Can you help this fucking idiot?

[Anonymous]

Firstly, I'm a fool, i take action before thinking and that shit ruins everything in my life. I like a boy, we are more than friends. we were in dating phase but it was all in private. his friends know about me and they've told me how much he likes me even his ex (s) and people he dated after that know about me. everyone close to knows me actually.
he did confess before, he asked me more than 5times but i wasn't ready for a relationship. so we were friends. his girlfriend cheated on him he was upset so we decided to hangout and after a week i caught feelings for him.
he knows I've got feelings for him. but he doesn't really want to commit rn. he started to makeout and all. and here's why I'm an idiot. he asked me to have seggs with him few times. i told him i wasn't ready and also we were nothing more than friends because he never want to commit. but days and days later we did that. now he's ignoring me or only texts me when he wants to makeout or something. he acts so different, distant from me. now I don't know what to do. i Know i messed up but i really love him and I can't move on.

[Wonderwhat]

I can't find the part where you are an "idiot" he was just a douchie guy that took advantage over you and your feelings. You didn't do anything wrong a lot of people are deceptive like that and you just fell pray to him

[Asker]

Thank you. i really feel disgusted that i fell for him. but how can someone change this much? I've known him for years. this is what scaring me

[Wonderwhat]

That happens a lot. You think you know someone and then you find out they weren't who you thought they were.

[Jimmuri]

That really happens a lot, especially that now you slept with him, he probably got what he wanted and since he does not seem interested anymore, those are signs that you should move on. Just because you messed up and you know, you don't need to keep messing up, take a good shower, put on nice clothes and get back to the market, you will find someone who will treasure you.

[Asker]

that's the problem. I can't do anything my feelings and attachment just went up. I'll try my best. thanks

[Jimmuri]

No power liea in you, I know you are heart broken, but ots time to move. The more you stay the more hurt you will become and the more time you will waste. It really hurts, weeping may endure for a night but joy comes in the morning. You will find a better man

[Mcmickeys]

He used you. That is what happens when you give men sex without commitment. He could not care less about you. Men will say ANYTHING to get in your pants. Stay away from him and get a life. Get some hobbies, join some social groups. Join a Bible study group. The Bible has all the answers. God loves you.

[Asker]

i was so blind in love and stupid enough to not think of this. now i I'm stuck

[Mcmickeys]

No you are not stuck. Quit seeing him and immerse yourself in good things, good activities. You need to remember you are precious in God’s eyes. That is what matters. This earth is temporary.

[IJhonnyI]

Not all men but yes ofc listen too what @Mcmickeys is saying she's trying to guide you into the correct direction concentrate on yourself instead of men reread what @Mcmickeys is saying she isn't saying this for no reason

[Mcmickeys]

@IJhonnyI that is right! Im an old broad with experience! Seek God’s wisdom. You can love the world or you can love God, not both. No one wishes they would have become a Christian later in life.