I want to have a threesome with my girlfriend and another girl - what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Me and my girlfriend have being going out for 3 1/2 years we are a very sexual couple and talk about everything.

she tells me she would love to be with another girl

but when ever a I ask her for a threesome she says no.

I guess she is jealous of me being with another girl..

is there a way of doing this without her being jealous of the other girl and how could we even get another girl to be on this adventure

[CuddlyCarla]

Statistically, 96% of couples break up soon after a threesome. If you want to have sex with another person and your girlfriend isn't enough, get out of the relationship, because you obviously don't value it or her. This is not something that will help a relationship or strengthen it. You may be out for a good time, but bear in mind that the reality of something and the fantasy are two different things. If you value your relationship, don't do it. If you really cared about her, you'd have a tough time seeing the person you love engaged in a sexual relationship with someone else. You may think it's going to be hot, but the feeling of it is not going to be what you anticipated. Seeing your partner being pleasured by someone else and seeing her enjoying them instead of you is going to be an issue for you. If she is jealous of you being with a girl, it obviously means deep down she cares for you and doesn't want to have a threesome. She may have her fantasies which she is entitled to, but obviously they are just fantasies for her and she doesn't want to make it a reality, probably because she knows it will cause problems for you as a couple. If she already feels negatively about it, then you can guarantee that when it happens, it is going to ruin everything you've built over three years. You shouldn't want to be part of a sexcapade that your girlfriend isn't comfortable with or doesn't want, that's selfish and doesn't speak highly of you as a boyfriend. It sounds like she is just verbalizing fantasies with you and trying to turn you on by talking about her fantasies, not trying to tell you it's something she wants.

[Starling]

I had a couple friends who were in the same situation basically. What they ended up doing is she was with another women while he was there, watching but not touching and once the other women left, they had sex. Because if she's jealous, there's no way you can actually be with another woman without that being an issue.

[dreamtime]

I'll be very blunt about this; A lot of girls SAY they would be up for a threeway(2 girls) but are just saying it because its a turn on for a guy and they know it. Very few girls actually want a threeway, especially if they are in a relationship.

The only experiance with threesomes I have was with a f***buddy, we'd go out together and I'd let her suggest girls that she was attracted to and I just had to agree or disagree. It was a gay/lesbian bar but over here that usually means a lot of bisexual people mainly. She went to talk to the girl, got her turned on and we went home that same night.

Girls are better at picking up girls then guys =)

I like starlings suggestion aswell concidering it was a different situation for me.

[Asker]

Yea but that's the thing I don't think she is down for a threeway m4ff she want a girl on girl thing I guess but as long as I can watch I'm cool with it..

[htownkboxer]

tell her that you'll concentrate entirely on her the entire time...and actually do that IF you're lucky enough to get a 'yes' from her

other than that man, the ball is in her court

[Gregs]

just be confident that you could get another girl to join you at a moments notice. Let the girl know that all she has to do is ask

[soctrcost26]

Look fro a gril have threesome