Even if you dont really trust either, who do you trust LESS out of guys and girls?

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I’ll trust anyone until they give me reason not to. But in general, I never fully trust anybody but God.  Still, i definitely trust girls less. The last time I had genuine female friendships was preschool and then we all went to different elementary schools so that broke us apart. But in elementary, girls would pretend to be your friend until they got into certain popular groups. In high school and college, girls would pretend to be your friend until they got close enough to try to steal your guy. At work, they forever hatin. I dont even trust my mom, grandma, and sis anymore  because they just seem money-hungry. I lost respect for flakey female cousins and extended family long ago because they only use you to their advantage. Overall, a lot of girls knew I was an open book and would try to use my own information and weaknesses against me. But I’m still gonna share my experiences regardless, so keep on 🤷‍♀️  I dont hate women by any means. Why would i hate my own gender? But i sure as hell dont trust em and I really dont even trust myself.  Guys aren’t all that trustworthy either. Its hard to tell their true intentions and although they dont screenshot as much as women and keep receipts like we’re smart enough to, they throw your weaknesses in your face the moment you have an argument. Still, many have treated me better, and although I’ll never fully trust them, I’ll forever trust them more than other women.  #FeelFreeToList #DontTrustAHoe

Loveisgirthy · Accepted Answer

3 oh! 3? LolI don't really trust humans. I have good friends but I can't bet on any plans we make, and I mean I do think I could find more beneficial people, but we try and build eachother up and all and there's a layer of trust. But I really don't think there's things to look for that gives you the feeling they'll be trustworthy but it gets harder and harder to see the more I try. The only times I've purposely lied was to really try to get away from someone or group cuz it made sense to me to make up a lie and make someone not like-to hate me than to remorse over everything on top of everything. It developed some confusing character development I'm sure. It is how I've cut ties and burned bridges before, and have had done to me. All for reasons I had found necessary but nothing I'd do again and I've learned much better ways of handling it. But I do think there's a good and honest side to psychopathic types and it's help me at least kind of understand other people's choices. Not as an excuse for them but a note to realize for myself. But there's no longer a feeling or thought I don't feel like I can't express accurately and properly enough that I would just run from the situation. I think men and women can be quite equal and overall communication has been the issue from not just the modern world but war taking over throughout history has faulted the perception of how people love and understand eachother as much or more I think.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

I definitely trust girls less. Most men I've known don't flat out lie, deceive or be manipulative to you like girls do. This isn't to say I flat-out trust anyone. But I trust guys at least ten times more than girls. Most girls seem to lie, manipulate, or gaslight, by default. Like, they don't even realize they're doing it. This isn't to say I hate women; but hey, it's the truth. It's like a defense mechanism girls to protect themselves: throw everyone under the bus and deny all accountability with *anything.*

I chose option A, but honestly, the wording of these was confusing as hell. You have to really read it carefully, even though the question itself is asking who do you trust less, but it starts out with one gender in the sentence.

AvaOneLasTime · Accepted Answer

Once you get to know men, you can know if to trust them or not, you may know their reasonings, their intentions.
And yes, men, on general... simply have no interest to screw you or use you, the way women do.
Women might have some background intentions or thoughts, even if/when they befriend you.
They might come to gym with you, but not because she is friend, but to learn from you, how to train to look good AND also to fish for guys - happened to me. - I thought me and her were friends...
And yes, i am surprised how girls are on their toes, when its about money or if\when they lose money. I am surprised how cruel they can get, and even if it happens to me myself sometimes, many girls tend to be closer to bipolarity, than guys do.
I had few cases in which, my female friends might have had a certain opinion one day, only to have the opposite opinion the next day, with no real reason for that. I asked them - did something happen, to make you change your mind?
Their response was - no, this is how i think now!
God knows how will she think tomorrow!

Not saying i never met illogical guys before, but indeed happened with girls more and made me feel so confused and suspicious of such people. You can't really trust someone, who is not the same page with HIMSELF or HERSELF.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Definitely trust guys less.. there is unfortunately the thing that many men will do a lot to get sex.. even lie/pull bullshit. I experienced it many times. Though I do my best to try to not see every guy like this, but I feel sure there is still some unconcious thoughts about this anyway. I need to get to know a guy well and he need to show that he cares about me beyond the physical for a longer period before I truly believe he likes me.
In general I do trust people as long as their words and actions are showing the same picture, and else I only have a problem with trust when men show interest in sex or romance.

mikaelis · Answer

I think I trust the person more than the gender. It's really hard to say which is more reliable or less likely to blab a secret or etc. It's really what makes the fiber of someone's being. For me , if someone goes out of their way to invite me to something, even if it's late, I will go. Trust, in the rawest form is believing in someone to do something and if that's the case I usually don't trust anyone to do anything these days since they usually don't end up doing it and I will have to check up on them or do it myself I guess. Short answer, trust noone? Lol

Rab1901 · Answer

I really think it's a tossup. When guys are dishonest, it's different from when girls are dishonest though. This poll shows that people usually trust their own more and that makes complete sense because they understand their own better and also people tend to think more positive things about people who are like them.

strawhatEli · Answer

I trust girls less, although there are some of my female friends who know more of my secrets than their male counterparts, but that's just cause, females are more attentive than males.

