My girlfriend said she's experienced double penetration with two men in the past. Isn't that really weird?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years. She hasn't told me about it until now. But yesterday she told me she had done it in the past. Moreover, while we are preparing for marriage.. I feel really awkward.. I don't know what to think and what to do.. I can't understand why she did this.

[bredtaleth]

I cannot say what exactly would motivate a woman to try double penetration. However, it's obviously a turn on for many women to be adventurous and try something they haven't before. And women do enjoy a lot of attention. So, either she likes the adventure of it, the stimulation or just feels there is something powerful in a bond between more than two people. Or maybe a guy simply talked her into it for some reason.

I can understand if this makes you feel insufficient if this feels like someting you would never consider doing. However, look at it from a positive aspect; you girlfriend is sexually adventurous and has explored some aspects that you haven't. So, she probably knows more about what she likes and what she doesn't, and feels confortable trying out new things. That's definitely not a bad thing.

[CharlesScene]

Its up to you, you can ask her about why she told you and why at that moment (while being respectful) or just forget about it as it was before you both were dating

Since you both are planning your wedding, maybe its something she wanted to get off her chest and make sure that the marriage is built on trust and that you truly know who she is and what she was like in her past.

However, if it is truly bothering you, as long as you do it respectfully, I would see no shame in just asking her why she told you about it, and why now vs another time.

[midnightmoon05]

You may want to hold off marriage till you get to know her deeper?

Ask those uncomfortable questions.
If you want kids, will she be a good mother?
What kind of ideas, structures does she believe?
Do you both have similiar style when it comes to discipline kids.

If you don't want kids... can you see her being there for you long term?

Good luck

[Asker]

Does the fact that she's had Double Penetration mean she can't be a good mother?

[midnightmoon05]

Its not about that...
You have to get to know someone (her)...
In other aspects... aside from sex.
Sex itself, doesn't say much about a person.
So I am not sure what it is you are looking for from a long term partner... who you are planning to be married to.

[Asker]

Thank you.

[Hangry06]

It's expected when you have threesomes. Why is that so weird?

[HighValue]

You need to talk about everything that could matter to you in the relationship and have a long discussion. If she kept something like that from you for that long, what else is she not telling you?
There shouldn't be any surprises about anyone's past, values, etc. after marriage. People need to discuss things more.

[Fireguy17]

have you told her about every sexual experience that you have had in the past? I can't remember many of mine, the 70's and 80's were a lot of fun.
She knows I have a past, so does she.
So your girlfriend had sex in the past, so what, she is with you now.

[peterbensonxxx]

I believe the past is the past. Everyone has done something weird or strange in the eyes of others at some point in their life. I think it's great to be able to share things like this with your partner. It shows trust

[OnKoing]

Two things:
1. Better to find out now than later
2. As hard as it sound, call off the marriage, she will cause you problems in the future.
Good luck!

[Better_off_here]

i guess she wants to let you know all about her and her past, it is not something you want to know but if i had to guess she wants to get all of her cards on the table, and maybe she is letting you know she is freak or was one.

[Anonymous]

It really means one cock can't satisfy her so it will lead to problems in the future, it's good you found out about it now, before you got married. If you don't mind that, invite another guy over to give her DP.

[bamesjond0069]

Dump her. you're in for a bad time thinking about marrying a girl like this.

[Gwenhwyfar]

One in her pussy one in her mouth?

[CandaceSims201]

past should be in past.

[FunkyMonkee]

I'd like to see her do it with ONE man!!

[Seangreen]

She's a slut, so what

[Kelly6]

It’s past
why do you care.
past is past

[Neko_Nya]

So? I've done that