In YOUR Opinion, What's The BEST Part About Being Single?

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RiJox · Accepted Answer

🎀it’s nice to not feel the need of validation through being taken.
🛍it’s nice being the best version of myself without “doing it for the guy”
🎀it’s great being able to afford everything on your own without creating co-dependency
🎀I love decorating my space - white, pink, gold, velvet - without considering “if my man agrees with the colors I chose”
🎀I like not having to worry if I’m pregnant or not
🛍I like flirting, looking good and going to places where I could meet that “Mr. Right”
🎈I love booking a flight just because I can afford it and not having to justify “why I’m flying away”
🎈I love going out to party 😏😏 doing what I want in that party 🥳🥳
🎈 dislike having to educate a man / guide his immature ass into becoming a real man 😩
-I honestly love being single, I enjoy being solo rider 💯 and I am not interested in giving that up for another 5 years,

GlitterFairy16 · Accepted Answer

I love my boyfriend so much and i wouldn't trade are relationship for the world but... I gotta amit i miss being lazy and going out with friends partying till late and then waking up in the afternoon not caring what i look like at the weekends when at weekends im rushing around the house trying to make myself look cute and cleaning the house for whenever he comes around.

I definitely do miss my weekends with the girls but we still go out on occasion and we all have boyfriends now so we all understanding.

jsincal · Accepted Answer

My curvy ass can go out, wear whatever I want, without my girl trying to get all up in my business.

But for real, at first it sucked. You’re use to someone being in your life in a certain way. Albeit, it was fun at times it wasn’t worth the insanity.

I didn’t realize how much of my energy was being sucked out of me, and almost felt like “what’s next?” since I had extra time.

But I really didn’t have, “extra time”,
I just got back my life I forgot I had. I can do things again without being interrupted.

I’m glad I’ve given myself time to heal, because I think I’m ready for something serious soon.

Jaximus-Lion · Accepted Answer

I would say, more time. The wife's vacation started this week already, she is at her parents, doing some work at their house and have some family quality time and am all alone here, i have all the time to take a jog, do some garden work that i want to do, play more with my 2 years nephew

This kid never sleeps 😍 and am taking advantage of it so i get more fun and get more tired töat the end of the Day. Am doing more when am alone.

Guanfei · Answer

There is none. People enjoying being single are most of the time those who know that as soon as they want to change that, they can find someone.
But for people like me, who aren't wanted, being single is a curse, it's a burden. I don't care about the drama, it's part of every couple's life. I just want what people consider normal with someone else. Being loved, feeling someone caring about me as much as I care about her, the little words, the little touch, knowing you're not alone and you can share any joy, or bad time, with someone who will support you.
If that means we'll have a little argument here and there, I'm fine with it.

its_amelia_c · Answer

You can do what you want, when you want! You have no one to answer to, no one to nag you, no one to try and please all the time, no one to disappoint or hurt to, not to mention worry about. You are completely free!

HATR3D · Answer

The part were I don't need to be around the same person on the daily, the part were I don't need to be emotionally supportive, the part were I don't have someone blowing up my phone wondering what I'm doing all the time, the part were I can look at other girls and not get shit, the part were I save money, the part were I'm not stuck in 2am phone calls, the part were I don't need to listen to someone's drama, the fact that I have all the freedom and I don't have someone to give me shit over things I do, the part how I'm able to follow models on Instagram, this thing is never ending

HawkPerception · Answer

The benefits of being in a relationship definitely outweigh that of not being in one for me, however when you're in a relationship your partner will most likely be upset with you for something inevitably. Not having to explain yourself to them is a bonus of being single. Also, you're free to look at all the girls you want without judgment.

Jjpayne · Answer

Not sharing your earnings and time, you make choices on what you are doing and what you want to spend your money on. Just basically freedom of spending and time. But what is all the time and money in the world if you have no one to share it with 😞

1stranger · Answer

Self-knowledge. Spare time for yourself. Most things you can do as a couple, you can do it as a single. For example cinema, theater, sports, walking, travel, cooking, dinner, cafe, bar.. And as a result, you realize that life can be better with a partner. I'm at this point.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Not constantly having to stress if my partner is using social media to flirt with and possibly cheat with other men.

