Not about a SO, but a past ex. And everytime someone around me can't find their keys or cellphone I think of him because he ALWAYS forgot his keys or cellphone of wallet. And for years every day wherever him and I went, before we left I'd say "do you have your keys, wallet, cellphone?" Said almost every day for years because he was forgetful. It's been a year and I still think of him everytime one of my friends can't find one of these 3 objects.
It's always unique to the person. Songs are a big thing. I'm very sentimental with songs they almost always transport me back to a time an event in my past. But one woman i knew had a couple golden retrievers she was so loving to them everytime i see a golden tetriever i think of her. Another one ironically is the 96,97,98 chicago bulls, another is Papa roach. I don't know maybe these don't qualify as things to you.
This ceramic coffee keep mug/cup with a first order logo on it. (For those not in the know, that's the name of the "empire" in the New star wars films). She have it to me for Christmas 2 years ago, because she's a sweetheart and she knows I've been a lifelong star wars fan and that I love coffee. It also happens to have my favourite colour red. I use it every day without fail and it reminds me of her. I'm a practical kind of guy and I prefer gifts I can use so I appreciate the thoughtfulness of it.
That, and stars. She loves to look at the stars at night, so often when I'm walking home at night from TAFE I see the stars and I just start thinking about how she'd enjoy walking with me looking at them.
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I can see that there are things that remind me of the guy I used to a hve a crush on we were never really a formal couple or in a serious relationship, still we had gone out 4 times in the past but still for me he was my biggest and only crush I had ever have in my life and still is my crush and I stii am attracted to him even with the possibility of not seeing each other anymore.
Whenever I hear his name in other peoples mouth, beause his name is very common, it reminds me of him. When I see my male cousin it reminds me of him too beause my male cousin had been my crush friend for like 26 years and I know they both hang out together often
Not usually. One time I caught a girlfriend cheating a few weeks before her birthday. I dumped her but I put her present in a storage box & forgot about it. 6+ years later I found it by accident & all the emotions came flooding back like it was the same day i hid it away. After that I got rid of it. Won’t make that mistake again
Oh, I misread this initially and thought this was objects/things that remind you of an ex... that's a much sadder question, but one I've got far more answers on lol
My first proper girlfriend at University was Scottish, it was one of the best relationships I've been in and one of the stupidest reasons to stop it. So even to this day any Scottish paraphernalia, no matter how small/random makes me wonder what would of happened if we'd stuck together.
Did you date a German fella growing up? My parent's looked after European students studying in the UK once me and my brothers left home, one of the first students was a German girl staying at my parents and studying at University, it was a brief fling when I came home, but it's one that still holds a place in my memory! My Scottish paraphernalia comes first but my German ones come a close second! lol
No I'm so over her there's nothing I see that reminds me of that girl that was a long time ago. I must move on into the future with brand new positive hope
My baby has a Mercedes so every time I drive and see a Mercedes it reminds me of him. Also when I see couples holding hands or hugging it reminds me of us. Also certain songs reminds me of him
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