130 pounds too heavy?

[Geemaildotcom]

Hey, i've always been insecure about my weight (former fat kid). I am now 130 5'4 but I feel like I always look... fat I don't know. I'm worried that I weight too much to sit on guys laps, or to be tossed around in bed, or to do anything fun really. I feel like when i go to have sex, the guy is just gonna see my wrinkles and leftover flab from when I was overweight. Sigh... thoughts? opinions? Am I still too fat I don't know...

[ItzLaura]

I'm a bigger girl and my boyfriend is like a skeleton and he loves my fat, if a guy ever says that you are too fat or chubby or whatever way people say it nowdays then they are clearly not for you. Rock those curves!!!

[thebigc]

You go girl

[Creativeone123]

I love this. Wish myself and more girls had this attitude. You go girl!

[Zer0Ghost]

130 is quite close to no weight at all to me. That said, no amount of reaffirming from us is going to make you feel better if you still personally can't accept yourself and all the great progress you've made

[thebigc]

You're definitely right.

[s2firestar]

65 kilograms for 162 cms is a lot. Check your BMI index. You should be 5 kgs (10 pounds) less, if your aim is a healthy body

[s2firestar]

And that is still on the upper end. 56-58 would be the best.

[thebigc]

A girl that was 220 sat on my lap, it was a lot but ok. You're truly fine.

[JC103]

It really depends how you carry it but no it’s not heavy

[Anonymous]

You’re perfect and in the healthy zone

[princesschey]

hard to tel without a pic

[hockeyboi]

Hmu with a pic 😉

[Anonymous]

Not heavy at all