No heartbreak, no lying.

Downsides: lack of intimacy and sex, loneliness.

Would rather be lonely and sexless then with a women who truly doesn't give a shit about me at the end of the day.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Being Single the best part is not needing to worry about pleasing someone, we all know that a part of a relationship is sex, some people are ignorant about the fact and if you don't do what they want then they hee haw about things then your stuck wondering well how am I going to please them?

Anonymity123999 · Answer

I dont like being completely isolated for too long so id say flirting and dating around. This is the most exciting compared to being in a full on relationship. Its always a good feeling for me.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

The best thing in being single is less drama and less money spending...
Anyways betwern being married and being single, it's like being married ia life while being single ia death, well at least for me, it's like that!
Love and marriage and the ingredients to what makes us human and complete!

magiusX26 · Answer

best and worst of being single

Pete671 · Answer

You're free to flirt, I have friends with benefits, so getting sex, but all the drama that results from being nice to women in her company when I was with my ex was too much of a pain,,,
With my friends with benefits we talk freely about who we fancy,,,

nawtee_me · Answer

Cooking whatever I want and eating it too... If I feel like Chinese or Mexican, I better see a doctor because I'm American... lol No, but I can cook just for me and clean as I cook so when I get through all I have is my plate to wash and I am done...
I can sit in my chair and hold the remote while looking at your pic of GAG, I mean I can watch any show I want to. lol ;)

venomhbk1313 · Answer

You don't have someone constantly on your back telling you you can't go with your friends or just to have time to yourself sometimes time to yourself is the best thing and then I get to watch the girls go by and it's a great way to spend an afternoon I love women and the women love me

BlueScorpio · Answer

You get to know you better and grow as a person. Plus, you don't have to worry about impressing anyone, you can stay in your pajamas all day and have your room looking a mess and not feel self conscience over it lol

Alivegirlll · Answer

The only good thing about being single is not being in a toxic relationship

SphynxUK · Answer

My version of being single, is just me, being single! Not me being a singleton, hooking up, dating and looking for a partner. So, the best thing for me is being independent and selfish with my time.

KatQueen1313 · Answer

Just being able to do your own thing without considering someone else every day.

OnlyMyOpinion · Answer

You can separate your chill-zone from the work-zone from the romantic/sexual-zone more neatly. Everything is sort of neat and compartmentalized when you're single.

snowboarder720 · Answer

No drama. I’ve been in a couple relationships that made me regret getting into in the first place. Also there are a few crazy girlfriend videos on YouTube that are excellent examples too.

richardsnarky · Answer

No drama, no pregnancy or STD scares (assuming that you aren’t having sex), being free to make decisions on your own, independence, and not having to spend money on Cole Haan sneakers (saving money).

Anonymous · Answer

Self love, personal growth Not wondering "Will I be ever enough for you? If so, how much is enough?'

errorgoodnameunfound · Answer

Oh, I don't know, EVERYTHING? :) screw the couples of today, most seem unhappy or borderline that. Fucking nobody has patience anymore to actually find the right person, I swear.

wanderinsquirrel · Answer

Life is easier and no complications. You don't have to deal with your partner's moods too. You can live your life on your conditions and your ways. (Yeah... no drama at all!🙃)

jasco · Answer

other than not having to worry about someone, meet someones expectations, have to worry if your being used or not thats really it so far

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Freedom, peace of mind, more time to yourself, can flirt or hook up with anyone we want, can spend according to our tastes, can wear clothes of our choice

jacobsim · Answer

Not having to constantly stress about stuff. I have anxiety and other stuff so the peace and quite of being alone is soothing for me

Akshayjosh · Answer

You can be independent to take your decisions and not give the other better half a priority over your happiness, which in the long run puts you in stress, and yearning for space., is what I believe is the best part of being single.

