Boyfriend got jealous of a male friend?

[Anonymous]

I recently helped a friend that needed my help and my boyfriend freaked out. Said it was very disrespectful of me to put him in between my friend and him. I told him we never dated and he insinuated that we used to f*ck around which we never did we've always been friends and that's it. How should I react and how should I deal with this behavior I want him to understand there's no one else but him

[DaveJord]

Yeah, well... when I am dating someone I don't hang out or spend serious time with other women. Because ots disrespectful to my girlfriend and rightfully so. Because i never hung out with a women or spent serious time with her if i knew i would fuck her in an heart beat if i had tge chance.

If think my girlfriend is hot and sexy, then of course other guys think she is to... so yeah, yeah he's your friend and your just friend I get it... but if you gave this guy the chance he'd probably fuck you in a second. If ever asked him of course he'd ly about, he's just trying to stay relevant in your life whe you're dating this other guy for now.

So as a man I don't need, want or appreciate any 3rd wheels or other guys laying about like snakes in the grass... just waiting for an opportunity guy friend or not. Its not that I wouldn't trust or believe you, but no way do I trust or belief the other guy. Because I got a penis to and know how a man uses one,. and no am i dating a women that this other loser wouldn't want to get with friend or not. He's a snake, and why would he need your help from you and only you... like there's seriously nobody else and it just had to be you? Hummm... nope not buying it and nope I would not put up with it either.

[Anonymous]

He’s insecure. I mean if he did that for a female friend of his how would you take it? That was my first thought as well. That your friend banged you. You can try to show him a million ways but that’s always going to be in the back of his mind. So either you say ok I can’t change your mind I’ll just move on, or you dump him. Ask him what do you have to do to prove that to him that you never slept w the other dude?

[Asker]

thank you for your words that was actually helpful

[mandyfire98]

He's a jealous person, he's insecure. If this continues your relationship is going to suck lol. That insecurity is only going to make everything worse.

[slatyb]

How you should deal with this behavior? Dump him and date an adult.

[Asker]

You know I feel like nowadays leaving instead of fixing an issue is the easiest way to go. We both have a really good relationship with each other I'm not going to leave him just because he got jealous I want to understand what can I do better

[Marianna546]

Hmm find someone more mature bae

[Asker]

But he's a mature man. You cannot judge him like that based on something I wrote no one is perfect

[Marianna546]

Yeah you are right lol

[spartan55]

Help with what? Getting an erection?

[jahaims]

What does he mean by you put him in between?