Have you experienced this knowledge in your life , if not know it now?

[Anonymous]

Trying too hard isn't worth it. You can't change one person only they can.

[sossosxo]

People need to understand that " the right one " and "the one" goes both ways. You as an individual should learn to " act right " as part of your character and you should seek the " rightness" in your partner and be sure that putting in effort is worth it.

[Anonymous]

If you mean nothing to someone from the start, no amount of change will ever fix that.

And that goes both ways.

[Regmorus]

That's the truth, not only that this isn't worth it, it could bring the one on whom you try in an uncomfortable position mentally.

[KrakenAttackin]

Absolutely. There is no future in trying to become what some girl says she wants.