Are You Okay With Your Friends Showing Public Displays Of Affection To Their Partners?

Question

I am kind of on the fence on this one... I don't mind but when I see it I cringe... So there's that...

RJJ33666 · Accepted Answer

Now i don't have any problems. But long back, whenever my friends were showing public displays of affection i really was on the edge. Since they are your friends you got to be happy but on the inside it really really stings. So i just imagine them fighting which didn't help in real life but got my imagination running.

kenFold · Accepted Answer

It's always been a turn on putting ourselves on display for others to see. Love it when I get road head and get to see the looks from passing cars. Or leaving the curtains and window wide open for the neighbors to see.

GnarCute · Accepted Answer

i don't like it, people who do it publicly are just doing it to show off. also i really don't want to go to a friends house to talk and play games just to realize im not really welcome there? people who make out while hanging out don't care if your there or not and it really shows.

wingattebaby16 · Accepted Answer

I love seeing friends doing PDA... I got told by my mom she believes it means: Please Do It Again...

NewZion · Answer

Huhuhu... "Aw gonna love each other forever? Gonna get married? What if a hotter girl comes along or a guy with more wealth and prestige. ;)"

Titanic1912 · Answer

They should. It’s cute. But overdoing it can get annoying. I’ve seen others give each other little perks and hugs. But French kisses and smooching too much can get annoying. My fiancée and I smooch when we’re alone together. We never do that in public. We give each other little perky kisses and we hug a lot no matter where we are.

Quidthonian · Answer

Not OK. It makes me uncomfortable. Maybe it's my introverted nature, but why does it have to be shown to your partner every 5 minutes? Is your confidence (and trust) level that low that you have to re-affirm your feelings every 4 minutes? Does he not know that you already love him? Or will he find someone new to tell him that they love him every 3 minutes?

Jjpayne · Answer

It's nice every once in a while and if it's brief but especially when your single with other single friends. It's in bad taste but also you have to think of others watching. I'd say holding hands or cuddling are fair game though

mmat2020 · Answer

Depend on context obviously. If anyone is uncomfortable then it's not okay, especially if one of the two partners is less confortable than the other. Now me personally I don't mind at all what other people do

Red_Arrow · Answer

Kinda on the fence myself. Mild displays are nice. When they are completely into it they tend to ignore you. On the other hand, when they get down to screwing, they are fun to watch!

Aislin9 · Answer

I get disgusted when guys squeeze their girlfriend's butts in public. It's highly trashy in my opinion.

angiebangie · Answer

Yeah, it makes me go awww. I don't want them going too far though I don't want to be constantly turning around while I'm with them lol

funride74 · Answer

There should be limits. Normal kissing hugging french kissing all fine. More than that is tilting it over. (Except that she'd be a stunningly hot chick)

ariadneR · Answer

Dont go overboard. As much as I like to watch I dont want to see your tongue down his throat. It seems hypocritical, but yeah

pleasestopthis · Answer

A short superficial kiss or cuddles are fine. I dislike however when they give massive kisses or when they sit on the guy's lap in public. It's inappropriate.

Likes2drive · Answer

It’s only annoying when I’m sitting there by myself with out someone to do same to, then I won’t be paying them any attention because I will be busy myself 😊

Grond21 · Answer

I think it's important for them to show public displays of affection. However, there is a limit. I don't want to be around someone if they're eating each other's face off

Naughty_Gentleman · Answer

freedom of expression is a right but with that responsibilities also come.. I respect the affection those guys have... but sometimes it's not comfortable to be around, u knw..

letssee89 · Answer

Small kisses are fine, but anything more than that is just weird to me. With that said, I'm not into PDA myself, even just holding hands is uncomfortable for me most of the time.

KingdomForAKiss · Answer

To me, PDA implies you're doing it intentionally to put on a show. If you're just giving affection to your partner, that's totally fine.

GOOSEBOY78 · Answer

your only eww because you dont understand a PDA. its a you love this person and you dont give a flying fk who knows.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

Me and the wife are those who kiss and goof around in public. I don't mind when others do it.

annabananna · Answer

I've never been a huge pda person for myself. It’s a little awkward to me when others go pretty hard on it but it doesn’t bother me too much.

mrees · Answer

Disgusting because I don't know what to do. If I look at them, it is weird. If I don't , it is weird again.

nawtee_me · Answer

Absolutely, I am one of those guys you have to say, "hey, go get a room" to. ;) public or not I love showing affection. I want to have sex in public too... lol

CharlieDMX · Answer

Yes. I'm guilty of doing that because I cannot get my hands off my girlfriend. But not extreme ones, some things must be saved for the bedroom Also, in my country PDAs are common.

alligatorblues · Answer

Those who lack mature limits to their behavior make squeamish those who don't!

dhanur2610 · Answer

Its ok to show them in front of public or us. But they should also consider talking to us. If they get into that they just don't care about us at all.

KatherineJ · Answer

Showing affection is one thing, but a full on spectacle makes me uncomfortable.

user46775889 · Answer

It's okay if it's not extreme and simple cuddling. Otherwise it's just awkward bit still fine

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

It's fine to an extent. Drawing the line just before "insertion" is probably a good idea. 😂

ask4any · Answer

Really? That really surprises me. I mean weren't we just talking about pounding pussy freely and openly now your turned about PDA's?

Twalli · Answer

We try to be less affectionate in public, but we're pretty affectionate in public because we're sometimes attached by the lips in private

Bman4907 · Answer

No problem if it's tasteful. Watched a friend tackle my other friend when he proposed to her. That was great, but what was not so great was seeing what another friend was doing. Usually I have to say I was over 18 to watch that part.

Scarecrow13 · Answer

Sure as long as it's not too over tye top. Like groping each other all over.

AshleySeeks · Answer

I hate when they get a bit too touchy feeling. Just a simple kiss is okay, just hate when they full on make out

Nigjt · Answer

It don't matter to me as long as they ain't fussing an fighting. God Bless

dragoblack · Answer

It annoys me, but where am i to tell them not to love each other

Jerre · Answer

It really doesn’t bother me. Guess I have been around too much public affection.

Benjr134 · Answer

As long as it doesn’t go too far I’m fine with it. By that I mean like straight up making out in front of people.

davidboon11 · Answer

No, Its very offensive to me.

Fatherhere901 · Answer

I am extremely ok with it

NaughtybyNature546 · Answer

Dormroom living, you'd hear how they fuck

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I'm all cool with it

SClassWizzard · Answer

Never bothered me, do yah thing

SunnyCaliGirl · Answer

I am cool with public PDA

worldscolide · Answer

I don't care really..

TMcCaa · Answer

As long as it's not taken to far

Gedaria · Answer

Yes, more the merrier...

TimRob · Answer

Yes I am but it has to be classy

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Sure I am why would that be a problem for you

HonestWeirdo · Answer

ueah doesn't bother me

Geminiheart69 · Answer

Nothing wrong with that at all..

simplelikeme · Answer

YES lol but i want it too 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

Johnnyready · Answer

Yes no problem for me

Kathy_Scorpio97 · Answer

I’m fine with a kiss after that to much.

Joshuaaa · Answer

Doesn't bother me. Glad that they are happy.

BillysBabe · Answer

Only if they don't get too funky

Emperorxxxemilio · Answer

Not unless I get to record it.

Anonymous · Answer

No only liberals and communists do it

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Doesn’t bother me

JosyJosy · Answer

I don't care at all.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Of course I am.

Shadowwomen · Answer

NO I hate it

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