I dont know if I am doint the right things to make the girl I like , fall for me or be interested in me , can you give me advice pls?

[CompreensiveLOG43]

Hi Everyone!

Im having issues about my relationship whit me crush, we have been talking for 2 weeks and since day 3/4 we showed mutual interest on being togehter often but we haven't been together yet because life...

Say this from this 2 weeks we got to know each other share stories of our fathers and mothers adventures, we shared vacations spots we want to go but the most important thing is i feel like she is there for me and me for her, She already told me she didn't regret respoding to me instagram text, she already told me that she might been talking to the wrong guys until she met me , she told me im so caring for her and restless towards her and told me i was cute and thing like that

And what i have been doing was being there for her, being honest and compreensive and listen to her, 2 nights ago i "stayed" whit her during her intership on nurse duties i stayed up from 22:30 PM to 7:00AM to keep her company since she felt lonely and casted out, today i found out she had a bad day by texting her "i hope everything is fine" since she didn't say nothing all day, after that i she told me she had a bad time and was sorry for not saying anything and said today she didn't feel being on the phone, from that i understood she needed time for her and all i said was "(Her name) you dont need to apologize to me i understand that sometimes we have days like this and we need time by ourselfs and now you need time for you so i will be here tommorow if you want to talk to me , if it helps in anyway about what you are going through i like you and i will be here for you!" and finished whit "I will never be like "other guys" whit you" she just thanks and i know and liked my text...
This Monday im gonna try to be whit her since her intership hospital is 5 min from my uni and im gonna wait for her and i think my first instinct is to hug her

From this i dont know if what im doing is correct for her to fall for me and i dont know even if she is interested but i relaly care for her

[SueShe]

You are NOT doing the correct thing if...

Your action's aim is solely to get her attention and once she has it, you will use this attention to get into her pants.

If your action is sincere and you have absolutely no intentions to misuse her weakness, then it is ok. However, I feel that your aim in not as innocent as you seem to want to portray it. There is always a final goal in every action. What is yours?

If she falls for your trick, will you continue to be so responsive with her in 5 years or will you revert to your usual behavior after you achieved what you wanted?

If you stay with your good deed for all the time you are with this girl, then you have my esteem but if your scheme is solely to get her where you want and then revert to your usual self, then I have a different opinion of you.

[CompreensiveLOG43]

My aim is not to get into her pants even because in love relationship whit my partner i really dont care about "sex" i care about intimacy and i think that is two different worlds, what i want is a smile on her face a feeling of safety a feeling of being cared and above all feeling loved, i will never prentend something im not to get something i dont really care about (sex)

My final goal is being there for her in bad days and hug her, give har pat on the head a kiss on the forehead and say im here, im not gonna leave you and on the good days make memories i know it sound corny but its who i am

Like keanu reeves said "if you are a lover you got to be a fighter, because if you dont fight for you love what kind of love do you have" and i want to fight for he.

[Espresso-Grande]

Ypu put the ball I'm her court after you sent that nice last message. So i would leave it at that first Now and see if she reaches out to you.

[CompreensiveLOG43]

She reached out today when she woke up and said i was incredible and unbeliavable my care and care and affection towards her are amazing for all she has being through her intership she said that she doesn't think she does mutch for me but i said otherwise and i will tell you Espresso-Grande she gave me hope...

Jokingly i told her im sorry for being too mutch towards her and she said im too mutch to her in a good way , and i got jokingly mad cuz she says sorry a lot but in joke said if you say sorry again i dont know what i will do to you hahahah, just to light the mood

[Espresso-Grande]

That's great!! I'm happy for you. Try not to overthink. Be your usual self and continue to be who are with her. The right person will always want you. So don't change. Accept she liked the way you are with her. Good luck

[Wubs3000]

She seems interested in you but I would wait a little. You never want to ask someone out when they are having a bad week or something, and you don't want to take advantage of her or have her feel like that. (also I would avoid the "Im not like other guys)

[CompreensiveLOG43]

Im just try to give my support since i will be close to her she is Monday, i dont mind waiting a bit and i dont think more of a date but more of a im here

[Iron_Man]

Be who you are just play it cool and let nature take it’s course

[CompreensiveLOG43]

Wise words i just feel i need to put the effort :D

[Guy13]

Ask her out directly on a date.

[CompreensiveLOG43]

Monday im gonna try to be whit her regardless i just feel i need to be there for her

[Guy13]

Ask her out if you like her OR you will find yourself sitting in the missing gay friend 🪑

[CompreensiveLOG43]

I hear you tommorow i will ask her out

[Avicenna]

Maje a move when you feel the time is right

[CompreensiveLOG43]

Tommorow im gonna ask her if she wants me to wait for her to catch the train and if she feels like it grab something to eat before that

[CompreensiveLOG43]

I just want her to feel safe whit me and i want her to be happy , i want to be there for her to give confort on a bad day and make her smile, and be part of her good days , im old fashioned in terms of love despite my age