If your girlfriend told you that she wants to become a bodybuilder, how would you react?

[ultimega]

[MCheetah]

That second picture is Julia Vins. I know her. "Bodybuilder Barbie." I wouldn't want a muscular, masculine roided-out "woman" as a partner, but at the same time, I'm not going to stop someone from pursuing their dreams and getting healthy, either. There is a good, sexy, feminine version of being muscular. And then there's the above pictures. I'd like the feminine version, but wouldn't want to stay with a she-beast.

Julia Vins

Julia Vins

The Good Kind of Muscular on a Woman (Ana Delia)

The Good Kind of Muscular on a Woman (Anllela Sagra)

The Bad/'Too Masculine' Kind of Muscular on a Woman

[ChiTown33]

How much of a bodybuilder we talking here. I have no issue with a muscular toned woman. But a bodybuilder is a whole nother level. A woman who lifts weights is no where near the level of commitment of a bodybuilder. Also genetics determine a lot in bodybuilding. Is she going to be a natural bodybuilder? Finally bodybuildets are borderline obsessed. My guess is it wouldn't be me leaving her but her leaving me. As while I would support her endeavor I wouldn't live and breathe it like she would. I guess what I'm saying is bodybuilders tend to be with other bodybuilders for a reason.

[bannacookies]

Support it. The men who say they'd leave her or blah blah, they're either intimidated or uncaring. If their girlfriend wants to do that, they shouldn't drop them just because they want to change their body. They would have been with them for a while and droppoing them just for that would be shallow. Real partners stick together through thick and thin. The girls additude and love would still be the same, buff or not. Real men may not like that look, but they wouldn't leave her just because of that.

[FinalFantasyBro]

Would you also feel the same way about women boyfriend being bodybuilders or would you support the girls attitude of leaving their bodybuilders boyfriends?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I'd be supportive as fuck.
It's a worthwhile, difficult goal that will need support and I'm happy to provide that for my partner.

[SupremeWarlord]

I'm not so turned off by muscular women (unless it's A LOT of muscles like the ones you posted), I would support her, she probably would never be like these women on those photos anyway.

But if she actually starts using drugs in order to be more competitive, that's where I draw the line and would have a discussion with her, or at least stop supporting her. Yeah I admit part of the reason it's because I find that ugly, I'm sorry, but it's also because using hormones is a choice with life lasting consequences, she would need a proper doctor to see her health periodically and the risks are not minimal. Not good.

[FinalFantasyBro]

I won't stop her from becoming a bodybuilder if she chooses, I remember wanting to find a girl who doesn't judge others especially me but I also want to do the same thing I believe in true equality so I would fully support my girl dream of bodybuilding, doesn't mean I actually have to like it but if she is willing to support me, I also support her. I rather be with a kind hearted girl who wants to build muscles over an evil harlet who constantly disapprove of everything or just condescending.

Back to your question would I stay with my girl who wants to become a bodybuilder, I honestly would considering I want to find a girl with her own goals and obviously bodybuilding is a goal but do I find female bodybuilders sexually attractive like to the full blown my dick get insanely hot, no I don't find them sexy but I prefer personality way more than physical appearance.

[Jaximus-Lion]

It's time to get to that goal. Here is my music list, skipp chest workout on mondays! Trust me on this. No shitty protein shits just you, me, iron and delicious foods. TIME TO GET SWOLE 😤

[ultimega]

That's really sweet actually ☺

[Jaximus-Lion]

Never gonna happen, the Mrs never goes to any gym, but she works hard in the garden

[hellionthesagereborn]

No thank you. I have no issue with her getting fit, but her trying to become masculine is not something I'm into. Its no different then if I told her I wanted to shave my legs and wear pretty dresses, she isn't into men that look and act like women and I'm not into women who look and act like men. No hard feelings, but its clearly not going to work out.

[hahahmm]

Tell her that toxic feminism made her think that taking roids would turn her into a man but it's a lie. Dump her if there's any action on her part towards becoming masculine like shrinking her boobs, getting a square shaped butt or dropping her body fat so low that her face looks like a dude's.

[Ghostykill3r]

If that's what she wants to do I'm not going to stop her. It would probably be a bit odd for me because I'm not specifically into very muscley girls, but if I'm dating her already I obviously like her for reasons other than just her body.

[Lorewolf447]

If she wants to then I would support her in it, plain and simple. As long as it doesn't alter her personality too much then I'm not going to have a problem with it.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Well I couldn't in all good faith give my blessing on something that would directly lead to my losing attraction towards her. So I'd tell her she can do as she wishes, but the likely consequence of her pursuing a bodybuilding career would mean her having to find a new boyfriend to support it. I'd expect no less pf her if I told her one day that I'm gonna become a sumo wrestler.

[insignificant_person]

I would like to change her mind. I don't find women bodybuilder attractive, they scares me. But to be honest it's very very very difficult to become someone like above on that pictures.

I would prefer if she would like to only go to gym few times a week so she would get nice sporty body but she wouldn't get big visible muscles.

[Anonymous]

If her goal was to look like these women pictured, it would definitely be a physical turn off for me. But I can say how I'd react without being in that situation because you said girlfriend, meaning we've been together and are together, so it would depend on a lot of things, how are relationship was going etc, but it would be a physical turn off for me if her body was like that.

[exitseven]

I would be okay with it. I have known a couple of female body builders. They did not look extreme but just very physically fit.

[The-Wise-Phoenix]

I would help her with her training. I have done many bodybuilding competitions.

[Randy121]

My girlfriend will not tell coz she is already a bodybuilder now 😜😜

[Leavesbound]

I would ask her if that meant she was finally going to get on top.

[andreasderjuengere]

I'm fine with it.
From now on it's HER who carries the heavy stuff :)

[genericname85]

i'll let her show me the look she's going for and then i'll tell her if i'm gonna stay with her if she does that or not. she can choose what she wants to do with her body but i can choose if i wanna stay in that relationship or not.

[jspl90]

well the one with the (pigtails?) is still cute but honestly everyone else just is not attractive to me so honestly if she goes to the extreme then no but if she is going for natural bodybuilding series sure I would not mind supporting her

[Guardian45]

My former girlfriend was into bodybuilding, which made her curvy and slightly muscular, which was very sexy. But she never had any of these extreme physiques. I don't like women who look more manly than myself.

[Lliam]

I'd say that she can do what she wants, but I wouldn't want her any more.

[EaterPeter]

I don't know how to react to that. I would respect her dream. If she wants something that bad for her self. I would try not to keep her from doing that.

[EaterPeter]

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