Boyfriend cums too fast! Need advice ASAP?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend cums very fast during sex, 3 mins max! Even if I give him a hi/bj beforehand, is there anyway to delay him during sex? Is beginning to become an issue.

[integrale77]

Slow and steady to start with try positions less stimulating to men.
I'd say stop starting but that can be off putting switching position when he's about to cum gives him time to cool off without offending him.
Also switching back to foreplay eg oral on you or toys gives him a break too.
If you can keep bringing him to the edge it will increase his tolerance to the stimulation.

Personally if I'm overstimulated early I can also cum quick but with a bit of restraint and control I can get past this let's call it a danger zone then things can get a lot wilder!

Some of this will be you being aware of any tell tale signs he's about to cum i. e. does he tense up a specific way/go quiet etc.

One last note I found the CAT best way to control things to start with😉

[ShadezMcgee]

Try putting numbing cream on his junk and see if that reduces the pleasure for him to last longer XD.

In all seriousness, help him build his endurance. Try hj/bj and your vagina. Get him going and make sure to have him let you know when he's about to cum, then stop him and have him relax and then continue once the feeling stops. Sex will be like a wave with the tempo change, but if you build up his endurance it should help him last longer for a constant session at some point.

[Giggletr0n]

Tell him to masturbate 15 mins before sex to help hold of early ejaculation, by the time you have sex he will be able to get a full erection and if the sex goes on long enough he will be able to cum again as well

[cavmanier]

Some guys may just function that way. I've heard people can learn to last longer with some kind of practice too.

[Haxxus]

^ he's right. It depends on how he functions. Shoot, I'd love to finish in 3 mins instead of 3 hours. Now that's another issue.

[cavmanier]

@Haxxus That's true. Some guys have the opposite called "delayed ejacutation." What a lot of girls don't understand is that the average guy lasts about 3-7 minutes.

[Haxxus]

I've been complained to for lasting way way too long. "10 minutes tops" she said. She begins to doubt herself like, am I not attractive enough to him? Am I doing this all wrong? It's just that we can't help it.

[cavmanier]

@Haxxus I used to be a fan of the radio show loveline. This earlier generation kinda missed it, but it was a great assets on teaching me these things. I've heard many callers with the same issue as you with the same complaints from their partners.

I got kinda lucky where I can usually control when I want to finish. I'd like to last, you know, 30-40 or more minutes or so. I was lucky my ex could handle it but she would say it was too much sometimes. I'm not sure how many girls you been with Haxxus, but from my experience a lot of girls do like 20 or 30 or more minutes of sex. I've come across girls (one really) that can not do it beyond 10 minutes because it gets painful. She was very small down there so I figure it was understandable and it was why she was in pain. It was like a wild 10 minute ride lol. I've had exes that would fuck for days though lol.

My opinion is to find someone sexually compatible. I think people often underestimate it's importance on compatibility. We are all different. I don't feel satisfied finishing in 5 or 10 minutes. That's when I think it starts getting really good.

[Caliguy88]

I don’t cum fast but if I’m getting there father than the girl I think if no sexual stuff or I’ll pull out and go down. I really never finish first. If I do I’ll go down on her and try to get back in pretty quick..

[Unit1]

Round 2, 3 ... hell 10 if you must!
Yeah! We are so damn horny and addicted to sex! Women occupy our minds! Welcome to our world, woman!

[Anonymous]

there are things both of you can do, to improve your sex life. google it!

[FreshOutaIdeas]

Hahahaha...

Is he new to sex?

[Asker]

No! We’ve been together 2 and half years, it’s always been like this. It’s just beginning to become frustrating now.

[FreshOutaIdeas]

In fairness I was expecting you to say you'd been with him a few weeks/couple months... But 2 n' half years?

Damn... I feel sorry for you!!! I'm not being funny when I ask, do you have sex often? Maybe try and expose him as much as possible to your body and sex generally (without seeming nympho lol), because it sounds like he suffers from premature ejaculation.

It might be worth talking to him about it.

[Asker]

He knows he does it, he feels so bad afterwards. We do have sex 2/3 times a week, as he works away some weekdays.

[FreshOutaIdeas]

Well 2/3 times is regular enough I suppose.

I dunno... he's probably very over-excited by you, maybe try edging him, I mean its normal for most guys to cum quicker than usual if we're horny as fuck. Do you make him cum first from foreplay or just "tease" him into sex? That probably doesn't help his over-excitement lol.

[reptocarl]

Make him cumm more than once beforehand

[DrHonesty]

He's a pussy, find a real man 🤦‍♂️

[gym4ever]

Jerk off before sex and it will be fine lol

[EDWINDUNDEE999]

Buy him a cock ring look them up on Ebay /Amazon

[Halotestin]

Dapoxetine. He'll last at least 15

[Anonymous]

uuhm a cock ring?

[Littleducky]

New to sex