How do you know if a guy really loves you?

[InMyPlace1113]

Cuz my best friend says he loves me but I don't believe him and I don't know which way he does I'm confused

[BlackBear18]

I think a guy truly loves a girl when a guy will defend your honor whether it's against another guy or girl, his parents, or anyone else. A guy will also do things for the girl he loves even if the guy does not really want to or like to do it. A guy that truly loves a girl will act around the same around her and will act the same around his friends when she is also present there. A guy that really loves a girl will cry for her when he's sad for her and a guy that loves a girl truly will also say the words "I LOVE YOU" even if he doesn't want to say those words. Those words are like severe poison to some men. I hope my advice can be of some use and best of luck with any and all romantic endeavors!

[RealDeal]

If someone really loves you they want nothing but the best for you, will respect you, be there for you, and accept you for who you are and what you stand for. Just remember that actions speak loader than words. It's easy to tell someone you love them, it's another thing to show them.

[nalini]

honestly love is very complicated people show it in different ways, there's also that saying that goes like the one you love is the one you tend to hurt the most, so you can see that love is more in the feeling rather than the actions, do you love him? if he says he loves you you should be able to tell from his tone and expressions and all that which way he's meaning it, have you guys ever talked about being in a relationship together, if you haven't its more likly he's saying it as a friendly way

[Anonymous]

I believe until he tells you, he loves you, that is when you know. Until then the guy just likes you, and that is noticiable right away, if he starts flirting with you.

[naturally]

If he marries you