met a guy shorter that didn't have some sort of complex and that makes guys super unattractive to me. If he's fine with it & owns it, I'd be fine with it & proud to be with him.

[Opinion Owner]

and he was secure I meant... I couldn't be with an extremely insecure guy.

[creativeuserguy]

You would be proud to be with a short man. Lol. Interesting. What would make you feel proud about it. Am curious.
Hmm, so you have known shorter men but they were Insecure about it, Insecure as in? I mean what did they say and do that made you realise they were Insecure?

[Opinion Owner]

@creativeuserguy How they hold themselves and act around girls, how they quickly become defensive or defeatest when certain things come up... turn off.

And yes I only date amazing guys so regardless of his height if I'm with him he is pretty awesome and I am proud to be able to call such a great guy my guy.

[creativeuserguy]

Such a great guy... Lol... A grey guy. Haha. Ok.
So when a guy is short, he is in general bitter towards girls, shuns the company of girls in general and taller girls in particular , doesn't interact with women... These are signs of a short man insecurity?

[creativeuserguy]

How can a guy who is 5'0 be confident and comfortable with it esp when girls are also taller than him everytime?

[Opinion Owner]

@creativeuserguy Yes, and by that behavior he is actively proving himself right by being his own worse enemy which validates his opinion and digs him in a bigger hole. Insecurity means you often can not believe people when they tell you what goes against your frame of thinking because the deeper you get in the hole the harder it becomes to see the light. Life can be hard enough without making your own hurdles to jump.

Being comfortable with yourself is a decision... nothing more. No one can be comfortable with you if you are not first comfortable with yourself. It's been proven time and time again that positive people have more friends and more options dating wise. people are drawn to positivity & exceptence. Life is a self fulfilling prophecy. If you can take your self proclaimed faults and make them works for you... while you can rule the world.

[Opinion Owner]

@creativeuserguy "How can a guy who is 5'0 be confident and comfortable with it esp when girls are also taller than him everytime?" By not caring if the girl is taller. By not feeling like he has to prove his masculinity due to his height. Knowing that one has nothing to do with the other. If you go into a situation thinking you will fail you already did and you minus well pack it in and call it a day.

[creativeuserguy]

A 5'0 man is bound to be Insecure given when girls try and poke fun of his height.
Ok, so if a guy behaves that way , girls can sense that he is being Insecure about his height?
They sense it's insecurity of Height?
Would a girl avoid and ignore such a guy?
Suppose he was standing in a group of guys, the girl joins the group and thus short guy leaves the group after a very short time. Will the girl sense that he left it because of her presence? What would she think about him?

[Opinion Owner]

@creativeuserguy Girls will poke fun because he's insecure usually from measuring himself up against other guys. Then once this happens he has validated his insecurity by proving himself right and the cycle will constantly continue until he breaks it... no one else can do that for him.

And in your scenario of a group of guys, no. She moat likely wouldn't have even have noticed him to care enough to venture a guess as to why he left. Maybe he had somewhere to be? Who knows, not her because he never gave her a chance to care. If he's that insecure where he leaves shortly after you join , it becomes like a blanket of invisibility. People don't go looking for problems. It becomes something you don't even think about... like a second nature. He decided before you even came over that he wasn't worth your time and in that thought process he proves himself right, he wasn't.

[Opinion Owner]

@creativeuserguy My ex who was 5'2" had lots of girlfriends after me.. most of which were even taller then me. If he ever even noticed he was shorter it never showed because he didn't care about it therefore nobody else did either.

[Opinion Owner]

My 3 guy friends who were man whore were all around 5'6". Their height never bothered or effected them in a real world sense.. all were frequently approached by girls and had large groups of tight friends. They were cool, fun down to earth which made them very attractive. One fell in love and when it ended he took it hard and never having lost anything he took it to heart and when she started to date another guy he became very insecure and all that attention he once had disappear because he never felt worth it after that and people proved him right and then he in turn proved them right. it's a cycle dude. A hard one to break because you have to realize that your doing it in the first place and the longer you do that the deeper you get the less likely you will ever be able to find your way out enough to even see what your doing to yourself.

[creativeuserguy]

I don't know , i feel unworthy and extremely insecure about my short height. I can't even be around a woman , even a stranger woman on the street makes me feel insecure , inferior and ashamed of myself.

[creativeuserguy]

I don't know , i feel unworthy and extremely insecure about my short height. I can't even be around a woman , even a stranger woman on the street makes me feel insecure , inferior and ashamed of myself.

[Opinion Owner]

@creativeuserguy The first thing you have to realize is that she isn't making you feel that way, you are.

[creativeuserguy]

She isn't making me feel inferior and unworthy?
I don't know.
He built is scaring me, making me feel less than her. I want to keep myself hidden in a room because I can't see women towering over me or even being face to face

[London_Rose]

6'10? damn... how do you reach that... i mean I have a 6'5 (the max) rule because I'm like 5'8 and 1/2, but damn 6'10. How tall are you?

