This woman at the gym is obsessed with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Two years ago this random girl at work became super super interested in my boyfriend to a I point I felt it was way to obvious and creepy. He finds her hot I know that because he would be talking about her TO ME. He even admitted she was a “babe”. I have caught them looking at each other many time although the whole thing has calmed down I still find him looking at her and she is staring at him too!! She is staring at me as well I just want to GET OUT of this drama. So I’ve noticed as well that my boyfriend has started fixing his hair when going to the gym the same time as her which he never has done before, he says he doesn’t want to look weird. It makes me so angry, she is even in her late 30s while we are in our early 20s. This is an older woman who is obsessed with my boyfriend. I don’t know what to do or handle this situation other than getting angry. How do I get rid of her?

[Novacane]

She is not the person you should be getting rid of, sorry but it's your boyfriend. It doesn't matter how much she is interested in him if he is entertaining it then that is the problem. If she was trying to get at him and he avoided it and expressed that he doesn't want to talk to her then she is the problem, but that is not the case.

He even went as far as to talk to you about her calling her "hot" and a "babe" I'm sorry but that is disrespect. I am not going to tell you to leave him but you should reconsider because he showing he doesn't respect you, and it looks as he not doing this as a joke. Imagine if you were entertaining someone other than him and talking to him about the other person, he wouldn't be happy and he wouldn't accept it, so you shouldn't accept it either.

[Anonymous]

She's gonna steal him from you soon from what it sounds like! She's showing him what she has to offer then what you do! When that time comes it's not going to be pretty. From the opposite Believe me I've been there..

[ragequeen]

You can`t get rid of her. If he likes her, that`s something that cannot be changed. Only he is in charge of his own actions. If he really loved you he wouldn`t even bother with her. Maybe not even mention her. He is clearly interested.

[Asker]

Right? I kind of want leave my relationship 😞 I don’t know what to do I’m panicking.

[ragequeen]

You shouldn't have to feel this way. If you are unhappy and feel like leaving, do it. You have the power. If he was thinking with his dick, well thats his problem. When breaking up I wouldn't get mad or even mention the other woman. Just tell him you aren't feeling it anymore. Dont panic, it will be fine!

[Asker]

I know. I just have been in a relationship for so long I don’t wouldn’t know how to be single. I have been wanting to break up for long but I can’t do it so instead I just get bitter

[Sweetheart666]

That’s spooky. Sounds like a lifetime movie. Gym Psycho something like that for a name.

[bigrook]

To test this situation why don't you suggest to your boyfriend that you should have a threesome. If he gets really excited by this suggestion then you have a really situation on your hands and probably need to think hard about jumping ship.

[Dave31989]

you shouldn't be using gyms right now anyway

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