Even if you dont really trust either, who do you trust LESS out of guys and girls?

[DizzyDesii]

I’ll trust anyone until they give me reason not to. But in general, I never fully trust anybody but God. Still, i definitely trust girls less. The last time I had genuine female friendships was preschool and then we all went to different elementary schools so that broke us apart. But in elementary, girls would pretend to be your friend until they got into certain popular groups. In high school and college, girls would pretend to be your friend until they got close enough to try to steal your guy. At work, they forever hatin.
I dont even trust my mom, grandma, and sis anymore because they just seem money-hungry. I lost respect for flakey female cousins and extended family long ago because they only use you to their advantage. Overall, a lot of girls knew I was an open book and would try to use my own information and weaknesses against me. But I’m still gonna share my experiences regardless, so keep on 🤷‍♀️
I dont hate women by any means. Why would i hate my own gender? But i sure as hell dont trust em and I really dont even trust myself. Guys aren’t all that trustworthy either. Its hard to tell their true intentions and although they dont screenshot as much as women and keep receipts like we’re smart enough to, they throw your weaknesses in your face the moment you have an argument. Still, many have treated me better, and although I’ll never fully trust them, I’ll forever trust them more than other women.
#FeelFreeToList #DontTrustAHoe

I guess you can say I trust guys more because I trust girls less

I guess you can say I trust girls more because I trust guys less

[Loveisgirthy]

3 oh! 3? LolI don't really trust humans. I have good friends but I can't bet on any plans we make, and I mean I do think I could find more beneficial people, but we try and build eachother up and all and there's a layer of trust. But I really don't think there's things to look for that gives you the feeling they'll be trustworthy but it gets harder and harder to see the more I try. The only times I've purposely lied was to really try to get away from someone or group cuz it made sense to me to make up a lie and make someone not like-to hate me than to remorse over everything on top of everything. It developed some confusing character development I'm sure. It is how I've cut ties and burned bridges before, and have had done to me. All for reasons I had found necessary but nothing I'd do again and I've learned much better ways of handling it. But I do think there's a good and honest side to psychopathic types and it's help me at least kind of understand other people's choices. Not as an excuse for them but a note to realize for myself. But there's no longer a feeling or thought I don't feel like I can't express accurately and properly enough that I would just run from the situation. I think men and women can be quite equal and overall communication has been the issue from not just the modern world but war taking over throughout history has faulted the perception of how people love and understand eachother as much or more I think.

[DizzyDesii]

I dont count on plans because people flake. Plus its more fun to go alone cause i can follow my own schedule.

[Loveisgirthy]

Yeah I plan on watching a lot of movies in theaters alone and that kind of thing. No Way Home was the first movie I really wish I had someone to go with and I did but. Meh I like really wished I had a date for that. I'm saying there are moments where being alone isn't preferred. Kinda feel the vibe like you might be just a little possessive sometimes haha and for these good reasons of course

[DizzyDesii]

I like traveling alone but i do not like going in movie/mall/theme park alone. Those are my must haves for needing a companion. And yea im bossy. Not ashamed to admit at all

[Loveisgirthy]

Good, I rather boss than a pushover type. Just admiring and observing. And yeah, I'd like to have new friends basically but less attachments the better as well. Everyone should be independent in any relationship

[MCheetah]

I definitely trust girls less. Most men I've known don't flat out lie, deceive or be manipulative to you like girls do. This isn't to say I flat-out trust anyone. But I trust guys at least ten times more than girls. Most girls seem to lie, manipulate, or gaslight, by default. Like, they don't even realize they're doing it. This isn't to say I hate women; but hey, it's the truth. It's like a defense mechanism girls to protect themselves: throw everyone under the bus and deny all accountability with *anything.*

I chose option A, but honestly, the wording of these was confusing as hell. You have to really read it carefully, even though the question itself is asking who do you trust less, but it starts out with one gender in the sentence.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Once you get to know men, you can know if to trust them or not, you may know their reasonings, their intentions.
And yes, men, on general... simply have no interest to screw you or use you, the way women do.
Women might have some background intentions or thoughts, even if/when they befriend you.
They might come to gym with you, but not because she is friend, but to learn from you, how to train to look good AND also to fish for guys - happened to me. - I thought me and her were friends...
And yes, i am surprised how girls are on their toes, when its about money or if\when they lose money. I am surprised how cruel they can get, and even if it happens to me myself sometimes, many girls tend to be closer to bipolarity, than guys do.
I had few cases in which, my female friends might have had a certain opinion one day, only to have the opposite opinion the next day, with no real reason for that. I asked them - did something happen, to make you change your mind?
Their response was - no, this is how i think now!
God knows how will she think tomorrow!

