If a girl is really mad at you and won't talk to you at all, will time maybe change her mind?

[Anonymous]

if a girl who is so mad at you for something that she told you don't call or text her anymore, will time maybe cool her off? if I apologize, (I don't even know what its for to be honest) will she maybe think it over in a week or 2 and then want to talk about it? or are girls pretty set when they are like this.

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+1 y

yea it turns out she is mad because I talked to some friends of her friends on instant messenger about how hard it is to go out with her, and was looking for some advice, funny thing is she told me on our last date she's really hard to get to know..ironic

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+1 y

i texted her about how sorry I was, that it was my fault and hopefully she can forgive me, she texted back almost instantly, not to worry about it, but thanks. should I try to ask her out again for a 2nd chance?

[tony8832]

I would move on. Same thing is happening to me. We were tight friends(she) at work now it all changed. So I tried to ask what the problem was she said in so many words was "why do I freak out if I am not talking to you". IT KNOCKED ME OVER! I was a little put off by it. So I moved on. I know its not true. I think there is something else going on. Anyways too many other girls out there plus I am seeing someone. So I moved on. I sit right next to her at work but I could care less if she never speaks to me ever again. Little history on this chick she is in her earlier thirties, lives at home, no boyfriend and very few friends. She had a female best friend at work who she cut contact with for a year because a difference of opinion on a TV show! There will be a time to clear your name when its time. For now leave her alone. Don't be the creepy guy.

[Asker]

I know man, lol. she tells me herself that she's really hard to get to know, that her friends even say that. but when I try to ask her friendds for advice on the things she likes and mention that it is really hard to get to know, she freaks out that I'm talking about her behind her back... crazy

[Oceangrind]

Dude she was waiting for you to tell her that you loved her she was giving you the chance and you ignored her wow 😂

[Oceangrind]

Take it slow give her space if that's what she wants talk to her like nothing ever happened slowly build the friendship and or relationship up and if she still doesn't talk to you give a little wave here and there

[backspace]

Well me and this girl I was going out with had some a huge fight about what was not important but we didn't see each other for 3 months and had another fight and didn't talk to each other for another 3 months. After witch she called me and we had the best 15 min conversation ever before meeting up and after two hours we were kissing again. So yeah everybody comes around again sometimes it all depends on how much room you give them and how angry they are. But it doesn't help you if they're still unwilling to take a look at their own problems as is the case with me and this girl.
Good luck

[CittyKat]

My $0.02

When a girl is like that, she is over the relationship, so you should get over it too. However, you should clear your name. Wait a week or two, call her, and with a cool tone tell her you understand why she is upset, and you would be upset too. Let her know that you aren't trying to get her back, and that you have accepted that it is over, but you wanted her to know the truth. Tell that you cared about her and respected her, and you don't know how the viscous rumors started, but you would never say anything bad. Then let her know that you hope to be friends one day and you will give her the space she requested.

DO NOT go to her work! That is a creepy stalker move!

It is over. Clear your name and move on! You will get peace of mind and maybe some respect.

[sylve]

Depends on the girl, I guess, and what your relationship with her was before she got annoyed - were you friends, going out, just acquaintances etc. etc.?

Maybe leave it a week or so to give her time to think it over; she might start to regret that she was so harsh with you which could make her more receptive if you call.

Mind you, it's not unreasonable to ask for an explanation as to why she's suddenly cracked it at you...

[Asker]

Starting to date, I know I didn't think an explanation was too much to ask for even if she doesn't every want anything to do with me again, I at least would like to know why

[sylve]

Well, at least you know she cared enough about you to get upset and hurt by the rumour, if that's any consolation...

She's probably feeling really betrayed and doubtful so don't wait, make sure she knows how you feel and ask for just a little bit of trust ey...

[queenvictoria4242]

well a girl sometimes says don't call, but they sometimes want you to call...that dosn't mean she will answer the phone, but she just wants to know tha you still care about her...or it could be the complete opposite and she really doesn't wanna hear from you, it all depends on the person.

[Asker]

Today she told me not to call or text her anymore, we kinda work in the same company different stores, do you think it would be OK if I stopped by her work place on the way to work to see if she'll talk at all?

[queenvictoria4242]

Well what exactly hppened? like why doesn't she wanna talk to you?

[Asker]

Supposedly... someone close to her told me she heard rumors that I was talking crap about her? I'm so confident and sure that this is not true, and she probably just took a part of a conversation out of context. but she won't speak to me, so all I have is this person telling me why she's so mad. I'm just afraid even if I stop by to talk to her for a little bit she will refuse to talk to me and just tell me to leave. even if this can't be fixed I would really like to know/hear from her why

[queenvictoria4242]

Yeah then I think you should stop by her work...try to explain so she can hear your side of the story, and if she won't talk write her a letter explaining what happened.

[loveismylife]

maybe she needs to think about stuff for a while so let her be and then after a while try talking to her again

[Asker]

Maybe.. I thought about that. when we briefly talked she said, once somebody talks about her behind her back, they are gone from her life, she cuts all contact with them. maybe your right, time might cool her down but I don't think so. I really don't wanna be that creepy stalker guy that after 2 weeks tries talking to her when she told me not to text or call her. I do miss her, but I wanna respect her wishes and kinda move on, if I try to talk to her again, won't it just set me back in moving on?

[loveismylife]

well maybe you should get her some flowers and talk to her more because you sound like you really like this gurl!

[Asker]

Its pointless, she's made up her mind. I did really like her, but this situation has kinda shed the light for me on her. she wont' even let me apologize or explain over something so little, willing to throw away like the last 2 months and all communication/friendship, that's not someone you wanna get together with lol. after all she's mad that I talked to her best friend about how difficult she is to get to know, when she told me that herself on a date once..mad for discussing something she told m

[loveismylife]

well if you did some thing bad and if you are really sorry then try talking to her about it maybe she will forgive you about it

[Asker]

She already doesn't want to talk to me, I tried calling her and texting her she only responded once after about 3 days to tell me to stop calling/texting her. I figured trying in person will be harder to ignore, but I'm afraid even then she'll just refuse to say anything to me...

[Oceangrind]

Do it in person she thinks you're a coward doing it over the phone

[Anonymous]

So there this girl I truly like. One day she acted different. She wasn't her self I tried to make her feel better like telling her that, your never alone I'm not going to leave you. Cuz she's the kind of girl that hates being alone. I no it's my fault bc she told me to stop. And I didn't listen. So now she won't talk to, Look at me, and text me back. Maybe I care to much so I couldn't stop. I just know that it hard bc I work with her. And it make me feel uneasy.

[loveismylife]

well give her some time and let her calm down and watever you did couldn't be that bad right?

[loveismylife]

well maybe you need to talk to her face to face

[Asker]

I did, she's mad that I talked about something she's already told me and her friend even agrees with that, but she's kinda weird like that, moving on to less crazy

[loveismylife]

well try to beg for her bk if you really miss her

[loveismylife]

i think you should