What matters more to you: face or body?

Question

I know some will say both but if you had to pick one to be the biggest determining factor to you being in an exclusive official relationship, which factor are you going to look to first to seeing if she fits what you want in a lady?

CaptainOverthink · Accepted Answer

Body..

Because..
Not only am I turned off by all those extraextra survival-reserves.. I actually think faces that look unique can many times be very charming.
And I have a tendency to like disorganized teeth. It's sexy, have a savage feeling and I think it's a unique charm. I like unique stuff.

So even though beauty is subjective, in a generalized-opinion-type-of-way, I have way lower standards for a face than I do for the body.
Not to mention, your face is your face.. you can work on your body.

I don't mean to fatshame, sorry.
But it would be more hurtful in the long run to lie to myself about it and say I don't care, then end up in a relationship that I eventually have to end.

Besides..
It's not like large people don't have preferences too. That's okay.

caring__1 · Accepted Answer

I value more how well she keeps what she genetically inherited than what she genetically inherited. I'm not impressed by anything she covers up with. A plastic mask on her face (makeup) or fancy clothes doesn't undo any lack of self-care. As long as she puts forth a legitimate effort to care for herself (without going overboard), making the most of her already existing assets, I can find her beautiful, and she'll attract my attention. If she's attempting to be something other than what she is, I lose all interest. I'm not talking about plastic surgery to repair damage that has been done... I'm talking about extreme enhancements to be different rather than subtle enhancements to what already exists.

muscularbumblebee · Accepted Answer

Obviously both but picking one then.. I’m sorry body 100%. Face can be average but if the guy or girl doesn’t have my ideal body type then how on earth am I going to be attracted enough to sleep with them? Yes it’s vain but I look after my body so so should they. It’s super important to be fit!

WhatTheHeckkkk · Accepted Answer

I’d have to say face. Face is more appealing to me and is what I notice first on someone

metaldragon563 · Answer

Face, I don't care much about body. If a woman has a good body but unattractive face then I won't be interested in her. In order for me to be attracted to a woman I need to like her face. Bodies also change. Most people get fatter later in life. Faces change as well, but I think face is more of the important trait in attraction for both genders rather than body. You obviously look at someone's face pretty much all the time. I genuinely feel bad for ugly people, but i'm sure they got something else going for them.

Miristheiss · Answer

Both do... it is hard to say. If I was still single would I rather have a girl that is ok/plain in the face but has a smoking body or a girl that is gorgeous in the face but has a meh, body?
I'm not sure. It would be a case by case situation based on how the girl looked.

gabby100 · Answer

Questions like this make me feel old. When i was young teens,, i would have said body, then the face. But as i got older, you try to see through the disguise and the guy beneath. Now after 1 failed marriage, nearly made the same mistake again but saw what he was like before we got wed. So now i enjoy my time with my gfs. So much more sane...

Seinna · Answer

If we're not talking about extremes which would probably rule out a person anyways then the face definitely matters more. Hair, eyes, skin and teeth - these are big ones and should be indicators of good or bad health. Long, thick hair in particular.

Dominique95glee · Answer

Both I mean I mostly spend a lot of time on my face to make sure is always looks great because if you talk to someone they will look at you face my body ok it could take a lot of time to loose or gain weight and also make sure it is clean

its_amelia_c · Answer

How about personality? Both, looks and body fade with age!!! And it’s extremely materialistic, yuck!

nobodyxd · Answer

I would say face is forst thing, what i noticed about my girlfriend, but also it depend, if you are together for look or for roots, then it's different, then you don't think that something on her face or on her body, might not like, roots are important for me.
For my taste, overweight is not my type, but for others, might like this more.

Breanna_nonbinary · Answer

Omg. This is a very superficial question. It always amazes me that women constantly complain that men judge them and thier body and yet go off and do the same thing.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I work really hard on my physique, so I will say body is what women notice first about me, but for me, it is always her eyes!

