In YOUR Opinion, What's The BEST Part About Being Single?

[Secret6620]

Good Morning 🌞

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Are You Single By Choice?

[jsincal]

My curvy ass can go out, wear whatever I want, without my girl trying to get all up in my business.

But for real, at first it sucked. You’re use to someone being in your life in a certain way. Albeit, it was fun at times it wasn’t worth the insanity.

I didn’t realize how much of my energy was being sucked out of me, and almost felt like “what’s next?” since I had extra time.

But I really didn’t have, “extra time”,
I just got back my life I forgot I had. I can do things again without being interrupted.

I’m glad I’ve given myself time to heal, because I think I’m ready for something serious soon.

[RiJox]

🎀it’s nice to not feel the need of validation through being taken.
🛍it’s nice being the best version of myself without “doing it for the guy”
🎀it’s great being able to afford everything on your own without creating co-dependency
🎀I love decorating my space - white, pink, gold, velvet - without considering “if my man agrees with the colors I chose”
🎀I like not having to worry if I’m pregnant or not
🛍I like flirting, looking good and going to places where I could meet that “Mr. Right”
🎈I love booking a flight just because I can afford it and not having to justify “why I’m flying away”
🎈I love going out to party 😏😏 doing what I want in that party 🥳🥳
🎈 dislike having to educate a man / guide his immature ass into becoming a real man 😩
-I honestly love being single, I enjoy being solo rider 💯 and I am not interested in giving that up for another 5 years,

[Secret6620]

I absolutely adored this answer 💖

[RiJox]

Thank you, 😊

[GlitterFairy16]

I love my boyfriend so much and i wouldn't trade are relationship for the world but... I gotta amit i miss being lazy and going out with friends partying till late and then waking up in the afternoon not caring what i look like at the weekends when at weekends im rushing around the house trying to make myself look cute and cleaning the house for whenever he comes around.

I definitely do miss my weekends with the girls but we still go out on occasion and we all have boyfriends now so we all understanding.

[Jaximus-Lion]

I would say, more time. The wife's vacation started this week already, she is at her parents, doing some work at their house and have some family quality time and am all alone here, i have all the time to take a jog, do some garden work that i want to do, play more with my 2 years nephew

Antonio

This kid never sleeps 😍 and am taking advantage of it so i get more fun and get more tired töat the end of the Day. Am doing more when am alone.

[Jaximus-Lion]

I will tell little tony we got MHO. Thanks kind Lady 🎎

[Secret6620]

🙆🙋🎀

[Guanfei]

There is none. People enjoying being single are most of the time those who know that as soon as they want to change that, they can find someone.
But for people like me, who aren't wanted, being single is a curse, it's a burden. I don't care about the drama, it's part of every couple's life. I just want what people consider normal with someone else. Being loved, feeling someone caring about me as much as I care about her, the little words, the little touch, knowing you're not alone and you can share any joy, or bad time, with someone who will support you.
If that means we'll have a little argument here and there, I'm fine with it.

[its_amelia_c]

You can do what you want, when you want! You have no one to answer to, no one to nag you, no one to try and please all the time, no one to disappoint or hurt to, not to mention worry about. You are completely free!

[Secret6620]

I loveeeeeeee reading this post 🎀

[HATR3D]

The part were I don't need to be around the same person on the daily, the part were I don't need to be emotionally supportive, the part were I don't have someone blowing up my phone wondering what I'm doing all the time, the part were I can look at other girls and not get shit, the part were I save money, the part were I'm not stuck in 2am phone calls, the part were I don't need to listen to someone's drama, the fact that I have all the freedom and I don't have someone to give me shit over things I do, the part how I'm able to follow models on Instagram, this thing is never ending

[Jjpayne]

Not sharing your earnings and time, you make choices on what you are doing and what you want to spend your money on. Just basically freedom of spending and time. But what is all the time and money in the world if you have no one to share it with 😞

[Jjpayne]

Yes and no. I could probably get sex but in terms or dating or relationship, I can't find one by choice

[Secret6620]

I know what you mean. Thanks for replying to both!!! 🙋🙆🎀🌸

[1stranger]

Self-knowledge. Spare time for yourself. Most things you can do as a couple, you can do it as a single. For example cinema, theater, sports, walking, travel, cooking, dinner, cafe, bar.. And as a result, you realize that life can be better with a partner. I'm at this point.

[ShadezMcgee]

Not constantly having to stress if my partner is using social media to flirt with and possibly cheat with other men.

No heartbreak, no lying.

Downsides: lack of intimacy and sex, loneliness.

Would rather be lonely and sexless then with a women who truly doesn't give a shit about me at the end of the day.

[HawkPerception]

The benefits of being in a relationship definitely outweigh that of not being in one for me, however when you're in a relationship your partner will most likely be upset with you for something inevitably. Not having to explain yourself to them is a bonus of being single. Also, you're free to look at all the girls you want without judgment.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Being Single the best part is not needing to worry about pleasing someone, we all know that a part of a relationship is sex, some people are ignorant about the fact and if you don't do what they want then they hee haw about things then your stuck wondering well how am I going to please them?

[Anonymity123999]

I dont like being completely isolated for too long so id say flirting and dating around. This is the most exciting compared to being in a full on relationship. Its always a good feeling for me.

[Secret6620]

I totally understand what you mean !!! Thanks for the awesome feedback 🎀

[TonyMetal___86]

The best thing in being single is less drama and less money spending...
Anyways betwern being married and being single, it's like being married ia life while being single ia death, well at least for me, it's like that!
Love and marriage and the ingredients to what makes us human and complete!

[magiusX26]

best and worst of being single

[Pete671]

You're free to flirt, I have friends with benefits, so getting sex, but all the drama that results from being nice to women in her company when I was with my ex was too much of a pain,,,
With my friends with benefits we talk freely about who we fancy,,,

[nawtee_me]

Cooking whatever I want and eating it too... If I feel like Chinese or Mexican, I better see a doctor because I'm American... lol No, but I can cook just for me and clean as I cook so when I get through all I have is my plate to wash and I am done...
I can sit in my chair and hold the remote while looking at your pic of GAG, I mean I can watch any show I want to. lol ;)

[venomhbk1313]

You don't have someone constantly on your back telling you you can't go with your friends or just to have time to yourself sometimes time to yourself is the best thing and then I get to watch the girls go by and it's a great way to spend an afternoon I love women and the women love me

[BlueScorpio]

You get to know you better and grow as a person. Plus, you don't have to worry about impressing anyone, you can stay in your pajamas all day and have your room looking a mess and not feel self conscience over it lol

[Alivegirlll]

The only good thing about being single is not being in a toxic relationship

[Secret6620]

I completely agree!!! Especially if the person is toxic 🎀

[SphynxUK]

My version of being single, is just me, being single!
Not me being a singleton, hooking up, dating and looking for a partner.


So, the best thing for me is being independent and selfish with my time.

[OnlyMyOpinion]

You can separate your chill-zone from the work-zone from the romantic/sexual-zone more neatly. Everything is sort of neat and compartmentalized when you're single.

[snowboarder720]

No drama.
I’ve been in a couple relationships that made me regret getting into in the first place. Also there are a few crazy girlfriend videos on YouTube that are excellent examples too.

[snowboarder720]

Answer for updated question** I don’t consider myself single by choice but I’m not exactly looking either... fuck viruses.

[richardsnarky]

No drama, no pregnancy or STD scares (assuming that you aren’t having sex), being free to make decisions on your own, independence, and not having to spend money on Cole Haan sneakers (saving money).