Not saying i never met illogical guys before, but indeed happened with girls more and made me feel so confused and suspicious of such people. You can't really trust someone, who is not the same page with HIMSELF or HERSELF.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea a lot of women do shit to their advantage. I think even tho the guy wants to get laid in the end, he may still be loyal before and after. Just depends on the guy. And yea a lot of women constantly switch their opinion based off who they’re trying to impress at the time. I did that shit a lot in high school. Glad i grew out of that

[Anonymous]

Definitely trust guys less.. there is unfortunately the thing that many men will do a lot to get sex.. even lie/pull bullshit. I experienced it many times. Though I do my best to try to not see every guy like this, but I feel sure there is still some unconcious thoughts about this anyway. I need to get to know a guy well and he need to show that he cares about me beyond the physical for a longer period before I truly believe he likes me.
In general I do trust people as long as their words and actions are showing the same picture, and else I only have a problem with trust when men show interest in sex or romance.

[DizzyDesii]

With guys, its still hard to tell. I dated one for a year and a half before having sex and he still played me

[Opinion Owner]

yeah, unfortunately there are people out there who just are not to be trusted

[mikaelis]

I think I trust the person more than the gender. It's really hard to say which is more reliable or less likely to blab a secret or etc. It's really what makes the fiber of someone's being. For me , if someone goes out of their way to invite me to something, even if it's late, I will go. Trust, in the rawest form is believing in someone to do something and if that's the case I usually don't trust anyone to do anything these days since they usually don't end up doing it and I will have to check up on them or do it myself I guess. Short answer, trust noone? Lol

[Rab1901]

I really think it's a tossup. When guys are dishonest, it's different from when girls are dishonest though. This poll shows that people usually trust their own more and that makes complete sense because they understand their own better and also people tend to think more positive things about people who are like them.

[DizzyDesii]

Opposite for me though. I know how other girls are so i dont trust em. We all sneaky and petty af lol

[strawhatEli]

I trust girls less, although there are some of my female friends who know more of my secrets than their male counterparts, but that's just cause, females are more attentive than males.

When I say I trust female less, that means, it's very difficult for me to trust some stranger of opposite gender, I take my time with them, days may be months. Meanwhile guys are 'bros' within 10-15 min of bonding 😂😂

[DizzyDesii]

Yep we are very attentive hence the receipts.

[VarddaanKaushikk]

I trust guys less than girls. I have some Female friends who know a lot of things about me that is not supposed to be out there for everyone to know , and they have never broken the trust I have in them. I have a lot of guy friends and they all are dickheads and that's the reason I don't trust them as much as Iteust the girls. Also , the Girls are way more mature and they know how to handle serious stuff better than most guys.

[DizzyDesii]

Hardly ever met girls like that 🤣

[VarddaanKaushikk]

Really?

[EmyyWolf]

I’m a girl and I DONT DARE trust no girl.

Unless she butch and a tomboy like me

[CuriousMufuxka]

I don't trust girls. Girls don't even trust girls! Kinda off subject but I lived with a female that had almost an entire woman family. The clucking and vulgar language that went on during Christmas alone was fucked. I was actually jealous and sadly not turned on because these were meaty in a bad way southern women just talking mad shit. Anyway guys usually have a better way of working things out, and by that I mean actual men.

[TheAfrikan]

I would say that I do not openly or 100% trust human beings lol they can disappoint lol. So I happen to give out a weak trust signal from me lol. That is a better way to survive in life do make mob friends like them legs ona millipede but trust like 2 just at least @DizzyDesii

[XXblack88]

I trust girls less. Girls cause more drama and you're always in your business. From my experience I don't find that as much with guys as I do girls.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Gender has little to do with trust for me, but I suppose due to my history I'm what I call a little more leery around guys, as I'm not sure if they want to hurt me or simply trying to take advantage of me.

