What do you think of this guy?

[Anonymous]

hi all, my boyfriend said something like "I wish you were into gaming too so I could build you a PC" and he said this in a good way and even said he did not mean it negatively, but I did not see it this way in the moment and asked if he wished I was a gamer girl and it turned into an argument then he started to get all huffy with me and give me attitude and ignored me and I yanked the phone out of his hand and I admit this was a bad move, and disrespectful but I cannot handle silent treatment and he has given me silent treatment before for days at a time in the past to punish me, and even relished in using this word to describe the reason. He got mad at me about us arguing, even though he caused the argument by being the one to raise his voice and give me attitude I just told him that although he wasn't trying exactly to say he wishes I was different I didn't like what he said and said this is like if I said "I wish you went to the gym more" or "I wish you were into surfing". He got super mad and ignored me and shut his eyes, refusing to speak to me which of course made me react and lash out because silent treatment is horrible, and I was mad and saying things under my breath and he proceeded to call me a cunt, and said he hates me, he said he doesn't love me and told me to leave, said im not welcome here after asking me to move in with him a few days ago (mind you I moved 400 miles and he said I dont love him and aren't committed and dont trust him, maybe I would if he didn't tell me were done every time he gets pissed) and he wouldn't even look me in the face despite ME apologizing, and when I started to gently poke him ( I know it is annoying but in the face of silent treatment I felt like I had no choice) he said "I swear you want me to hit you" we picked the place together and all as well, so its a bad situation.
was he threatening me? I found his hitting me comment to be revolting, as well as him saying he doesn't love me etc. thoughts please

[UniquelyBasic]

Ok so the gaming part isn't something to get mad over. He just wished to share something with you that he cares about. Also he needs to work on actually communicating with you and not going silent and you need to stop getting so angry with him and having that be your first instinct when given the silent treatment. I understand you dont like it and he shouldn't be doing it to "Punish" you but thats no way to handle a dispute. Both of you need to see a professional to work out whatever problems you have.