When I say I trust female less, that means, it's very difficult for me to trust some stranger of opposite gender, I take my time with them, days may be months. Meanwhile guys are 'bros' within 10-15 min of bonding 😂😂

VarddaanKaushikk · Answer

I trust guys less than girls. I have some Female friends who know a lot of things about me that is not supposed to be out there for everyone to know , and they have never broken the trust I have in them. I have a lot of guy friends and they all are dickheads and that's the reason I don't trust them as much as Iteust the girls. Also , the Girls are way more mature and they know how to handle serious stuff better than most guys.

XXblack88 · Answer

I trust girls less. Girls cause more drama and you're always in your business. From my experience I don't find that as much with guys as I do girls.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

I don't trust girls. Girls don't even trust girls! Kinda off subject but I lived with a female that had almost an entire woman family. The clucking and vulgar language that went on during Christmas alone was fucked. I was actually jealous and sadly not turned on because these were meaty in a bad way southern women just talking mad shit. Anyway guys usually have a better way of working things out, and by that I mean actual men.

TheAfrikan · Answer

I would say that I do not openly or 100% trust human beings lol they can disappoint lol. So I happen to give out a weak trust signal from me lol. That is a better way to survive in life do make mob friends like them legs ona millipede but trust like 2 just at least @Dizzydesii

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Gender has little to do with trust for me, but I suppose due to my history I'm what I call a little more leery around guys, as I'm not sure if they want to hurt me or simply trying to take advantage of me.

NathanDavis · Answer

for me, and in my experience... gender has nothing to do with it I just happen to have more women as close friends, than men.. but that wasn't a plan or something, it just happened that way... lol

Lucy68 · Answer

Neither, guys do a lot but sometimes girls can do worse cause growing up all the mean/horrible rumours were all by females. Why some females are ruthless I don't know and I'm a female myself

Slim57 · Answer

Honestly I don't trust women more because of how I've seen them act my entire life, even if it's small lies like saying they're fine when they're not or telling you you can do something when they really don't want you to or just keeping things from you because they feel like it will cause more trouble, which is false because it usually causes more trouble holding it in.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I guess I trust men slightly more. I understand them better. And men are usually a lot more impulsive where as women can be very sneaky lol. But, really trust is something you have to earn from me regardless of gender.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m a girl and I DONT DARE trust no girl. Unless she butch and a tomboy like me

himiko089 · Answer

No offense to the girls that aren't like this... Its just a bit less dramatic.

AndrésC64 · Answer

I think that I can trust guys more, but only because I happened to be one and I know how guys think. I think I can tell a lie coming from a guy easier than from a girl.

Justerino · Answer

hahaha I’m on the same vibe I guess? Sorry for biting your post!!! I couldn’t vote cuz I’m with you on the: Trust = Nobody

kellytheman · Answer

I kinda got to trust my bros first they some girls I know. I just feel my bros tell me what they think and truth while some girls are a little less reliable or indecisive.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

I trust girls less. If its about deep personal stuff, like sexual, love, feelings, J dont like to share it with girls (except they are completely stranger like online, ... but still)

Agape93 · Answer

I trust guys less, based on experiences in my life and the lives of those I care for.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably women. It's nothing personal. I just find it easier to understand guys motivations. So while I distrust everyone I can at least predict better what guys are going to do. So I have to keep a closer eye on women.

exitseven · Answer

I went with A. I have been betrayed a lot more by women.

Dargil · Answer

Can't classify that way. Either can be untrustworthy.

stephen_marris · Answer

honestly, it varies by individual. ill trust someone based on their actions/words, not how they were born

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Who are these dumb mfers who trust women more than men? SMH

varan69 · Answer

No one. Family is excluded but still I have trust issues sometimes. So I'll just say dont trust no one and it takes time so I can start talking about my life lol

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I don't base trustworthiness on gender, I base it on intelligence and empathy.

Phoenix98 · Answer

You have to earn it, it’s not something I give out freely.

ALewis30 · Answer

Gender shouldn't really matter when it comes to trust, but since you ask, I'll say women. From I personal life, I mange to trust women slightly more.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

As long as there nice an dont use you for your money or they are not a psycho path

hafinjun · Answer

I'm sorry I don't trust either, and as such I take tust selection on a case by case basis

tponderingundead · Answer

i pressed the wrong option. i trust guys less by far.

Waldoe · Answer

I start out trusting... unless you lie, then I don't believe anything

Anonymous · Answer

Women don't attempt to sexual assault me unlike men.

Anonymous · Answer

Men tend to be more straight forward and honest, so I trust them more.

Hans222 · Answer

I won't trust the ones who are politician 😂.

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

Not gender based, but person to person.

jahaims · Answer

Trust has nothing to do with gender

dragoblack · Answer

I trust on a person to person basis.

nawtee_me · Answer

I trust everyone until I am taught not to…

imfreeze95 · Answer

It’s situational I go person by person

Hulk30 · Answer

i can see that male nature is worse

Valso · Answer

Girls.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

I trust men less

TrillXHippy · Answer

Women

Jojohero93 · Answer

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