Kkstarzz96 · Answer

Have you ever tried to kiss someone who you were sleeping with but you didn't think they were cute? That's when you know

sissyalexa · Answer

Face! With someone I'm interested in I always end up staring into their eyes! So for me it would definitely be face 😊

VikingWarLord · Answer

Body because it's so damn rare now that I meet a biitch who is skinny and has big tits.  I want arm candy who will put on tight dresses that will show off her cleavage.

oralmajiq · Answer

With me it would have to be hygiene Lol, but seriously though because either way and I would be attractive 'dirty', ultimately I believe our mind is the only thing that should be something of the sort stand with filth 😂👍💯

lrina · Answer

i'd have to probably say face, although both are pretty close.

wingattebaby16 · Answer

Body...  In the dark you cannot see her face.

Raphaëlle · Answer

Definitely face because you do see that right from the start. I would like to say personality as well but that wasn't the question so.

Kay9DaCanine · Answer

I dunno probably body. Because eugina pretty I mean eugina cooney is pretty but her body is disgusting so I coidl never bang her. And that's the whole purpose of a girlfriend. Well for me anyway

crossdressingrihno · Answer

Both are important But I guess face is more important since Im a kisser

UniquelyBasic · Answer

If I had to choose one probably the face as I love a womans eyes

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Both, but if I had to pick, face, but also if I had to pick one or the other, and couldn't have both, I'll pick staying single, so it's moot.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Face, absolutely, 100%. People's bodies might change over time, but she will always have the same face.

randomize8 · Answer

Face! But won’t dive into if one of them is like, bad. I can do normal.

Grond21 · Answer

Body matters a lot, but face matters more between the two of them

clampfan101 · Answer

Definitely the face, though her body needs to at least be a healthy weight.

JuanVeIasco · Answer

For short term relationship, body. For long-term relationship, face.

cookiecrusher · Answer

Body. It also reflects the personality. Face just got lucky and most likely has a huge ego because of it.

007kingifrit · Answer

they're both kinda the same thing and both have to be there but i guess i can tolerate facial imperfections more than a weight issue or something

Twalli · Answer

Probably body. I can deal with a face that needs makeup to look 100% but if she doesn't have a nice body i will not have it easy being itimate.

Anonymous · Answer

Body, if the body is good the face doesn't really matter to me.

Meatunnel69 · Answer

Face first but there is a limit. Having a girl be morbidly obese or unhealthy is definitely a limit

Mangospacho · Answer

Face. Bodies change over time but the face is, well, you’re pretty much stuck with a face.

Better_off_here · Answer

i want to see her face to see her smile to see her laugh, that is what i want on any woman that i wish to date.

Creampiekarl420 · Answer

Well I’d say both because health is what’s most important to me

Zygum · Answer

Face, if the girl is ugly, you will not care for her body

Ana3692 · Answer

I would say both , but it's also her personality and attitude that matters.

once_u_go_black · Answer

When it comes to the two, I definitely go with face

Anonymous · Answer

Always body first. A face can be buried in a pillow but a gross fat ass can’t be hidden.

Daviddd5412 · Answer

Eyes. So face I guess.

Apple1996 · Answer

Definitely face!

LaNc3L0TT · Answer

Body will attract but face is a keeper. :D

Desconhecida · Answer

Heart

Andres77 · Answer

Face... we can work on her body.

MrtoddsWildRide · Answer

Fave. Always the face

Nagatoro · Answer

I don't really care that much about either

Anonymous · Answer

I use to think FACE Now I think BODY

Iron_Man · Answer

The face the body can always be sculpted

suckmynuts369 · Answer

This question is too generic.

crmoore · Answer

Face, I guess. But not by a lot.

Wise4myage · Answer

Its face first for me, than body.

altaboy · Answer

Face. Personality even more.

Ryfyle · Answer

Hate to say it, leaning towards body.

Waldoe · Answer

#1 personality... 2nd face

Deserter · Answer

Probably the same tbh

anton_dee · Answer

Intellect actually. But face first

KingofCups · Answer

Fit Body makes a beautiful face.

ms_and_ms · Answer

Face first  body second

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Equally important to me.

TheAfrikan · Answer

That body is ma main.

RandomGuy1030 · Answer

Body is 99% of what turns me on

melanieeeB · Answer

Obviously face first

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