Girls, Should I be worried about my gf's ex dick size?

[Anonymous]

Forever now guys have always worried about dick size and I think most guys will continue to worry, anyway my gfs ex joined my football team and even though I wasn't particularly happy about it I just shrugged it off as he plays football and so do I, anyway after the training session we were all getting showered and changed and I'm sure you know what happens next, he takes his clothes off and of course I'm going to have a sly look I notice he has literally a monster cock! I would of said it was bigger than i am when when i am hard and he was soft, he was the only black guy on our team aswel but after he had left even some of the other guys joked about how big it was, I laughed it off but should I mention it at all to my gf?

[NickiB1]

This is a silly thing to worry about.

Why potentially start a fight over something so unimportant.

It would be like being self conscious of his height.

She's with you not him.

[Asker]

Dick size is always such a big deal well so it seems, bigger dicks equal better sex etc and one of our sex toys is a big bllack dildo so I can't help but think she is trying to remember times from before

[NickiB1]

dick size is a big deal if it's all you got to offer.

sex is like 5% of a relationship. 95% of time is talking dating and spending time with each other.

also if you worried bout pleasing her step your game up with toys tongue and fingers.

[Asker]

Yeah I know what you are saying I use my hands and tongue slot as I'm quite below the average size but it's just when we bought the dildo she insisted she wanted a black one so it had me thinking is it linked to that

[NickiB1]

Are you satisfying her. then it don't matter that he bigger than you.

So what good will asking this question do?

If she says no. you'll be like she's lying to spare my feelings.

if she says yes you gonna be all self conscious about it.

[Asker]

I didn't know whether to play it off as a joke, as I said to the other reply I have never seen one like it it was huge haha

[NickiB1]

your decision but i say let it go

[Asker]

Yeah there was something else but I have no clue as to why I felt like this but the last two nights for some reason even though it worried me about the size of his dick it kind of excited me at the same time, I thought it was nothing but it happened again when I started to think about it

[NickiB1]

not sure what to say about that.

[Asker]

Thank you for your opinion and advice on the other matter much appreciated

[NickiB1]

No problem good luck

[ksmiller]

Don't worry about it. She's with you not him!!!

[Asker]

Dick size is always such a big deal well so it seems, bigger dicks equal better sex etc and one of our sex toys is a big bllack dildo so I can't help but think she is trying to remember times from before

[ksmiller]

Bigger dicks do Not equal better sex. Skill and techniques equals better sex. I doubt she was thinking about her ex when purchasing the dildo.

[Asker]

Yeah I heard it's about how good you are etc but I'm well below average when it comes to the size department, obviously they say that black guys tend to have big dicks and I was always worried about that but after seeing it I was like mesmerised 😂

[ksmiller]

If your dick size was a problem y'all would have broken up by now.

[Asker]

Should I even mention that I saw his dick?

[ksmiller]

Nope

[Asker]

As I just said to the other person she insisted she wanted a black dildo so do you think it has any connection to this

[ksmiller]

She probably just liked the black one more. If all she wanted was a black dick she'd date a black guy.

[Asker]

Yeah I guess you are right thank you 👍
I'm not to caught up about it I've always been a joker so I would laugh it off it was just an initial response wa stop worry abit, I couldn't stop looking at the thing though haha apart from porn it's the biggest I have seen

[Anonymous]

Let it go

[Asker]

Is that because you think it would end badly

[Opinion Owner]

You’re creating unnecessary problems