If the guy wants to be submissive and the lady wants to dominate, then it would be crazy for them to conform to society's norm that man is the master. Neither the man nor the woman will be happy trying to be something they are not.
I think that the gentle femdom you propose for these couples is probably the only type of femdom that is going to work in a long-term relationship.
A lot of submissive guys are more than happy to be given a spanking or to be pinned down and smothered. They like the image of a whip wielding leather clad dom, but few men actually want a strong woman to take a bull whip or cane to them on a regular basis.
There are guys who are successful in business and sports and prefer to dominate in most aspects of the relationship but like the woman to take control in the bedroom.
Even submissive men who want to be dominated in all aspects of the relationship will find that being completely controlled, eg being told what to wear, who they can see, etc, gets pretty tedious very quickly.
Of course there has to be some compromise. The guy might have to adjust his limits down if the lady wants to dominate more in the bedroom than he is initially comfortable with or the lady might have to accept that he has his limits. Similarly in other aspects of the relationship the lady might have to accept that the guy does want to make some decisions himself, but perhaps he lets her have the final say on major issues. Compromise is necessary in any relationship whether it is female led or conventional. However, in a female led relationship, in many cases it will be the guy who has to give more, as there seem to be many more submissive men than dominant ladies and the law of supply and demand applies.
I love it, gentle femdom is the best :D
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Ah I never knew there was actual terms for this behavior. In most of my relationships I have been dominant, however I perfer to be submissive. 😅 I'm not very good at causing others pain, I'm much more gentle when I take the dominant role 😅
I feel like it would be interesting. So maybe i'd consider trying it. Sounds pretty.. fun. Maybe just a bit.
I don't personally enjoy it but I also don't judge people that do
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To me, it's just another role playing activity and it always makes for some really hot sex! It means that a woman will be using me as a sexual object, making me do whatever she wants, when she wants and, most importantly HOW she wants. It also gives the woman the opportunity to act out any and all kinky fantasies.
Plus, it gives me some insight on how she wants to be pleasured.
I like that in sex I think, but outside that I would prefer if she wasn't dominant over me. We're both pretty dominant people, so as long as we get along without dominating each other, we are fine.
I actually like it. Sounds kinky
I don't like the mean stuff, but a little spanking is OK, being tied up is OK, I love the taste of woman juices, I love to be naked in front of women … but no homosexual things and no pain
I actually didn't care about the question. I saw Saber and had to post.
Shirou will forever be Saber's wife.
sometimes, its fun throws my boyfriend off
For a relationship? No, but for just sex, I'm willing to switch it up a little bit some times. I think that's more fun than me being the dominant one all the time. I want to see her get wild.
I would really love my future girlfriend/wife to do this to me so that I can make weird and strange noises to let her know that I love her very much. ☺️❤️
I'm submissive and like to give pleasure to women. Femdom bdsm kinks are my fav. Girls pleasure and desires are what I crave to fulfill
I would like femdom in a LTR but a little more forceful sometimes than gentle in bed.
I had been in a wonderful relationship earlier with a dominant lady. It was awesome.
Read lots of erotica and the concept of giving a woman total control of everything including my body is such a turn on.
I like it but i like if she is a little rough sometimes too. Like spanking me 😅
I guess I would be into it but I have never done it
Yes I would like to try it, just need to find a Lady who likes it.
Erotic femdom wrestling does it for me.
Domineering women RULE!
Jesus, there's some thirsty guys on this thread.
I l8ke to try out light femdom
I want to its so romantic
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