[GnarCute]

size only matters when you make it matter [IE when you make a big deal about it]

[creativeuserguy]

What's your height?

[GnarCute]

@creativeuserguy 5'2"

[GnarCute]

5'3"**

[creativeuserguy]

So , can you date and like a man who is 5'1?

[GnarCute]

@creativeuserguy aslong as he isn't a prick

[GnarCute]

i dated a guy who was 4'7" i only broke up with him because he was an asshole

[creativeuserguy]

4'7
Damn... You were attracted to him as well.
How...
He wasn't Insecure about it?

[kaylaS91]

sure. My boyfriend is closer to 5'8" and I love him to bits.

[toefoo]

Little bits?

[kaylaS91]

@toefoo Ha. Ha. good one.

[creativeuserguy]

Are you tall?
Umm, and what if a man is 5'1?

[kaylaS91]

@creativeuserguy I'm 5'10" so yeah, I guess you could say I'm tall.
I'm not so sure that I'd be cool with dating a guy who's almost a foot shorter than me, tbqh.

[creativeuserguy]

:( ok
What's the lowest you can go?

[kaylaS91]

@creativeuserguy If he had to go on his tippy toes to kiss me (so I guess... 5'5") would be the absolute minimum.

[creativeuserguy]

Why would he get on his Tippy toes...
Why wouldn't you bend down , or maybe pick him up to kiss?

[kaylaS91]

@creativeuserguy pick him up to kiss? what in the fuck. He's not my child.

[creativeuserguy]

I mean just lightly pick him up...
Like sometimes tall men do with their short girls...
Ok, can't you bend to kiss him?

[kaylaS91]

@creativeuserguy Lightly pick him up? How would picking someone up 'lightly' differ from picking them up in any other way?
Of course I can bend over but if our heights are so mismatched that we can't even kiss without him having to use a step stool or something, I'm not going to be into it at all.

[creativeuserguy]

Why does it matter if you can't kiss him standing up?
You can always kiss his head... Wouldn't that be sufficient for you?

[kaylaS91]

@creativeuserguy no, it wouldn't.

[creativeuserguy]

In bed or while sitting down , height would not matter much..
Still a big no to men lower than 5'5?

[kaylaS91]

@creativeuserguy I'm not going to be sitting down throughout the majority of my relationship so no. Stop trying.

[creativeuserguy]

ohhhhhhh...
but a 5'6 man is acceptable to you?

[kaylaS91]

@creativeuserguy maybe

[creativeuserguy]

Okkkkk
That's sad

[luvstoned4him]

5'10 is good. I see nothing wrong with it. I am 5'8 .

[lilidoosofshmut]

Yes. I'm 5'1 and my boyfriend of 8 years is 5'11. I love the height difference. However, I know a lot of guys that wouldn't want to date something as short as I am.

[CheerGirl38139]

does he have steamy buns?

[SteamBuns]

lmao Only if u want him to have steamy buns

[MCheetah]

Nope; they would not. Too short. Two inches more and they would.

[Lolita911]

Yeah that's the height my guy is so I guess obviously I would

[PrincessBunBuns]

Wtf he's taller than me. Hell yeah.

[SteamBuns]

ayye Buns family

[creativeuserguy]

If a man is 5'1?

[PrincessBunBuns]

I frankly don't care as long as they're taller or the same size as me. My boyfriend was 18 and same size as me. IT WAS SO FUCKING CUTE JESUS CHRIST.

[London_Rose]

since he's everything that I've ever wanted in a guy, then yes... but I'm a little bit under 5'10 (5'8 or 5'8 and 1/2 to be exact) so I guess that's okay 💁

[FruitTingler]

5'10 is average for white males. So duh.

[creativeuserguy]

Yeah..
What's your height?

[FruitTingler]

I am 5'2

[creativeuserguy]

Can you date a 5'1 man?

[FruitTingler]

Probably not. I find height attractive. 5'6 is probably my limit in 99.99% of cases.

[creativeuserguy]

Anything less than 5'6 is sort of deal breaker?
It's sad even women in shorter side hate small men like me

[FruitTingler]

I never said I hated you O. o

[creativeuserguy]

I said a deal breaker?

[crazylovebugger]

Of course, I like a guy whose 5'9 1/2 and I love his height.. well I'm only 5ft lol :)

[chanelrose]

Sure, but anything below is a dealbreaker...

[SteamBuns]

Dang

[creativeuserguy]

Your height?

[Masada]

Yes, because that is still 8 inches taller than me

[Anonymous]

Sure. Why wouldn't I?

[creativeuserguy]

How tall are you?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm 5'3

[creativeuserguy]

Can you date a 5'1 man?

[Opinion Owner]

I have.

[creativeuserguy]

So sweet.
You wear heels?

[MCheetah]

@Anonymous
Because it's short for a man (in the West). Women only like tall men.

[Kitten967]

Yes I would

[Anonymous]

Dude you are so tall...
Imagine being 5'2 man

[boochie0]

Yes I would

[Anonymous]

Obviously

[SteamBuns]

lool, u know how some girls are...