What would you do if you met an "evil twin" of your current or dream partner; someone who looks just like them, but the opposite in personality?

[MCheetah]

Kali Shin, age 24

So, this is kinda weird to explain. There's this girl online, in particular TikTok, who's a total doppelganger for my late ex-fiancée, who would've been 32 this year. This girl, also a redhead, looks 99% like her in body measurements, and kinda looks like her in face. Only EVERYTHING about her personality is revolting to me! She's literally like an "evil twin" version of the woman I loved. She's younger by eight years, so it's not her, but still.

This lookalike girl is super-queer, has horrendously ugly tattoos, drinks, smokes and does drugs, doesn't take care of her body, has stretch marks and scars unlike the girl I knew, a deep, masculine "BJ voice" like a ex po rn star, and is the epitome of "vapid, obnoxious, self-absorbed Zoomer." And of course, she has an OnlyFans page... 🙄

It's freaking me out because she's like a twin, or at the very least a little sister with identical genetics, to the woman I loved, except everything about her personality sucks. It's got me kinda f*cked up, because it's like she's back, but at the same time, it's like she's back and has become everything I hate about modern society. I don't even know how to feel about her existence. Almost like some arch supervillain of mine resurrected her from the dead as a clone, and made her the most vapid, narcissistic, attention whore possible, and everything I'd hate in a female, just to f*ck with me.

What would you do if you knew someone out like this existed? Someone who looks like the love of your life, but a f*cked-up "evil" version of them you'd despise.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I automatically conclude that:

1. There are many visual clones of any ex girlfriend I've had, since there are over 8 billion people on earth and humans are not that variable that repeats are rare.

2. That exes are exes because they are in some way, incompatible (unless they passed away, but to my knowledge, none have (I don't talk to them)).

3. That in some ways, certain opposing mental traits would be postive, simply because the ex has compatibility issues that made them into an ex.

[exitseven]

That is really messed up. This is not your ex. She is not even a suitable clone. If she was a hot looking girl and had all these attributes would you even give her a second thought? Probably not I imagine. So do not waste anymore time on this person. Nothing good will come of it.

[MCheetah]

I do not understand. But okay.

[JosyJosy]

I'll do a test call and if it's not him I'll take a picture and show it to my actual partner later.

[hahahmm]

Nothing. A serious relationship requires more than looks so unless you're only talking about sex there's no difference between the one who looks like someone you like and the one that doesn't. Many years ago I ran into a woman who looked 100% like a younger version of my wife. I felt drawn to her but I ignored that feeling & kept it moving.

[ShadezMcgee]

See if I could banish it from where it came from with Holy water and whatever bible passages to help expedite it.

[sheikalana]

I would make sure they stay awake from me.

[MCheetah]

Stay awake? You mean, in bed?

(*"away")

[sheikalana]

definitely away LOL.

[TacosRAwesome]

Wear a cross and pelt them with garlic.

[JesseJayNeak]

I’d square her up

[MCheetah]

What does that mean?

[JesseJayNeak]

Stand my ground to any shit she tries