Enochian · Answer

Personal development. Being single for most of my life, I was able to build a life for myself. One that I am proud of. I don't think that would of been possible if I was giving most of my time to a relationship

Grond21 · Answer

Free time, lack of drama, ability to focus on my own growth and dreams

Likes2drive · Answer

Only good thing about is being able to do whatever you want whenever you want

Arjunaguy · Answer

You get to take yourself out and have fun because you want to and not because someone else wants you to. You take care of yourself, enjoy your own company and are happy with you.

Anonymous · Answer

I can be a little selfish because I don't have a partner to consider when I'm making decisions. I can just live my life more carefree. I wouldn't do that in a relationship, because it would be unfair to him.

ChocoBrownieMonster · Answer

The thrill of chasing being chased and falling in love, when you're in love it's a different feeling completely

scorpy04 · Answer

There are negatives but Positive things for being single would include

Not answerable to anyone My free time is for me now and not for us I can look without being caught out haha

However I prefe to have that special someone in my life

cush_ebo · Answer

Having the ability to travel and meet your family worldwide with no demand. But if you getting older, it's beginning to get hard. I think single people are just not prepare to accept 24h/24 compromission of being in a couple 24h/24 by day

Vacaburra · Answer

I don't know I haven't had partner yet. But the loneliness killing you slowly and wanting to die... I think it's the best part😊

EnmadoRokuro · Answer

I agree with most of the points you already included in your question , also no sharing for my opinion

AlexBlack007 · Answer

Taking my own time to wake up without feeling like I need to send a good morning text to someone. 😅 Having all the time for myself!

Nigjt · Answer

Doing things the way u want to do them an when u want to. God Bless

rhiree6 · Answer

You do not have to worrying about the thought somebody may be cheating on you

madprofessor · Answer

Being able to work 70 hr weeks and no bitching about not having time for them. Do you want a guy who is successful and going places and will make time for you or one that lives in mommy and daddy's basement and is lazy?

infinitybreaker2018 · Answer

Not having to open yourself up of feel like you're a burden on someone

GreenGold1992 · Answer

There's nothing fun about being alone all the time.

_Ved_Dev_ · Answer

Open to flirting to any level!  i. e. if you be lucky enough to find someone to flirt with

1CentWorth · Answer

meh. All the reasons why I'd be single I have while married. [shrugs]

Chester_Cheeto · Answer

Not having to worry about buying her stuff, being pressured to talk, how good my reputation is, it's a long list.

Justneedtokno · Answer

You’re not in line to get your heart broke.. Nobody’s lying to you. But being single has its drawbacks to there’s nobody there.

JesseCraft07 · Answer

Being able to flirt with girls I guess, although I haven't actually done that

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

Every decision is yours, not a negotiation. Repeat that 1000000 times :)

boyfriend1915 · Answer

That you don't what it feels like being not single 😂

Evil_Chuck · Answer

Not having to justify or explain myself to someone else all the time.

Melissssssa05 · Answer

Being free, you can do whatever you like at any given time. Especially, you’re not wasting your time on some boy who’s going to screw you over

Iron_Man · Answer

Nothing even when I’m with a girl I have the freedom to do what I want As long as I’m being faithful not cheating and I don’t do that

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Getting to spend my money on what I want. And not having to worry about a wife divorcing me for 50% of my current assets and up to 70% of my futur income depending on how many children we have.

Rebecka33 · Answer

I remember those days my advice dont waste them take them for granite. Live them up lol.

Pulse75 · Answer

I am 30 years of age constantly looking for a girl to date maybe even become my girlfriend. Yet no luck, I don’t enjoy being single. There are small pockets of time when it does feel nice, but I am ready to meet someone that has similar interests.

humanearth · Answer

Miserable, Being Lonely, Horny All The Time, Lower Tax Benefits, Eating Alone

JosyJosy · Answer

Nobody you need to please, the freeeeeeeeedom and yes no drama

sheikalana · Answer

You save money and you can date multiple people at the same time.

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