What makes a guy fall in love with a girl?

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What are things that makes him think 'I love her'

69Relationship69 · Accepted Answer

I fell in love nearly 2 years ago with this beautiful girl we were talking on Facebook, Snapchat for 2 months before i met her we didn't meet up before the hat because she was in a relationship with another man I would have been her "friend" she would talk to about her problems I was fine with that but as we talked more I started to realise I was getting feelings but I didn't tell her straight off I kept talking to her about her problems and I just started telling her the truth even tho she was still with him and they finally broke up andi talked to her more and one night I asked her to meet me the next day and she agrees we both got up at 7 am and went travelling to meet and when I seen her I went all nervous because it's the first time I went to meet a girl but she was so beautiful no one could compare they still can't but we got to each other around 11 am and stayed till 7 pm and we went home and the next day we decided why not stay in my house and she did it was great we got together a few days after and we were together for 8 months and I did something I should have never done I broke up I know I'm a r****d and we went our own ways I got into a relationship with a few girls but they didn't work and I met another girl and was it that relation ship for 7 months and it just wasn't the same I missed the first girl to much she was on my mind a lot everyone would say to me I know you miss her I'd deny it because they would annoy me but me and this girl broke up after 7 months and it didn't have much of a effect on me because she was t in my heart like the first girl but at this stage me and the first girl were broke up for a year and 4 months I missed her for every bit of it I never stopped loving her she was stuck in my heart but after the year and 4 months the most amazing thing happened me and her got back in contact I was so happy I still am because it's like before but we're more mature now there does be our bad days but we're not majorly fight we are hoping to get our own house now so we don't have to travel to each other Because it is a distant relationship, but what I'm saying is this is my time to just settle down and live life with her

John_McStarrison · Accepted Answer

A kind, sincere and caring personality, a genuine desire to spend time with me and experience life together. it really doesn't take much for most guys, sometimes we overcomplicate love and forget to remember that the simplest things are often the best.

johanmdsn · Accepted Answer

If you can see past her flaws and imperfections and if you want to help her grow as a person therefore you have no issue telling her the truth all the time even if it is not something she wants to hear. If you think about her when you are making decisions and seeing how it might affect her or the both of you in a relationship, if you trust her with your life and her going out with other guys that are not you.

azzntittiz · Accepted Answer

Like when she's the one or just a great girl who doesn't pretend to be something she's not.

winterfox10 · Answer

In a word; appreciation.

For me a big one is actually just appreciating the effort I have put into something, taking my thoughts/feelings into account with her plans/decisions. I can't tell you how freakin common it is that people just blatantly disregard and disrespect each other to do their own thing. I get that you want to be independent, but would it kill you to do something as simple as like... putting more gas in the tank, or going hiking with me even though you would rather go shopping with your girlfriends, or acknowledge it when I do something that I didn't need to do for you.

It's really not asking much, but so many women couldn't care less when you do little things for them. Like if I call you 3 days in advance to tell you I'm coming into town and want to grab dinner before we all go clubbing together, don't flake on me last minute after I've made the reservation because you'd rather get take out with a friend you've been chilling with all week. Or it could even be something smaller, like thanking me for buying that videogame you wanted so we can play it together over a bowl of popcorn.

A woman who acts like she gives a crap about the effort I put into having a relationship would have me drooling so fast I'd need a mop.

Emile42 · Answer

When I fall in love, I fall hard, which makes it rather hard to put into words. All I can say is that everyone I've fallen for have been caring, intelligent, emotional and fun, yet shy, and witty people. (And, I admit, being attractive never hurt) However, to me, love isn't just definite qualities all merged into one person. I love people because of who they are, so, if you're looking for advice, just be yourself.

Unit1 · Answer

You really ask?
I mean... Girls and women are charming me very often and i fall so easily for them.
All you do is being nice, friendly, empathic and being so sincere and i catch feelings already.
But maybe that's just me.
Maybe it's because i already really love women.
Really, you women keep impressing Me ☺😍

mobymark · Answer

it's either there or it isn't. You can't make or trick a guy to love you. It might be possible if you spend a lot of time around him. But my experience is that the longer you are friends the harder it is for a guy to make a move.

MackFreeze · Answer

Her aura  Her Character values Dreams Goals Her appearances matter intially for attraction off the bat, but overall i look for the above in a long term mate.

Branes51 · Answer

If I could answer that and bottle it I'd be a billionaire.

malitia17 · Answer

she shows him respect. that is saying I love you to a guy. after that its all the same as for women.

doctorwhofan23 · Answer

I think it is someone you just click with someone goofy.

Titanic1912 · Answer

Her relationship with Jesus Christ, her personality, her manners, and her looks.

Mayk07 · Answer

for me it happens whenever I can just have great conversations with her (both deep and normal) but mostly whenever she dares to talk about harder times in life. it makes me feel like she trusts me and I find that attractive :-)

Anonymous · Answer

Ease of talking, likes my jokes and I like hers, and just after a while... We just keep connecting.

yukidjesus · Answer

When she publicly physically sexually humilitates me in front of people. :P jk I don't know.

BrianMerritt · Answer

That conpletely depend on what the guy is attracted to.

GD360 · Answer

Only the guy your interested in can answer that question

tribal17 · Answer

It's an overall. For me, it's called charm and it's different than the beauty. Smart conversations, good reactions of the small taunts, and deep glances help a lot.

TheFullestThrottle · Answer

Small waist foundation along with fresh insides and delectable curves topped off with a pretty smile, sprinkled with a tight short dress, well done nails and hair and aromatic perfume.

Gsxrj · Answer

I can tell you I hate non virgin girls. I will never love any non virgin girl I dated. They are there to be taken advantage of and used until a better girl with less mileage comes around.

KaydenChrist · Answer

good pussy and chemistry sprinkled with a little bit of craziness

SeerePetrova · Answer

time spent, thehole in our chest we feel after she leaves... the need we have to keep her close.. protected and happy.

LinkxPeach · Answer

Her attractive qualities, skinny or thick, and hair length.

king34 · Answer

same things that make u fall in love with a man, there's no secret recipe for guys

antonio2810 · Answer

smileee, when you are funny to her even though you say sometimes stupid jokes, and when she has that magical smile on her face

ri22-03-90 · Answer

initially the looks Nd Later Is understanding likes that matches

Anonymous · Answer

When everything just clicks and love being around them

iarlaithcos · Answer

watching her play with kids or animals. sleeping;?

RealDarkeyes · Answer

LOOKS PERSONALITY HOW MUCH SHE CARES

Anonymous · Answer

Not knowing her true self.

That01Guy · Answer

Hormones 😏

raulsilveira · Answer

Overall. Its not only a thing. Its THE girl.

tkt2024 · Answer

Personality does it for me

Derrs · Answer

being relatable to their type of humor lol

harshsheth · Answer

Beauty... Eyes... Figure... Nature

Imahs · Answer

influence of the girl

Anonymous · Answer

It's can be anything even a small thing

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

Oxytocin

gorillafarm · Answer

her personality

Lumberman53 · Answer

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