[NathanDavis]

for me, and in my experience... gender has nothing to do with it

I just happen to have more women as close friends, than men.. but that wasn't a plan or something, it just happened that way... lol

[Lucy68]

Neither, guys do a lot but sometimes girls can do worse cause growing up all the mean/horrible rumours were all by females. Why some females are ruthless I don't know and I'm a female myself

[DizzyDesii]

Exactly! I don't know why they do what they do. You’d think they’d be closer being one of us, but its a dog eat dog world fulla catfights

[Slim57]

Honestly I don't trust women more because of how I've seen them act my entire life, even if it's small lies like saying they're fine when they're not or telling you you can do something when they really don't want you to or just keeping things from you because they feel like it will cause more trouble, which is false because it usually causes more trouble holding it in.

[himiko089]

Wow I needed that because that lie Im fine is what I use almost daily.

[sirderpsalot123]

I guess I trust men slightly more. I understand them better. And men are usually a lot more impulsive where as women can be very sneaky lol. But, really trust is something you have to earn from me regardless of gender.

[sirderpsalot123]

Women can also make false accusations just because she's mad and most people will blindly believe them. Not saying I think most women would do that but knowing how easily that could happen is uncomfortable to think about

[DizzyDesii]

Yea its kinda sad how the me too shit works

[AndrésC64]

I think that I can trust guys more, but only because I happened to be one and I know how guys think. I think I can tell a lie coming from a guy easier than from a girl.

[AndrésC64]

I answered the question backwards. I trust girls less but only because I happen to be a guy and I know how guys think.

[DizzyDesii]

Because i know girls better than guys, i dont trust em. Like i said, i dont even trust myself 🤣

[Justerino]

hahaha I’m on the same vibe I guess? Sorry for biting your post!!! I couldn’t vote cuz I’m with you on the: Trust = Nobody

[DizzyDesii]

Lol i dont trust anyone but i still trust girls even less 😂 I know it dont make sense but ima make it make sense

[Justerino]

Naw you’re right I wouldn’t trust my cousin brother or uncles alone w my girl but honestly I do have 1 good friend from Grade School who has NEVER EVER come at me sideways dude is like fam, but yeah girls can be competitive… and as far as career backstabbing goes I been in that situation before as well.

[himiko089]

No offense to the girls that aren't like this... Its just a bit less dramatic.

[DizzyDesii]

What did you vote on the poll?

[himiko089]

I trust boys more.

[kellytheman]

I kinda got to trust my bros first they some girls I know. I just feel my bros tell me what they think and truth while some girls are a little less reliable or indecisive.

[DizzyDesii]

I know way too many indecisive people and most are guys but im sure it can go both ways

[Agape93]

I trust guys less, based on experiences in my life and the lives of those I care for.

[DizzyDesii]

On a physical basis, i certainly trust men less. Because a lot dont stop when you say stop. But in terms of emotionally, women

[Agape93]

For me it's still the same.

[DizzyDesii]

Damn

[Agape93]

Yeap. Put it in perspective, I've had my trust betrayed by only one woman, but guys do it often enough for me to expect it.

[DizzyDesii]

I think thats the problem. I expect guys to betray my trust so i dont hold them
To high expectations anymore. Yet i still expect more from other women and they always let me down so i just rather cut em out before they try to ruin me

[Agape93]

Oh I still hold them to high expectations, I'm just not surprised anymore when they fall well below my bar.

Understandable hon. If its any consolation, you're an awesome, lovely person. Very fun to talk to

[DizzyDesii]

You too although the same can't be said for most haha

[Agape93]

Agreed lol and thanks babe

[Dargil]

Can't classify that way. Either can be untrustworthy.

[DizzyDesii]

Which is part of the pointbt if you shared experiences with both, its not that hard to differentiate

[Anonymous]

Probably women. It's nothing personal. I just find it easier to understand guys motivations. So while I distrust everyone I can at least predict better what guys are going to do. So I have to keep a closer eye on women.

[DizzyDesii]

And usually i can predict what other women will do haha

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah. I think that's normal as we're not clouded by feelings. It always exasperates me that I can tell when a guy is lying to a woman right away. And women seemingly have no clue. But I almost never know what's going through a woman's mind. Which is probably why I have such a deep distrust as I'm almost always misled by women.